Writer & illustrator of stories, essays and feminist comics. '22 NEA fellow. Work in TIME, Vox, New York Times, Washington Post, etc. Very charming IRL. she/her
It’s likely I’ll still post links to new work here for the time being, but if you’re looking for the jokes, hot takes, and general ramblings, here’s where to find me:
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Guy at the gym just made me stop my workout and take off my headphones so he could tell me I look great, and then when I said “Oh. I know, *he* was annoyed.
I went to a new gynecologist today and the room was SO WARM that I became instantly and irreparably angry at every other gynecologist's office that has left me shivering in the little paper dress for twenty-five years.
If you hate the idea of having to wear a mask on an airplane against your will, wait until you hear about having to carry an unwanted pregnancy inside your body on an airplane against your will.
Kid in my son’s class explained to me that she was sure he has two moms because he has “the pretty mom and the other mom.” She described each to me in some detail.
Reader, both are me.
If they won’t let women have methotrexate because they might accidentally become pregnant and miscarry the embryo, we should sure as hell not let men have guns because sometimes they go nuts and murder a bunch random strangers at concerts and parades on purpose.
It’s simple, guys. Other countries don’t have mass shootings because all of their schools and churches and nightclubs and grocery stores and outdoor concert arenas have only one door.
Keep seeing tik toks of parents complaining that the “girl” toddler shorts are way shorter than the “boy” toddler shorts and parent hack: you can just buy the “boy” shorts for your daughter, like they don’t enforce it
That NYT front page names only 1% of the Americans who have died from Covid-19. I found that a bit difficult to grasp, so I copy/pasted it 100 times to get a sense of scale. The first image below is what it would look like if you could see all 100,000 names.
So giving a 12-year-old trans boy in Texas testosterone is child abuse, but forcing a 12-year-old rape victim to carry a pregnancy to term and give birth is…good?
This is exactly the crux of it. There’s nothing more horrifying, more terrifying, to these men than smart, independent women who don’t need them for shit.
I’m sorry, but after 9 years I can’t take it anymore. If you ask *me* why *my* children that *I* grew in *my* body have my last name and not their father’s, you’re going to get a little speech about the patriarchy. So just get comfy. It’s happening.
Remember when all the schools and daycares closed for like a year and the whole country was like, “Eh, we’ll just let the women deal with that”? I’m gonna be mad about that for a *while*
Guys I ignored my WIP for 2 weeks and I just checked in on it and the word count is exactly the same as it was 2 weeks ago. What am I doing wrong?? I'm keeping my laptop in a sunny place and keeping it plugged in for almost the whole day. Thoughts?
Hundreds of New York Times contributors and readers: We’re concerned that the anti-trans bias in your paper could have devastating effects, both on individuals and society as a whole.
The New York Times:
The next person who says “I could never do it!” to me re: pandemic parenting is getting a VERY lengthy lecture. Oh, you couldn’t do this? Neither can I!! No one can do this!Moms haven’t been given special superpowers to get us through the pandemic! WE HAVE LITERALLY ZERO OPTIONS!
Not to invalidate anyone’s sexuality but whenever I meet a woman who claims to be 100% straight, I’m just like, really, though? But, like, have you ever seen literally any woman ever?
Look at your bodies, women! Strong nails, sharp teeth, stomach full of acid. God created you for the magnificent job of consuming the flesh of your enemies! What can be more important than this?!?!
Look at your bodies, women! Breasts, ovaries, and a womb. God created you for the magnificent job of creating and nourishing new life! What can be more important than this?!?!
Sent my bf a link to the Matt Gaetz news and he said “I hope his ex-girlfriend is being interviewed by the feds in the presence of her legal guardian.” And I fainted.
Tired: Drinking too much wine and Amazon Priming random things to your house.
Wired: Having too many edibles and donating to Elizabeth Warren three times in one night.
If you live in California, tell me you voted “no” AND mailed or dropped off your ballot, and I will study your twitter feed and give you a sincere compliment! Go!
Bigfoot erotica but instead of dragging me to the woods and ravaging me, he moves into my house, does 51% of the domestic labor, and teaches me how to fold a fitted sheet 🥵
Six young women are found dead in the same area and the police say people shouldn't be alarmed because there's no evidence the deaths are related? Sirs--that means THERE ARE 6 DIFFERENT PEOPLE OUT THERE KILLING YOUNG WOMEN! How is that less alarming?
Writers: What's the most important part of your writing process?
For me, it's closely inspecting all of the houses within 20 miles of me that are listed on Zillow.
The tricky thing about parenting is that you can never tell if you’re doing a good job or not because your supervisor is a child and their feedback is insane.
People are already mad at me again, so let me be very clear. My point is not that ALL babies should have their mom’s last names. It’s that ALL babies should have MY last name. 😈
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Oh man. You took away 51% of the population’s long-held rights to bodily autonomy and we didn’t like it? Who could have seen that coming?????
Here's the definitive proof that Hallie Parker hallucinates her "long lost" twin sister as a way of coping with unprocessed trauma from her parents divorce in 1998's The Parent Trap. Annie, Hallie's twin who has been "living in England" is actually dead the whole time. 🧵 1/73
I didn’t learn a second language or anything, but I have used this pandemic to master the art of giving myself multi-tonal color AND a shadow root all from just one box of whatever hair dye is on sale at Walgreens. Should I make a skillshare class y/n?
I don’t take this medication, but it was on the list of possible drugs to treat my uveitis. Please hear me when I say taking chemotherapy drugs is no small deal and ramping on and off them suuuuuucks. If a person’s body tolerates this one, it shouldn’t be taken away from them.
My new life goal is to hit the sweet spot where I’m good-looking enough to make everyone I went to high school with mad, but not so good-looking that I have to date Pete Davidson.
Already mad that 5 weeks from now I’m going to have to read articles about 6 members of the same family dying from covid w tag lines like “They thought they were sharing a turkey dinner, but what they were really sharing was far worse” and dumb illustrations that look like this:
Ladies, what’s your favorite thing about living under constant threats of sexual violence? For me it’s not being able to wear skirts or dresses on public transportation.
So many people in my mentions with some variation of “Why would you give the kids your father’s last name instead of your husband’s?” I don’t see it as my father’s name, I see it as *my* name! You erasing me completely is actually the exact problem I’m pointing to!!! 😡
I have an autoimmune disorder that requires me to take immune-suppressing medication so I don’t go blind. The pandemic isn’t over for us.
#IHaveAPreexistingCondition
I wrote an essay about internet hate. You should read it.
"Hate becomes the water you swim in. After all, if you’re going to post that or write that or draw that, then you better be ready for people to call you a cunt."
Did I ever tell you guys about the time I sent an essay to a
#goals
lit mag and got a terrible form rejection. And then got solicited by them within the same year, sent them the *same* essay, and they published it in their magazine and nominated it for a pushcart?
I think my favorite was under “Instructor’s Greatest Weaknesses” and read: “I noticed that Aubrey had put on some weight, but then I found out she had a baby last semester so it’s understandable.”
I woke up this morning with fewer rights than I had yesterday. I’m too angry to be coherent on Twitter, so I’ll just leave this link here, where I say everything I need to say:
Elon fundamentally misunderstands Twitter here. Most users aren’t here to get *their* tweets read. They’re here to *see what other people are saying*. If you make that difficult (even for people who fork over $8), what’s the fucking point?
Elon just compared non-verified accounts going forward to emails in a spam folder. Sounds like you'll need to pay for Twitter Blue for people to actually read your tweets. No more of those "this site is free" jokes, folks.
Very annoyed at my doctor boyfriend who *refused* to call in a prescription for my son’s pink—eye even though urgent care lines were wrapped around 2 blocks. And when I asked him to explain, would only say “aUbrEy i HavE a pHd iN liTerAtUre” 🙄🙄🙄
I need some advice from women who live alone! How do you sell furniture on craigs list? Do you just factor the odds of murder/dismemberment into the listing price or…?
This is Andrew Giuliani talking (in public, into a microphone attached to speakers) about his 4-month-old daughter. And tell me again how Disney movies with queer characters are “grooming” children into being sexual used too early 🙄🤢