i don’t care

If your partner is upset and your first instinct is to get defensive, you’re not actually listening- you’re protecting your ego.

choose people who choose you. prioritise people who prioritise you. take a bullet for the people who’d do the same for you.

loving someone is basically granting them the power to hurt you. and every time you get hurt, you start to love less.

If you’re looking for closure, let me tell you this. The lack of love was the closure. the lack of care and concern was the closure. the lack of apology was the closure. the lack of accountability and honesty, that was the closure.

sometimes we break our own hearts by believing we matter more to others simply because they matter so much to us. The truth is people show how they feel through their actions — so pay attention to that, not just their words.

Sucks not knowing what someone does behind your back. All you can do is hold it down on your end.. It’ll catch up to them no matter how long it takes. Control what you can control.

letting someone else think they got a chance is cheating. hiding things from your partner to avoid conflict is cheating. being able to say "i love you" to your partner while entertaining someone else is cheating.

you don’t have to die to be dead to me… I hold mental funerals every day.

people will always love you as per their convenience. so please love yourself right first and foremost

apologise when you’re wrong. don’t look for quotes to support your stupidity

you don’t need a lot of friends. just the right ones

I’ll be hot again soon I’m just losing my mind rn.

people really do be too easy. this generation isn’t for relationships.

“ what motivates you to keep going? “ coffee and pure hate.

be his calm. be his home. don’t be another battle he has to face.

the person i needed the most taught me that i need nobody.

please know the difference between people who love you, people love to be around you and people who love what you can do for them.

Exes be like “I’m over you” and then go date a temu version of you.

I ain’t fixing shit no more, ima tell you one more time how I feel. fix it or get away from me. simple.

you can’t control someone who knows how to be alone. they don’t need you — they chose you. that’s power.