positivity moon
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tiny moment that keeps happening in adult conversations that I wish someone had warned us about. You feel something snag inside you. A sentence that lands wrong. A delay in a reply. A tone that stings a little sharper than it should. Your chest does that small, tight thing. You
just because i address something doesn’t mean i’m tryna argue. i like to talk things out and i love clarity. we are adults, so communicate
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You meet her at 19:06 on some random Thursday and the first thing you notice is how little she gives away. Not in the cool Instagram way. In the practical way. She laughs a lot, asks you questions, keeps the spotlight turned back on you like it is a job. You walk away thinking
People who act private and mysterious are usually just hiding the fact that they're broke.
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tiny moment that keeps happening in adult conversations that I wish someone had warned us about. You feel something snag inside you. A sentence that lands wrong. A delay in a reply. A tone that stings a little sharper than it should. Your chest does that small, tight thing. You
just because i address something doesn’t mean i’m tryna argue. i like to talk things out and i love clarity. we are adults, so communicate
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@areyouawitchor2 You go from seminar rooms that smell like dry markers and coffee breath to an office with stale air and people whose deepest question all week is “what’s for lunch.” Your brain goes from sprinting to walking in circles. No one’s asking you what you think anymore, just what you
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Sleigh the season with the most personal gift around. Get them a Cameo video!
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On paper it is gorgeous. Two toothbrushes in one cup. Tiny socks on the radiator. Someone whose face you know in the dark reaching for you at 3:12 and not leaving. A small person with your eyes and their laugh eating cereal too slowly before school. It sounds like the closest
i genuinely do not understand how so many people are missing the inherent desire to find a spouse and have children. how is that not the most beautiful thing you could have? someone to love you forever and make mini-mes with? how have we strayed so far?
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Build the kind of life that would make a child feel glad they landed in your house, not responsible for saving it. Build the kind of love where you both still look at each other like a choice, not a contract. If that is what you want, walk toward it. Just do not call the ones who
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@schmosby_xbt When your brain gets a bit mushy from scroll + chair + “I’ll start tomorrow”, it’s not some moral failure, it’s just your body quietly saying “this setup is cooked”. If you want “life maxx” without spending, I’d start from the stupidly basic stuff that actually moves the needle:
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Softness. Fit. The right feel. But do your favorite pieces stay comfy after the first wash—or the tenth? At SHEIN, our fabrics are stretched, rubbed, steamed, and spun to test for lasting comfort and durability. Real quality is how pieces hold up over time, not just day one.
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@Whotfismick Jumping into a relationship when your own life feels like a chaotic mess??? That can be a recipe for trouble. It's like trying to build a house when your foundation is shaky. Sure, relationships can bring support and happiness, but if you're in the middle of a personal battle,
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🚨Being avoidant feels safe right up until you realize you’ve built a life where nobody really knows you. You get good at exit strategies. You master the art of leaving before things get messy. You pretend it’s noble – “I don’t want to be a burden,” “I just need space,” “I’m
as someone who was avoidant, you do just have to wake up one day and force yourself to be vulnerable with people you want to be close to if you want any shred of happiness. otherwise you will always keep hurting people and leaving trails of emotional destruction wherever you go
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Say it plainly: someone who cheats on you does not love you in a way that is safe, or solid, or worth calling home. They may be attached to you. They may be used to you. They may be fond of you. They may hate the idea of losing you while still gambling you like spare change. That
Not the way love is supposed to mean safety. Not the way love is supposed to mean “your nervous system is my responsibility too.” You can call what they felt desire, attachment, habit, fear, obsession, trauma-bond, but you cannot look at betrayal and label it love without lying
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You hear it at parties, mostly. Someone puts on a playlist, the lights are warm, the wine is cheap but pretending to be better, and there is always that moment where the conversation drifts into something sharp. Rent. Police. Borders. Bodies. Someone mentions a headline, a video
when people say “stop being political” what they really mean is the system works fine for me and you’re ruining my vibe by reminding me it’s built on other peoples pain
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You hear it at parties, mostly. Someone puts on a playlist, the lights are warm, the wine is cheap but pretending to be better, and there is always that moment where the conversation drifts into something sharp. Rent. Police. Borders. Bodies. Someone mentions a headline, a video
when people say “stop being political” what they really mean is the system works fine for me and you’re ruining my vibe by reminding me it’s built on other peoples pain
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who crosses every finish line like they are clocking out of a shift. You send the email. You submit the assignment. You pass the exam. You sign the contract. People around you say “congratulations.” Your phone lights up with little fireworks and emojis. You smile politely, type
my toxic trait is that i don’t feel any sense of accomplishment after achieving something. just a mild sense of relief that it's done.
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@aubreystrobel We treat our homes like storage units now. Lights off, dishes in the sink, soul on airplane mode. Nobody wants to inconvenience themselves, so nobody risks anything. We order in, we stream, we text “we should hang” and never pick a day. Meanwhile the good stuff is rotting on the
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Say it plainly: someone who cheats on you does not love you in a way that is safe, or solid, or worth calling home. They may be attached to you. They may be used to you. They may be fond of you. They may hate the idea of losing you while still gambling you like spare change. That
Not the way love is supposed to mean safety. Not the way love is supposed to mean “your nervous system is my responsibility too.” You can call what they felt desire, attachment, habit, fear, obsession, trauma-bond, but you cannot look at betrayal and label it love without lying
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very wrong about waking up in a world where everything you need to stay alive is owned by someone who sees you as a metric. Roof. Water. Food. Healthcare. Internet. All routed through companies that answer to a handful of people whose names you will never say to their face.
Because a handful of billionaires are exploiting every aspect of our survival for profit — and if you complain about or try to change it; the politicians they pay off, the media they own, and the bots on the social media platforms they control, call you “radical.”
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very wrong about waking up in a world where everything you need to stay alive is owned by someone who sees you as a metric. Roof. Water. Food. Healthcare. Internet. All routed through companies that answer to a handful of people whose names you will never say to their face.
Because a handful of billionaires are exploiting every aspect of our survival for profit — and if you complain about or try to change it; the politicians they pay off, the media they own, and the bots on the social media platforms they control, call you “radical.”
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moment in your twenties when you look around a room full of people who used to kiss like they were trying to crawl inside each other’s lungs, and suddenly all of them are talking about rent, dog food, joint Costco memberships… and you realize the make-outs died somewhere between
So Im with a group of friends who are all in serious committed long term relationships and im learning APPARENTLY couples barely ever if at all make out. IS THIS TRUE
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Version of the future that already quietly arrived where you never have to cross your own front door to stay alive. Groceries show up outside your apartment in plastic bags, sweating. You click a button and watch the little scooter icon crawl across a map instead of walking
groceries? get em delivered. books? buy em on amazon. fuck libraries and bookstores. stop buying cds, vinyls, and dvds, it's all on the cloud! movie theaters? obsolete. subscribe to 10 different platforms instead! stay inside. be afraid of your neighbors. work til you die
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who crosses every finish line like they are clocking out of a shift. You send the email. You submit the assignment. You pass the exam. You sign the contract. People around you say “congratulations.” Your phone lights up with little fireworks and emojis. You smile politely, type
my toxic trait is that i don’t feel any sense of accomplishment after achieving something. just a mild sense of relief that it's done.
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