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laced and littered with ✨sarcasm✨

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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
6 years
May the Lord come through for you in ways unspeakable.
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diShineShine
19 days
There’s a TikTok of this girl whose talking stage of 5 months invited to sleep over. On Friday night, they slept hungry. Saturday, no breakfast, for lunch he made spaghetti, baked beans and chicken breast. She asked to shower, he made her buy electricity 😭😭😭
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diShineShine
11 months
“Let everything you do be done in love” 🤍
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Your favourite tattoo on your body?
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
2 months
This gentleness is cultivated by how your man treats you
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2 months
Kudingeka usisi onomoya opholile onenjabulo kanje lempilo engiyiphilayo mina
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diShineShine
12 days
“rain drop, drop top - under that wig is a domkop”
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She is telling the truth.
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diShineShine
5 months
Gents don’t speak about how weird they become when they have financial stress. Women react to that. Like- you’re rude, you’re lashing out, you’re making all sorts of demands and you still expect your wife to be chill and just take it?? Immediately no.
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Being a man is hard 😔 God will test your faith , i can't imagine loosing your job and your marriage falling apart right after
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diShineShine
2 years
Took headshots today. LinkedIn going uuup
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diShineShine
2 months
Surviving Noah (formerly known as Anelisiwe Buhle Kwezi Mbude): a thread 🧵 TW: emotional abuse, manipulation and control.
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diShineShine
19 days
They didn’t eat for the rest of Saturday and he asked for bums that night. She said no. 😭😭😭 Sunday she asked him to go buy her small chips, this man bought medium chips and 2 viennas WITH HER MONEY 🤣🤣🤣😭
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diShineShine
3 months
Mara bashimane? Number 1
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
9 months
Ngaze ngamuhle
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@SirLeoBDasilva
Leo Dasilva
9 months
I want to see how you look without filter
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diShineShine
21 days
Look at the art? Analyze the art? Talk about the art? Critique the art with a little iced latte? Trash talk the artists pricing? Go to openings?
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TYE
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art gallery dates are so— nifika nenze ntoni pha?
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
8 months
@richy_wrld “Please find attached my resignation letter 🤪💅🏽”
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
11 months
Did you know that mortuaries prefer not to hire men because they often sleep with the corpses?? These aren’t the people whose opinions we should be using to guide our lives.
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Numbuh 5 🖤🖤🖤
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
19 days
When he gave her the change, she needed R2 more for taxi fare to go home. This gent gave her a R2 coin 😭😭🤣🤣🤣 Burnyana burkha???
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
5 months
So MaZulu are fighting because you can’t wear a pleated leather skirt to your barmitzvah??? Wild.
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diShineShine
5 years
Monk.
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
3 months
Is this the guy that said we’re killing farmers?
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diShineShine
19 days
😭😭😭😭
@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
19 days
There’s a TikTok of this girl whose talking stage of 5 months invited to sleep over. On Friday night, they slept hungry. Saturday, no breakfast, for lunch he made spaghetti, baked beans and chicken breast. She asked to shower, he made her buy electricity 😭😭😭
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
6 years
I like things... #FineNdebeleWomen
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
3 months
they said ✨visually impaired✨
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
3 months
My current glass frame? Yoh. I’m obsessed 😭😮‍💨
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
2 months
Next thing you know your career is over, ntwana, over some characters??
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diShineShine
2 months
ngo 7 ekseni. the next opening meeting at his new job will be about harassment
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diShineShine
4 months
What people think what working in construction vs what it actually is 😭💀
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diShineShine
13 days
@cnehshuga The yeast infection:
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diShineShine
18 days
Update: she stayed because she’s from a strict parent household and she’s told her mom that she’s visiting a friend that weekend. Had she gone home sooner, she’d be questioned and have to lie on top of lying already. She’s sooo sweet 🥺. Take it easy on my girl ❤️
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
11 months
Haven’t changed one bit.
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@mprkell
seesaynnn
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I wanna see y’all baby pictures and y’all now ….👀
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diShineShine
2 months
Me as a dlozi when my great grandkids try to give me fermented beer:
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diShineShine
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
19 days
😭😭😭😭
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
4 months
Here are bad pictures of my cute outfit.
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
1 year
The finance guy at the back.
@saintloungecpt
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1 year
#SaintNYE Book Your Minimum Spend. Book Now!! 067 410 8043 | 066 488 2649 | 065 823 4625 | 064 301 5414 #BuiltForPurePleasure
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diShineShine
6 months
@Valeriejoseph_ Let go of the idea that you have to be likeable. Put your foot down
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diShineShine
3 months
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
4 years
Hi guys, here’s my face. Thank you 😂✨
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diShineShine
21 days
The hand rub and bowed head? 😭😭 He’s so humbly drunk. Drunk with all due respect.
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Thami
22 days
Lenkosani ngeke 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙆🏾‍♂️
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
4 months
@dineonono Nope, they slide the tissue box and wait for you to finish then ask you “what was that emotion? Walk me through that feeling” Haibo??? Hug me???
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diShineShine
19 days
I actually can’t believe this 😭😭😭
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diShineShine
5 months
@Menzii_ Take it easy bro. It’s gonna be a long life ❤️
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diShineShine
2 months
It will thrive and continue. He hasn’t kept friends or relationships in forever and it’s really sad. I’m sending all my love to everyone who has experienced him and is traumatised. I hope you find peace and healing. You deserve love and it will find you ❤️ END.
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diShineShine
24 days
@simajwili Was it in Rosebank?
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diShineShine
8 months
Color ya manyora 🤍
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@smoove_cold
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11 months
lemme see you in BLACK 🖤
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
5 months
@Sthembi19281518 Sorry king 🙏🏽 let me hit a dlamu for my sins.
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
2 months
Thank you so much for all the love and support and kind messages ❤️ People who’ve followed me know I just tweet nonsense all day and keep to myself but it’s really crazy trying to amicable with someone who put you through it and seeing them sanitise their name at your expense.
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
12 days
@Maureen_Murai I just can’t believe she looked at that situation and deduced that
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
1 month
Being adored is so nice. Someone looking at you and saying “you’re so beautiful” and you can hear that stuff from the depths of their heart? Yoh. 🥺🧎🏽‍♀️
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diShineShine
4 months
This FINISHED me 😭😭😭😭
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MISS KAY👑
4 months
The greatest TikTok you’ve seen this year?
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diShineShine
4 years
Hi
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diShineShine
6 years
Tsoari Masanabo, Ngobelitje, Ngoma (my brother & I)
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diShineShine
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My dad became unit commander of the K-9 unit while I was in primary and him and his colleagues would do dog shows at my school concurrently with our civvies days. And they’d pick me to hide drugs for the dogs to find 😭😭
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diShineShine
7 months
@Queen_Finxa There’s a lady on TikTok who washed her dustbin in there. I said ???
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diShineShine
8 months
When a couple of guys who were up to no good started making trouble in my neighborhood. So I got in one little fight and my mom got scared and she sent me to go live with my auntie and uncle. eBeleh, cabanga.
@Eksemandisa
Mandi Flora ❤️🌹 PMB florist
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When did you realise that your parents hate you ?😭
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diShineShine
3 months
@becomingShika I’m so sorry that happened to you 💔
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diShineShine
24 days
Haibo, found you cute. Wine tomorrow. 15:00. Rosebank.
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Zinks
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Just be pretty 🖤
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diShineShine
5 months
just marry a Vaal girl and live happily ever after. 🙏🏽❤️
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diShineShine
2 months
I’m doing this because I’ve been too quiet for too long and this has allowed @/noahxche to say things about me, publicly that are not factually correct (1) and 2. There are so many women, non-binary people and friends who have experienced a terrible side to this person
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diShineShine
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Yoh. 😭💔
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diShineShine
9 months
Yoh. This is FINISHING me😭😭
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diShineShine
2 months
The day. And would get mad if you weren’t as passionately responsive as you were the first time. ie- he’d complain about his colleagues and narrate the same situation about 10, 12 times a day which is okay to vent out loud. But he’d be mad on the 12th time that you didn’t respond
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diShineShine
4 months
@Givenkazeni Long floral maxi dress, middle part wig ka di push-in
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diShineShine
5 months
@FungaiTinny Breaks my heart because I really mess with leather tralalas 😭💔🧎🏽‍♀️
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diShineShine
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@ZeeRight @drug_sorcery “Weh Mbali o, vela bandla” 😭😭😭😭
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diShineShine
2 months
The talking stage was nice. There was a fair bit of love bombing at the beginning but I was going through a lot academically at the time (still am lol) and so it felt great to have someone bring you snacks you like if you dare shed a single tear. Lol
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
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Like the first time. 2. He barely ever acknowledged his wrongs and could not introspect. Some of the work situations, he was very clearly the villain and when I’d say “but you’re wrong” he’d yell and say I’m not supportive, etc.
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diShineShine
13 days
😄😆
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diShineShine
2 months
We talked, he later sent me flowers shortly after with a little note. Then asked if he can take me out on a date. I said yes and we went out as soon as he was back from CPT.
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diShineShine
9 days
Ja, why?
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@ndugumr
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are yall stomachs flat?🤔
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diShineShine
2 months
He’s a very talkative person and can really talk from the moment you wake up until you go to bed. I’m less talkative in my downtime and enjoy lengthy periods of silence. One of the first red flags was that 1. he would ruminate, out loud, about the same thing throughout
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diShineShine
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Every single time I’d go home, he’d start a fight. Every single time. It became something I knew for sure. And sometimes I’d have to be on my phone consistently when I should be spending time with family.
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
2 months
Like clockwork m.
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diShineShine
5 months
MaTsoari ❤️ Ngomelitje, Ngoma
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diShineShine
19 days
😭🧎🏽‍♀️
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diShineShine
2 months
Whenever I’d ask to please spend time by myself (because of what I now know is overstimulation, I wasn’t diagnosed with adhd yet) he would be upset. Like “I feel like you don’t want to spend time with me, I just wanted a hug, you’re ignoring my needs” type angry
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diShineShine
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While I understand that sometimes our partners don’t always get it right but after having an argument with someone, I prefer to process things by myself and he would be mad if that took more than an hour or a few. And if he apologized, he’d be mad if the forgiveness turnaround
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diShineShine
1 month
hbd ke cc. Luv u loads ❤️🎈
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diShineShine
2 months
ngo 7 ekseni. the next opening meeting at his new job will be about harassment
@Queen_Finxa
simple boi: mabele & amabele
2 months
CAN NOAH FUCKING STOP HARASSING MY FRIEND OVER EMAIL! Bloody hell!
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
4 months
I don’t know a single bad person who’s a Tuks alumni. All incredible people ❤️
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diShineShine
2 months
I met Noah through a mutual friend, after I’d posted the pictures below. He saw them on our friends phone because they were physically together at the time and asked the friend if I’d mind if he spoke to me. I said no problem
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diShineShine
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You can’t eat in bed and watch stuff (so breakfast in bed kohlwa o). I brushed them off as reasonable things, like maybe he’s just a neat person - I get that some things are off bounds for other people so I didn’t think much of it.
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diShineShine
2 months
Exactly ntombi ❤️
@_foncey
Chokolâite🍫
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@_ThembekileT What she means is, it’s already existent but a good, masculine man enhances your femininity because he will make you feel safe and catered for. Y’all dragging her in the quotes not fair now.
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diShineShine
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I remember him coming home to a home cooked meal I’d made and a movie set up that we’d always talked about and he complained about every single thing. If cleaned the house spotless and he complained about a smudge on the mirror. Yoh hayi.
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
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Mirabelle baby, you’ve outdone yourself.
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diShineShine
2 months
Anyway, here’s a TL cleanse of my beautiful beautiful family 😍🥹 (I’m the last child so I’m obviously the Beyonce of this whole thing 😭💀)
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diShineShine
2 months
Ke re twiiiin. Where have you beeeenn?? 💀😭
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diShineShine
2 months
My brother and I look so alike it’s actually a little scary.
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Couples therapy obviously didn’t work. He said the therapist was coddling me and taking my side. While all this is happening, it looks soooo good on the outside because he could afford certain things and a lot of the conflict would be “resolved” by getting me…
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diShineShine
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@Rochelle__Meyer “And Palesa Haso fetsi lo koropa mara Savana number 1”
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diShineShine
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Not even a month into us talking, I’d visit his place and notice that some things were really off. One of the first things was that he didn’t allow us to eat or drink in his car, you could only eat at his dining table in the house, you can’t eat upstairs in the tv lounge …
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diShineShine
10 months
Bruh, I worked so hard this time for my peace. I am going to guard it with my life.
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diShineShine
2 months
Of getting to know his car. My mood obviously went from really good to terrible and I suck at being yelled at (my parents have never yelled at me). So I cry while we drive in silence to the restaurant. He then complains that I’m crying and says I ruin everything
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diShineShine
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And genuinely make me believe that I was considerate for wanting to be alone. Bear in mind that I’d spend weeks at his place sometimes which can be very overwhelming.
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diShineShine
4 years
I went to a wedding today.
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diShineShine
2 months
Please give my friends and family some privacy in this difficult time 🙏🏽
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diShineShine
6 years
When I feel people distancing themselves, I allow it.
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diShineShine
5 years
so liberated - I gathered the courage to be and become.
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diShineShine
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Love a good ol pixie.
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@MissPeter1
IJOLAKAZI❤️
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Quote a photo of you in your short-hair era😌
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diShineShine
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Fast forward to March, there are sooooo many texts that I’ll have to go through my archives to find. But I broke up with him when things were getting volatile. He wouldn’t communicate effectively but rather yell, bang doors, be extremely enraged.
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diShineShine
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Other. So I’m familiar with the Audi interface because my dad had driven a Golf GTI at one point. So I lower the volume a little so they could speak properly and he absolutely LOST it. He yelled at me and said I’m making myself better and taking away from the experience…
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diShineShine
12 days
@Maso_Keys “Hohay” 😭💀
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diShineShine
17 days
Oh, 100%
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@OGZenJayG
zigga
1 year
Full lips go crazy
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diShineShine
3 years
💫
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diShineShine
3 months
This is how nice it is to be married to a person from the vaal. Find them and live happily ever after 🙏🏽 Follow for more life advice ❤️
@MDNnewss
MDN NEWS
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Dr Musa Mthombeni x Liesl Laurie Mthombeni.❤🌹
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@_ThembekileT
diShineShine
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Here are pictures of me 😂. That's all.
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