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#WhenLoveVisits
Genre: Contemporary romance (Nigerian literature).
Trope: Love at first sight, billionaire/millionaire.
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When people say “for better for worse”, they don’t mean “worse” that comes from your spouse.
They mean the things that life throws at you- health challenges, money problems, death of a child, e.t.c
Stop using “for better, for worse” as justification for abuse and infidelity.
Your child being “too mature” for their age isn’t a good thing. Children aren’t supposed to feel pressured to act like adults. They’re supposed to be able to kids, act out and rebel from time to time.
Always feeling the need to “act right” is making them skip an important…
This thread is why I’ll always maintain that you don’t need people to use their words to say, “I’m no longer interested.” Once you start seeing signs, once they begin moving mad, and refuse to change, that’s all you need to know. That’s all the closure you need. Please just…
Happy girlfriends’ day to all my girls’ girls.
May your hair grow, may your skin glow, may your glutes increase, your stomach flatten, and your bank account fatten 💕💞
Onions, ginger, garlic, parsley and rosemary. Use for your stew and sauces, and to steam your proteins. Makes all the difference, I tell you! Game changer for your meals 🤌🏾
Everyone has been asking who her parents are. I’m finally ready to let the cat out of the bag.
Everyone meet my daughter, Ardella Ireoluwatomiwa Orezimena Akin-Omo🤭🙈
“There’s no marriage without fights, if my husband sexuålly abuses my child, he’ll be reported but that doesn’t mean I’ll divorce home him” Woman says.
P.s: this is not scripted
Men who adore you and never hesitate to show it🥹🥹🥹>>>>>>>
Men who are only committed to giving you peace, cherishing you, and finding better ways to love you🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼>>>>>>>>
“I’m loved at home” is such a huge flex. Like huge, huge. Knowing that no matter what goes wrong in the world, home is always where you can go to feel cherished and safe, is a blessing to the soul.
The best part? Home doesn’t even have to be a place. It’s people. Your own tribe.
Do not hesitate to let people know when they’ve crossed boundaries and put them in their place. No need to be smiling and forming, “It’s okay,” for the sake of peace. You can politely but firmly reinforce and keep it moving.
Less chances of that repeating itself🤝🏽
If she ignores you, she’s rude so you get angry. If she replies you, she’s flirting, so she asked for it.
If she dresses modestly, she’s a prude and you want to see what she’s keeping hidden.
If she dresses sexy, she’s a slut and has no right to refuse.
Anyway, that phase when you begin to fall more deeply in love with your partner because each new day reveals just amazing they truly are, and you’re focused on appreciating even the littlest thing about them, rather than fault finding and nitpicking>>>>>>>>
Lol. Tell a Yoruba guy how you were hurt before, he’ll only prove to you that the former guy was a learner. Their empathy is only a strategy to get down your defences, trust me. Their scum is so professional, you just have to stan.
Ayomide, iwo ni mo n ba soro.
Can we ever really be certain that anything is permanent? I mean, the whole essence of life itself is how fickle it is. People die, marriages crash, firms go bankrupt. How about we just learn to live in the moment- which is really, the only thing we’ll ever be certain about.
Some friends are only available for turn up. Anything that doesn’t align with enjoyment, you can’t see them.
Then there are those that hardly keep in touch, but if you ever need them, you can rest assured that they’ll drop everything else and come through for you.
Dating broke people? No issues at all...
The problem comes when the broke guy is absolutely comfortable with his status, and content with receiving crumbs from others, having zero ambitions.
The problem with dating a broke girl comes when she’s ungrateful, entitled and lazy.
Not this man getting promoted to lead role just 10 months after joining the airline. Same thing back in Nigeria. Became a manager within a year of switching to a new airline😌😌😌
My man, my man, excellence everywhere🤭🤭🤭
November is starting good! Cheers to more to come🥂
These are the same men that you’ll ask what’s wrong, and they’ll tell you nothing. You’ll ask if they’re tired of the relationship and they’ll vehemently say no, they’re just going through stuff, they still love you, you should bear with them. Meanwhile, they be craving those…
Dear husband, when you join your wife to do house chores and other ‘domesticated’ duties, you’re not “helping” her with her “work.” You’re simply pulling your weight as a bonafide member of your family.
It’s so sexy when someone returns your energy... even more attractive when they’re consistent.
No second guesses, no blurred lines... you just know this person is truly for you, coz they show you in words and in deeds.
Bliss.
My best friend.
1. First time I ever had suicidal thoughts, this girl left her house around 11 p.m to come get me. Served me proper fried rice with chicken that night and stayed awake gisting about everything and nothing. It was supposed to have been a night in with her bf.
Landlady wants to evict my gf because different men are always picking and dropping her off, and mama cannot condone promiscuity in her compound as per neighbors are starting to talk...
Different men are bolt drivers 😂😂😂
Throwback to over a year ago, when this interior decorator collected 70% deposit from my sister and stopped picking her calls three weeks to the wedding.
I had to go undercover FBI to get his details🤣🤣🤣 This is how it went down!
A thread!
When schools resume, I’ll take it upon myself to visit the ones I can and talk to the children about consent, sexual harassment and rape.
I believe this is a cause many of us can join as well if we can make out time.
Primary, secondary! Let’s catch them young!
Things I learned from the timeline today:
1. Everyone’s mother is still alive, absolutely healthy, and are readily available for six months omugwo. If they don’t come to take care of your baby, that means you listened to feminists and made them your enemies.
If you know the hot fire I’ve been in because of this saga, you won’t dare come to say it was a stunt. I’m not desperate.
I’m just grateful for my supporting family and friends. They gave me strength and I couldn’t have done this without them.
All that happened was REAL.
I was online all through the night. Seeing the comments and all. I’m grateful for all the love and support. Those who believed in me and cheered me on. I’m so grateful.
There’ve been so many messages. I don’t know where to start from.
I’m thankful to all those who vouched for
I’ve finally accepted what the spirit has been trying to tell me since all these days. My husband is in Arewa Twitter.
Speak on! Your maidservant heareth🙏🏽
Love is so funny🤣🤣🤣
You’ll be having an argument with your person and it’ll be like your world has turned upside down. Your chest will just be ‘tighting’, your temperature will rise, but the moment you settle like this! All is right in the world again. Joy and bliss🥹😍
It’s very possible to be in love with your partner and still “find” other people attractive. You’re in a relationship, not blind.
What truly matters is what you choose to do with that feeling. Do you feed it? Or do you fight against it?
Guys who expresss their emotions are so darn sexy and attractive.
Like you’re missing me and you say it? Yes Zaddy😍😍
You can’t stop telling me you love me? Ei God, more please 😍😍
You wanna spend time with me? I’m coming right over!
You wanna cuddle? Come here my bunny bear😍
One thing about love that I always find intriguing, is how you begin to adjust your lifestyle and choices to accommodate the people who own your heart without even realizing it.
They like their meat soft, so when they’re around, you make sure to cook the meat extra soft.
“Is your hair still natural?” The answer is yes.
“Does it even shrink?” You betcha😫
Don’t mind my morning face. Where my natural ladies at?
Let’s have a
#naturalista
thread! Show off those beautiful crowns😍😍😍
If asked to describe the past year in one word, I’ll say bliss.
But it’s been so much more than that. It’s been peace, joy, friendship, and the kind of love that reaffirms I wasn’t silly for wanting something this beautiful.
I prayed, God answered, but he said “EVEN MORE!” ❤️
Not to be that person, but if you feel ovulation pain, especially if it persists on just one side of your ovaries (left or right), continuously every month, go scan for ovarian cysts🙏🏽
What many people think it’s just ovulation pain might be symptoms of an underlying condition.
Sometimes you need to stay inside the box and think because everything you need is already there.
Stepping outside the box will be like going to Sokoto to find what’s in your sokoto.
Look within yourself. Find what you have. Discover that hidden treasure and use it!
G.M!
Pastor Adeboye’s thread is very reasonable and understandable. Many people think cheating is until you have sex or start dating... well, that doesn’t just happen overnight. It graduates from little things. A compliment there, lunch together there... all intendedly harmless until