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hello my name’s Ivy/Vee/Colette and im a lesbian transfem girl who does whatever interests me !!
hope i can make ur lives just a lil better here <3
(ref by @/Deeziez 💜)
because ive seen a lot of people (especially younger people) struggle with online dating, this thread is here to help you hopefully avoid making mistakes I and many others have in the past
A (not definitive) guide to safe online dating !!
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@PokoChokos
this show’s humour is actually like what a 5 year old imagines an adult cartoon is like this is EMBARASSING
its like when my little brother first tried swearing, he just crammed “fuck” into every sentence he said to be cool snd edgy or whatever
reply if you see this tweet at all /srs
reply with anything and i mean ANYTHING whether you follow me or not
i want to see how many people twitter is showing my tweets
firstly, especially for younger people, consider your age
if there is anything larger than a two year age gap between 13-18, it is in both your best interests to avoid it
this kind of gap leads to abuse, disconnects in maturity, and often a very short relationship
its also VERY important to self evaluate
are YOU ready to have a partner?
are you ready to be that emotionally open, that committed, that close to someone else?
its important to know your own personal boundaries and to know how far your relationship can realistically go
i swear to god if i see one more person say Robtop is lazy im gonna lose my absolute shit
he is worried about quality control
you all fail to realize how difficult gamedev is at least ATTEMPT to sympathize and understand THIS WAS NOT PLANNED
this community is so ungrateful istfg
while 13 year old relationships CAN work, i still urge you with a lot of caution, and would generally discourage it
it often leads to abuse and in many cases grooming, and its in most cases not a good choice to choose an online relationship this early
@The_L0Afer
HELP THIS IS LIKE ACTUALLY ME AJABSOSHS
it makes conversations so difficult cause my default responses to everything are “W” or “cool” or “me fr” 😭😭😭 /gen
as more people seem to be seeing this tweet, i feel your pain
i know how hard and frustrating it is but we all can get through this
if you need support feel free to ask im always up to give some words of encouragement!
we’re all in this together💖🫶
in most cases, absolutely do NOT commit extremely hard in an online relationship
so not make promises of marriage or a future if you are
A) unsure
or B) a minor
these promises are just ASKING to be broken and can lead to ruined friendships and burned bridges
stay away from them
now for some notable mistakes
SET YOUR BOUNDARIES
your partner is not all knowing, it is important you both establish clear boundaries for yourselves, because an online space encourages more rash behavior
keeping these safeguards ensures you both remain happy and healthy
Paranoia Progress Report
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i didnt get as much done as i usually do cause i was so overwhelmed by all the support today (it means the absolute world you have no idea💜)
after this though is when it gets crazy so be prepared🤪
people who complain about the OperaGX account are genuinely so annoying
“you fell for their advertizing”
yes the point of a brand account is to promote the business genius
“its so painfully unfunny” ok i genuinely did not ask
just stop being soulless hate robots for 5 seconds PLZ
in the case of a break up, just know it is no where near the end of the world
try to keep them civil and ESPECIALLY dont bring it public
bringing these out in the open (especially with an audience) is HORRIBLY irresponsible and can cause harassment and many sour feelings
@Ahmedmksd1
@RespectfulMemes
It’s fine, Im not even out to anyone yet really, AND if no accepts me for who I am then they weren’t my homie in the first place at all
but most importantly
respect your online partner like you would one irl
the internet is not an excuse to be “wild” and act unruly
be respectful on both ends
again, know your boundaries
also a lot of these ARE still applicable to adults as well
while many of these are directed at minors (the place i have experience, duh) this thread should still be of use to u
anyways gl and i hope u do find ur happiness goats💜💜
okay ive seen some people NOT know what proshipping is, so first up DONT trust the top google definition or whatever
it is a proshipper blatantly trying to steer hate away
anyways a proshipper is someone who supports problematic ships like incest and pedophilia
it is awful
people need to stop treating intrusive thoughts as a silly uwu oopsie “i cant stop thinking about spilling this drink on you🥺”
real intrusive thoughts can be absolutely horrific stop appropriating this and take it seriously
@fiaura_brawl
im so done with people pretending ADHD isnt serious it is NOT just bouncing your leg with nervous energy;
its late nights where nothing gets done, complete lack of direction and focus on non-preferred tasks, people calling you weird for preferring to stand or pacing
actual children should not have platforms i cant believe i have to say this it should be common sense
but if you are 13 or younger LEAVE TWITTER
PLEASE
for everyone AND your sake
@GluIsNotHere
istg people are genuinely the laziest people ever they wonder why its “so hard to do things” when they run headfirst into enemy infestations and NEVER TALK TO THE DESIGNATED HELPFUL NPC IT PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH