I haven’t had children yet. I haven’t been lucky enough to end up with a partner that I can settle down with (without being abused or lied to). So if I finally have one at 38, guess what..? In finally having a child at 38.
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@Ti_Enjoli
It isn't anyone's business if/when you decide to have kids!! But if you have the means (I don't) I support freezing some eggs!
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@Ti_Enjoli
I settled down with my partner at 38, my first child was born when I was 39. My second will (hopefully) be in a couple of months when I'm 42. My age ... 🤷🏻♀️
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@Ti_Enjoli
Congrats to you! After the stigma of being a teen mom, I’m finally having my second child at 39, but wasn’t planning for a pandemic.
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@Ti_Enjoli
Had my 2 daughters at 34 & 38
It’s all good, we all survived just fine
One is heading to environmental chemistry grad school & the other to law school
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@Ti_Enjoli
Yessss!! First of all, a kid at any age is a challenge hence why I waited - real parental partners are hard to come by. Either way something will have to give at any age, maybe it's my body, career or cost for a nanny but whatever, if it happens for me at 38 then I'll embrace🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
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@Ti_Enjoli
2nd kid came along at 40. It’s manageable. It’s not easy. It never is I think. And he was worth it. :)
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@Ti_Enjoli
Wow! Congratulations!!! Same age here... still no kids for me 🤷🏻♀️ Hopefully someday.
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