Joel Lopez | Save Your Marriage
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I help Christian husbands save their marriage | Went from living like roommates to 20+ years married w/6 kids | Get your free guide for a man in marriage 👇
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Joined December 2011
2017: Divorce was on the table, we were mere roommates. Disconnected, just co-parenting 3 kids. Today: Marriage on fire with 6 kids. Here’s how… On the outside looking in you would’ve thought we had the perfect marriage. But we were fighting constantly. “You make me feel
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It’s a challenge to get one on one time with my kids. Got a chance this weekend with my oldest son. The rest of the crew went to visit their grandparents and he stayed behind because he wanted to go camping (I had work so he had to wait until the end of the week) We got rain
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It’s a challenge to get one on one time with my kids. Got a chance this weekend with my oldest son. The rest of the crew went to visit their grandparents and he stayed behind because he wanted to go camping (I had work so he had to wait until the end of the week) We got rain
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The European mind cannot comprehend College Football.
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The best marriages are made of a husband who is a generous giver and a wife who is an enthusiastic receiver.
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When you hear your wife say to your son's "You guys are so handsome. You're just like your daddy." Girl you're playing your cards right, you trying to get some?
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Most men need sex to connect. Most woman need to connect to have sex. A mature couple understands this and work to meet each other especially “when they don’t feel like it” because they care for each other and the health of their marriage. Husbands need to enforce boundaries
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No one: Absolutely No One: Kids Under 16 Years old: 6-7
Seattle Mayor Bruce Harrell: "When a man does 6 or 7 crimes, we do not know his life story… Maybe he was hungry. Therefore, I have zero desire jailing him."
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“Show me a hot girl and I”ll show you a man who’s tired of boning her.” Loser talk. Foolishness posing as wisdom because it's "true" to degenerates. I've been married for 20+ years and have never been tired of it and look forward to the next time. Why?
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"You Homeschool? But how will they be socialized???" They're kids:
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If a husband is doing everything he can to make the marriage work and his wife is refusing for months with no obvious events or issues. She is being unfaithful. At that point it is not insulting to say "You're not getting it from me, so where are you getting it?"
@TheeJoelLopez I can guarantee you that she's "feeling connected" elsewhere.
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No one: Absolutely No One: Kids Under 16 Years old: 6-7
Seattle Mayor Bruce Harrell: "When a man does 6 or 7 crimes, we do not know his life story… Maybe he was hungry. Therefore, I have zero desire jailing him."
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Most men need sex to connect. Most woman need to connect to have sex. A mature couple understands this and work to meet each other especially “when they don’t feel like it” because they care for each other and the health of their marriage. Husbands need to enforce boundaries
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Your first kid kicks your butt b/c you've never had kids before so everything is new. It works though b/c you're playing double coverage. The 2nd kicks your butt b/c you go from double coverage to man to man. It's a huge jump.
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"You Homeschool? But how will they be socialized???" They're kids:
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When people say "mental health problem." They're really avoiding saying spiritual crisis.
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I bet this man’s wife admires him. He pursues her and she loves to be chased. Creating a beautiful cycle.
@TheeJoelLopez Do I find my wife physically beautiful and attractive? 1000%. The desire to be intimate with your spouse for a God loving man is so much deeper. I crave intimacy with her for who she is and for the special unique relationship that we share. No other woman can come close.
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If you're married and still loving it leave a comment. Make Marriages Hot Again. Follow me @TheeJoelLopez for more marriage, faith & family related content.
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And we both do our best to take care of our bodies. Exercising and eating well. I still chase her and she still entices me to chase her. So when those moments come it we both want more.
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You get to make babies. There is nothing like making love when you are trying to make babies. (Make up sex is 2nd place) If you’ve never had sex and called your shot “that’s gonna be a boy/girl” you’re missing out. Top 5 experience.
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The more you do it the better you get at it. Over time you tell each other what is and isn’t pleasing. You learn and apply. There’s no need to perform. You create a moment that is just for you two to share.
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