Felix Kitaka
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Beyond the content of The Woman's Bait series and the book, there is a remarkable story of commitment, dedication, and consistency that I hope the reader appreciates.
The Woman’s Bait. Now available at UGX 50,000 only! To order your copy whatsApp 0763497057. Free delivery within Kampala!
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For years, I heard people say, “marry your friend.” It seemed unrealistic. “Friendships take time to build,” I thought. I was wrong, and they were right.
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The woman’s bait - Part 16 // Marital Drama
Before meeting my wife, I had considered the prospect of marriage but hadn’t yet found the right candidate. I’d heard that one ought to marry their friend, but since dropping out of university, I hadn’t made many new friends.
Around
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The woman’s bait - Part 17 // Marital Drama
After giving my wife a ride, exchanging numbers, and returning to the office, I was excited, shocked, and intrigued. Immediately, I started debating when the right time to text was.
Years before, having spent many years on the
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The woman’s bait - Part 18 // Marital Drama
After dropping out of university, I spent days in my bedroom in my father’s house, seated at the computer, hoping to start a successful technology company. I will never forget the day a friend called and invited me to his graduation
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The woman’s bait - Part 13 // Marital Drama
At the age of 27, I started life without the covering of my parents. Because I’d dropped out of university, I’d never lived alone. I didn’t know what to expect. It also didn’t help that even though I had no job, I rented a two-bedroom
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It’s been two months of silence. We’ve been tested. We’ve been challenged. But most of all, we are back!
6th Aug 2023.
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The woman’s bait - Part 6 // Marital Drama
Usually, on Saturday afternoons, I drive my wife to work and continue doing my business. In the evening, I go past KFC, pick up something to eat, head to her workplace, and wait in the parking lot.
In my past writings, I have seen
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My son, I’ll let you in on a secret. Women value consistency more than big gestures. A man that finds out how she’s doing every morning earns more points than one who buys her a car on her birthday. A man that leaves kameza money earns more points than one who pays the rent.
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The woman’s bait - Part 5 // Marital Drama
Yesterday at 6pm, my wife came to the room and told me that dinner was ready. Every Friday in our household is a fasting day, hence the late lunch. I learned from experience that without fasting at least once during the week, I’d get
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Even the best spouse is guaranteed to do something that misses the mark every other day. It's wise for one to separate the incident from the pattern or the error from the behavior. Failure to do so, peace will elude the home.
@RukhShana
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It makes sense that H. E. President Museveni defended the speaker of parliament, Hon. Anita Among. To understand the situation, you need to zoom into society's nucleus, which is the home.
When the children attack the mother in the home, it would be unwise for the father to
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The woman’s bait - Part 54 // Marital Drama
Yesterday, we received the printed copies of The Woman’s Bait book. On Monday, during our morning meetings, where my wife and I discussed what we worked on the day before and aligned on the day's tasks, I told my wife that we had to
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The woman’s bait - Part 19 // Marital Drama
One day, while living under my parent’s roof, I went out with a lady. As the night got darker, I waited for her to want to go home, but the request never came. I knew my parents were probably starting to get worried, but my intrigue
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My son, don’t marry a woman before you have her heart. Most of the women you see, when they have a challenge in life, there is someone they call. That is the person they trust and that is the person who has their heart.
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The woman’s bait - Finale // Marital Drama
Weeks ago, a young man at university reached out with a request for mentorship. “I downloaded all The Woman’s Bait stories,” he told me when we met, “and compiled them into a folder on my computer.” He reminded me of Jesus’s parable
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The woman’s bait - Part 20 // Marital Drama
I will never forget standing in our bedroom in front of the door to the balcony and thinking to myself, “I should get a mistress.” I had always told my wife, you can deny me anything, but I desire one thing: "Peace.” Nonetheless, peace
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The woman’s bait - Part 40 // Marital Drama
On the eve of our wedding, my wife was seated on my mattress on the floor without a bed. And I was sitting on a plastic stool behind my work table. “Felix, we don’t yet have a song,” she said, panicking. I avoided stress, but I
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The woman’s bait - Part 38 // Marital Drama
When I met my wife, I lived in a three-bedroom apartment on the top floor of a three-story building. I slept in one bedroom, used the second as a home office, and the third was mostly empty. “Why did I live alone in such a big house?”
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The woman’s bait - Part 12 // Marital Drama
At 27 years old, I felt an urgency to leave my parents and start my own life. My bedroom had grown very small. The walls felt very close, and I thought they prevented my mind from seeing further. Sadly, I was broke. Two years before, I
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My son, when I was exiting a job at about 24yrs old. My mentor told me, “gyova toyombye, gyotela okudda [where you leave without quarreling, is often where you return].” Allow me to pass the same wisdom to you. DONT BURN BRIDGES.
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The woman’s bait - Part 21 // Marital Drama
I remember standing before my living room window and seeing her entering the gate. It would be my wife’s first official visit to my house. She wore blue jeans and a purple top and carried a small black rectangular bag. I’d later learn
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The woman’s bait - Part 11 // Marital Drama
Yesterday, my wife and I set off for town. One of my errands was to renew my driver's license. Usually, I drive, but this time, I asked my wife to drive instead. I must admit, sitting in the co-driver seat made me feel small. That’s
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The woman’s bait - Part 34 // Marital Drama
Once upon a time, I read a meme that said, “Tenants don’t get invited to village meetings.” Amidst the rush of laughter, it dawned on me that the joke was on me. Instantly, my eyes were opened, and I could see that the lady who owned a
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The woman’s bait - Part 14 // Marital Drama
I have not witnessed the birth of a newborn. But I have watched movies and heard stories that when a baby is born and becomes aware of the new world, it starts crying. The baby cries because it has died. We think of death as an ending,
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The Woman's Bait | Marital Drama
This morning, my wife and I were having a discussion that quickly got heated. I knew it had heated up when my wife rolled away from the bed to sit at the edge of it. In a way, it was like one preparing herself for war.
The trigger for my wife
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The woman’s bait - Part 45 // Marital Drama
Women have two brains. If a man only remembers that simple fact, he will significantly improve his relations with women. With that out of the way, I don’t believe in Valentine’s Day. I think it’s a pagan holiday or a day capitalists
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The woman’s bait - Part 25 // Marital Drama
I was broke two years after leaving home and living alone. I had learned through experience not to chase money. Every time I pursued money, it ran away, leaving me weary and tired. The way that seemed to work for me was to sit back and
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The woman’s bait - Part 33 // Marital Drama
We encounter our nakedness daily when we shower, and we are okay with it until someone suddenly opens the door. The first instinct is to quickly grab the towel and cover our nakedness. What is it about nakedness that we cover it up?
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The woman’s bait - Part 10 // Marital Drama
In 2020, a month before the lockdown, I gave almost everything of mine away. I moved from having a personal chef in my house to having no food. For six months, I slept on the floor without a mattress — cushioned by an old duvet I had
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The woman’s bait - Part 30 // Marital Drama
Since the beginning, man has desired control over his wife and children. However, the woman, as an independent being, wants her freedom and can’t willfully submit to the rulership of man. If even the angels could rebel against God and
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Many people are pursuing dead-end careers. Careers they ended up in because of the course they were given by the university. It’s never too late to pivot and consider your destiny. Who knows? You might strike gold.
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The woman’s bait - Part 23 // Marital Drama
Yesterday, my wife and I were in a jolly mood, conversing as I readied myself for a walk. Then suddenly, she started talking about a matter close to my heart, and before she could finish her sentence, I interjected.
Many years ago, I
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The woman’s bait - Part 7 // Marital Drama
I once heard a funny story of a man who was enjoying himself in the company of people who were all sharing stories. He shared all the stories he had and then ran out. “I’ve told all the stories I have,” he thought, “I’m now left with
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1/ After university, a gentleman had to decide whether to return to the village or remain in the city. While his friends chose to return to the village to build momentum so they could return to the city with full force (okusinzila), he chose to remain and figure it out.
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The woman’s bait - Part 22 // Marital Drama
A few months before meeting my wife, I traveled to the United States for the first time. I was a remote software engineer for an organization in Boston. While there, I noticed that Americans had an advantage over me. They walked on the
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The Woman’s Bait - Part 2 // Marital Drama
Last night, my wife entered bed in a rush without a word spoken and slept as far from me as she could find. There was a war between us, except I didn’t know what we were fighting about.
If you aren’t married, you can’t imagine the
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My son, don’t set your focus on a 50x100 plot of land in Kira because many people are doing the same. Dare to set your gaze on a property in Kololo. Its understandable that you might have limitations physically, but please don’t allow those limitations in your mind.
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The woman’s bait - Part 15 // Marital Drama
During a debate, when someone feels challenged, it takes a great deal of humility to concede defeat. Many times, self-preservation kicks in, and they shift the discussion from the matter at hand to a personal matter. “So, you’re saying
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The woman’s bait - Part 58 // Marital Drama
In 2020, a month before the lockdown, I gave almost everything away and moved to an empty house without a mattress. My only appliance in the kitchen was a percolator to make tea until my mother sent me her rice cooker, a bag of rice,
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The woman’s bait - Part 24 // Marital Drama
Yesterday, I saw our daughter sip her juice while we sat at the table to break our fast at 6PM. “Have you prayed?” I asked her. “No, I was just tasting,” she replied. She didn’t respond to the question asked; instead, she justified
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The woman’s bait - Part 9 // Marital Drama
I once heard a story of a man who wooed another man’s wife. He stayed in the same community, and occasionally, he would ask the other man’s wife to keep millions of shillings for him. Eventually, he would pick up the money and always
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The woman’s bait - Part 39 // Marital Drama
This week, my wife and I kicked off a new journey. We finally entered the office of our company, Audersity Studios. Unfortunately, that and all our other work left me exhausted.
On top of the work, my wife and I have been having
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The woman’s bait - Part 8 // Marital Drama
A story is told of a man who wanted to sell his used car. He put the car on the market at a specific price. Eager buyers showed up without bargaining. He had second thoughts. “Perhaps the car is more valuable than I had priced it,” he
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The woman’s bait - Part 26 // Marital Drama
There used to be seasons in our marriage where everything was a conflict. Everything I said and did seemed to trigger my wife. It was akin to walking on eggshells. I couldn’t explain it. I wondered whether a spirit of darkness had
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Every episode we’ve done, I have enjoyed just as a father loves his children. But this one, it felt special to me. Join my wife and I for yet another unscripted conversation.
He alone knows the plans He has for us....and it's just as well 🤗. E12 of The Kitakas podcast with
@TheMutambuze
will be live at midnight EAT.
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The woman’s bait - Part 28 // Marital Drama
One day, a short while after our wedding, my wife and I entered the bedroom, and we were both tired. I was so exhausted that I wanted to sleep until morning. However, the bed wasn’t laid. My wife was also tired and asked me to help her
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The woman’s bait - Part 43 // Marital Drama
It was the evening of 13th February 2019, about a month after meeting my wife. My mind was racing; I couldn’t figure out how to listen to a particular radio station. The Apple guys had decided to be clever, so my iPhone wasn’t much
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It doesn’t matter what university degree you hold; what matters most is what you can do or get done.
The degree is merely a certificate, proof that you were educated, but it isn’t a trustable certificate. A person who cheats during exams can be certified. A person at Nasser
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It’s been six months since we last released a podcast episode. It’s a joy to be back.
#thekitakas
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The woman’s bait - Part 41 // Marital Drama
My wife and I were seated on the floor on opposite sides of the room. We were both tired, having had the biggest fight of our married life. In frustration, I had removed my wedding ring and thrown it on the floor. The fight had no
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The woman’s bait - Part 51 // Marital Drama
I remember driving out of the office premises in the evening at around 8PM and parking alongside the road. It was the season when I opened my first office and asked my cousin to come work with me. We had the ambition and faith to start
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The salaried worker is the poorest person when he bases all his actions on the size of his purse. The man without a salary who needs to meet his daily needs has to base his actions on something else. That’s usually faith.
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The woman’s bait - Part 29 // Marital Drama
Yesterday, I shared a story from our first year in marriage and how I navigated my way out of making the bed. Far from my intent, many were incensed. I’m not dogmatic; I meditate deeply before formulating an opinion. Therefore, I’m
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The woman’s bait - Part 27 // Marital Drama
“America is going to the moon,” President Kennedy said, “not because it’s easy but because it’s hard.” Many of us have believed a lie that things are supposed to be easy.
Marriages are breaking up because of hardships. If a single
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Money is a trick. I dare imagine it was invented by a pimp. The more you desire money, the more you sell your soul. I learnt not to envy people with money because some of them paid too much for it. Money can never satisfy. Satisfaction is a matter of contentment.
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The woman’s bait - Part 31 // Marital Drama
The day had arrived. It was the day I was to be officially introduced to my wife’s family. My siblings and friends accompanying me gathered at my father’s house. It was symbolic. This would be the second time I left my father and
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The woman’s bait - Part 47 // Marital Drama
“If you can’t sustain it, don’t start it,” goes conventional wisdom in women’s circles regarding marriage. That’s not a statement of love; it’s a statement of a freeloader who wants maximum benefits with the least amount of work. It’s
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It’s foolishness to wait for fruit when you didn’t plant seed.
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The woman’s bait - Part 32 // Marital Drama
Before my wife and I got engaged, I lived in a beautiful apartment that was mostly empty. My living room had nothing, and the windows didn’t even have curtains. I slept on a mattress on the floor without a bed.
Despite my state, my
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The woman’s bait - Part 36 // Marital Drama
Submission is the surrendering of one’s will for another’s. The submitted soul is obedient even unto death. Lucifer did this before he became disobedient and was kicked out of heaven. It’s what Adam did before he became disobedient and
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When some individuals find themselves losing an argument, they often resort to using their professional or academic titles as a means of asserting dominance. Don’t be like them.
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The woman’s bait - Part 57 // Marital Drama
Years ago, I worked as a software consultant for a multinational company. One day, after my alarm went off at 5AM, I got up and asked myself, “What is the purpose?” I couldn’t answer the question, so I decided to leave.
Strangely,
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The devil cannot stop the seed sown into the ground from bringing forth fruit. Therefore the best attack is to stop man from sowing seed.
Laziness in the mind or distraction with the pleasures of this world could easily achieve that end.
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“Why haven’t you left me?” A struggling man inquired of the wife. “Can one leave a wealthy man?” she replied.
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To the women that call-out the greatness in their husbands even when reality speaks otherwise, thank you.
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How can I not love this woman? Women read my writings and judge me harshly. They are a constant reminder of how special my wife is. Mukwano, singa sigwe, ani?
The Woman’s Bait - Part 30 // The Other Side
This year, my mum will make 70. She’s been married to my father since she was 15 years old. He was only 17 when they wed. I know what you are thinking. I probably had the same thoughts when I found out several years ago. She was a
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Being an employee is similar to being a tenant; you enjoy the benefits without the security. The goal should always be to be a Lord. That way, you enjoy the benefits without sacrificing the security.
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My son, pay extra attention to the woman that sees you before you sell yourself to her. A woman that buys into your potential is easier to satisfy than one who buys into your resources. If ever you fail at providence, that potential she saw, might fight for you.
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My son, consistency is one of the hardest pursuits. Quite often we fail at it, but that’s okay. What matters is that you got up and started walking again. Whether you ran, walked or crawled is secondary, what matters primarily is that you crossed the finish line.
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The woman’s bait - Part 35 // Marital Drama
Whenever I entered class in high school, I looked straight ahead and never looked left. In the corner of my left eye, I could catch a glimpse of the young lady that left me breathless. You could say I was in love. One day, I used my
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Anything that you cannot live without, has the power to enslave you.
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The woman’s bait - Part 42 // Marital Drama
Yesterday, my wife and I had one of those moments that left us physically close to each other and yet emotionally far from one another. After dinner, we would linger at the dining table for hours, conversing on an average day. Not
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The woman’s bait - Part 49 // Marital Drama
My wife’s biggest problem is that she isn’t lazy enough. She’s too hardworking. On the other hand, I’m very lazy, yet I get things done. The secret is simple; I don’t do things I can pay someone to do for less than it would cost me —
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The woman’s bait - Part 48 // Marital Drama
For days during the past week, my wife and I have sat at the table and eaten food almost without a sound had it not been for the sounds of knives and forks.
Working with my wife is a double-edged sword; we get a lot done, and we both
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My son, there’s an interesting relationship between women and money. I believe it owes to their desire for security. In that regard it will do you much good to spend yourself in the acquisition of profitable skills before you concern yourself with a wife.
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The woman’s bait - Part 46 // Marital Drama
Women are deceptive. Their weak demeanor harbors a strong will. A woman determined to get her way will leverage everything without emotion.
A few days ago, I saw a trending photo on Twitter. In the photo, a young man was seated at the
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The woman’s bait - Part 37 // Marital Drama
My mother always took me to school from the time I joined boarding school in primary six. The only time my father took me was when my mother had traveled. Surprisingly, while I don’t remember all the other times my mother took me to
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Pursuing a career and starting a business are all pathways to acquiring financial fortunes. But guess what? Not all roads are the same. Do we ever stop to check whether we’re on the best path? Or are we locked into what we studied or what we know? In the current age, knowledge is
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My son, a woman’s bottom and chest should never be your focus. The most important part of a woman is her heart. It will manifest in the little things she does. Unfortunately if you’re distracted by the bottom, you’ll miss it.
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The woman’s bait - Part 55 // Marital Drama
On their way to the land flowing with milk and honey, the children of Israel, having tarried long in the wilderness, started to miss the land of Egypt, where they’d been enslaved because the food was better. It’s not different from an
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The woman’s bait - Part 52 // Marital Drama
“Perception is reality; what people see and hear is more accurate than what’s in someone’s head. In marriage, people offend each other with their actions and defend themselves with their intentions. It doesn’t matter what you intended;
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Quite often I've heard married people say, "My wife is okay with it," or "My husband is okay with it." I honestly believe "okay" is a bare minimum and it shouldn't be misconstrued as a bar met.
@RukhShana
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The woman’s bait - Part 53 // Marital Drama
There is a little voice that speaks that I have calibrated my soul to hear and obey. However, statements of that kind shouldn’t be made publicly; otherwise, people will question one’s sanity. A spiritual man isn’t a normal man. Can
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My son, always find opportunity to tell your wife how amazing she is. You might not understand it, but her who sits in the salon for hours cares about it. But don’t hold that against her. If she can care that much about her hair, how much more for her husband and children?
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The woman’s bait - Part 3 // Marital Drama
I sat on the floor of a tiny room with my feet crossed under my thighs. The room also had four women seated on mats. The leader of the group was scolding me over a particular matter. I had partly parted ways with the group, and this
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The woman’s bait - Part 4 // Marital Drama
One time in high school, my mum came to my room and said that I was then old enough to start doing my laundry. That was at the start of my programming journey when I spent countless hours on the computer. I felt laundry wasn’t a good
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My son, I heard a man say, “loose lips, sink ships.” One of the greatest investments you can make in your life is to tame your tongue.
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My son, life has invisible roads to success. They are the patterns of men that have succeeded. Study and practice the patterns of the wise and you’ll be wise. Study and practice the patterns of the wealthy and you’ll be wealthy.
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My son, in the heat of the moment, your wife might say some hurtful words. But please don’t take them to heart, she probably doesn’t mean them. If you can master your own emotions, the best response is a hug.
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One of my greatest benefits of delayed conception is the opportunity to empathize with couples that have struggled with child bearing. People like these with their loose tongues can hurt people that are already struggling. Let’s be better.
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The woman’s bait - Part 50 // Marital Drama
A few weeks ago, my mother called me. Thieves had broken into their home, stolen the number plates off the car, and left a phone number. I had heard these stories before and hadn’t considered they’d be at my doorstep. It’s patients who
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My son, there is more to life than meets the eye. At the edge of the senses, spirituality begins. It takes faith to go over the edge, and if you can harness the courage to venture forth, you’ll have an advantage over common man.
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Our world runs on the theory of competition. Politicians compete for positions. Musicians compete to have the best songs. Employees compete for promotions. Businesses compete for customers.
The way to win at the competition games is to be the best. Don’t be the one that
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Marriage is like a Sacco. Individuals come together to form one body. That body represents everyone, and yet it isn’t anyone. The assets of the body don’t belong to anyone, and yet they belong to everyone.
I can see why God hates divorce. When a Sacco breaks up, to whom do the
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The woman’s bait - Part 56 // Marital Drama
I attended a day school in the neighborhood for the early primary school years. One day, a friend showed up at school with bite marks on his fingertips. When I inquired about them, he told me they had a rat problem at home and were
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