- I literally do not know how to ask for help. I'd rather do every thing myself than talk about it.
- Everytime someone moods changes around me, I start to feel like an inconvenience.
- I am most comfortable alone so much that no one is allowed to visit me.
People that were raised by extremely strict parents, how has that affected you as an adult?
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- Saying sorry before even finding out what's wrong.
- Can't function in social spaces unless intoxicated.
- I am bad at making friends and even more terrible at keeping them. I only make friends with the people I'm surrounded with at any point in time.
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- Being fearful of confrontation that you develop avoidance coping mechanisms especially escapism.
- Having a fear of mistakes to the point where you cannot admit to it but would rather avoid or lie till it can no longer be concealed.
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@TheIfedolapo
How did someone say everything in my head.
The fact that you can express it this well shows a lot of growth.
I hate that it's my job to unlearn many of these things.
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@Shevhas
I relate with this...I try to ask for help though, except that by the time I do, the situation would probably be out of control.
You see that confrontation part...that’s so me. The nonsense I am experiencing now was borne out of me trying to cope with someone’s in my own way
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@TheIfedolapo
This is so me, rather than asking for help I will prefer crying in my room asking God why I didn't have it
If my roommate mood changes I feel like I'm responsible for it and start to think about what I did wrong
Me being around people is so much stress, I just staying in my room
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@Orifunke
Meeeehn! Every point except the saying sorry part, check check check for me too. And I wasn't even raised by strict parents.
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@The_Nenye
People never get this, it always why you so Proud! It's my trauma response FH!!!
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