hot take: beef with / shaming of influencer culture is rooted in internalized misogyny

Musings on romantic "success metrics," pedestalizing relationship status & the ultimate flex https://t.co/eGfQVWp6mb

It’s about being able to read the SUBTEXT underneath your feelings . & acutely infer the subtext of others’ from this place of self awareness. The subtext is it’s own meta language & it will inform you about your wants, needs, & areas for growth.

It’s about being able to PROCESS your feelings in a healthy way so they can keep moving along (instead of getting stuck & manifesting in anger, frustration, etc)

emotional intelligence isn’t just about connecting with & attuning to your feelings or just about attuning to others, reading social queues & feedback.

I am far more impressed with what you’re creating than with how well you criticize.

I prefer to refer to them as my “former boyfriends” instead of “ex boyfriends.” It feels friendly, respectful & much more glamorous ✨💅🏻

There’s such a singular magic of the night

I’m Bellingham I feel like Marie Antoinette when she moved to the country.

Goddamn it I love latkes 🙏

You know what’s actually sexy af. Subtlety.

Btw, men also want to hear you tell them they are handsome

Just posted a photo @ Seattle, Washington

Romance is about having just enough distance alongside your closeness to occasionally long for each other ✨

Conflict is often just the universe realigning itself by redirecting you. Plus, the going the “wrong way” is part of your path.

It’s all actually completely ok, in fact it’s wonderful

Do you want to be right that everyone sucks or do you want to feel connected? Do you want to be right that everyone will disappoint you or do you want to be in love ? Watch what you are choosing to reaffirm with your perceptions & actions

Twitter, I obsessed with you 💕

How on earth have I been texting myself all this time when I could have just been tweeting into the void ?!?

I absolutely love talking to no one & only hanging out with myself for days on end 😌