Some woman posted 2 months ago about her husband often forgetting her birthday. And he never remembers mother’s day. She finally told him a few days ago that it bothered her and he told her she’s selfish and unrealistic to expect him to remember so now they’re separating 🫶🏾
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Something tiktok seems to be good for is getting women partnered with useless men to wake up and start choosing themselves coz I’ve seen the sad post to divorce pipeline at work on multiple occasions
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Ooh here’s the other sad tiktok to divorce pipeline story I posted a while ago. I’ve seen at least 3 others in recent times. The girls are waking up. Love it for them
A SAHM on tiktok posted a video complaining about her husband never helping with household labour and childcare. Fast forward to 4 days ago she’s posted that she’s divorcing him and he doesn’t want shared custody, he just wants weekend visits because he “can’t handle” the kids.
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The pattern that I’ve noticed so far, though, is it’s mostly young, white, working class women
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@THISisLULE
No man who cares about you will ignore things that matter to you. He could literally just set a reminder??? I’m happy for her.
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@blythlie
In a later post she said she found out (I don’t know how) that Siri had reminded him the morning of her birthday and he just decided not to acknowledge it
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@THISisLULE
Was it on TikTok? Because I saw a thing today where he seems shocked she's leaving
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@Karnythia
I think that’s a different couple. It’s so many of them going through something similar over there 😂
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@THISisLULE
Good for her. I'm guessing there were some other issues too. I spent 5 yes marriage asking my ex to give me a hug if I'm crying about something and he just couldn't get it.
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@laurencohen
Right. It’s not really forgetting the birthday that’s a major problem imo. It’s that it’s important to her, he forgot and when she expressed disappointment in that he dismissed her
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@THISisLULE
Imagine divorcing someone because they forget your birthday. They remember to buy groceries, pay bills, take care of you etc but you just want a lousy "Happy birthday to you" 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
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@THISisLULE
it’s the little acts of cruelty designed to lower someone’s self esteem that are so awful. It’s like death by a 1000 paper cuts. I’m glad she’s choosing herself.
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Woman always compromise in the relationship and that's a problem
You compromised before and now you want to change your mind
When he forgets your birthday the first time express that stuff don't wait for him to forget it next year... Those are red flags
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