Question for the feminists:
If I, as a woman, should have the choice to do whatever I want, why is it so bad that I choose to submit to my husband, stay home, have babies and encourage other women to do so???
I had my second baby two days ago! Another boy (it was a surprise)! I had a home birth and was in labor for 2 1/2 hours and it was amazing!
I’m so grateful!
When we were engaged, my husband told me:
“I’m very attracted to you. But I’m not marrying you because of that. I’m marrying you because I can see you’d be a great wife and great mother to our children.”
What *true* female empowerment looks like:
-beautifully feminine appearance
-a love for babies and children
-making a peaceful and cozy home
-cooking delicious meals for loved ones
-having a gentle and quiet spirit
Correct me if I’m wrong, but most people don’t wake up and think “Today, I’m going to cheat on my spouse.”
It’s a slow fade, and before you know it, you’re unfaithful.
One way to prevent this? Don’t spend time alone with someone of the opposite sex. 🫢
Before we were dating, my husband mentioned that he likes when girls wear skirts and dresses.
So, I started wearing more skirts and dresses around him.
I wanted him to think I was cute and attractive!
Just had my third baby a few days ago!
We didn’t do any ultrasounds or blood work (except my iron levels)
All appointments were at home🙌🏽
The baby was born at home in 90 minutes in a tub…. before the midwife could even make it!
Baby is healthy and so sweet! I’m so grateful!
Stay-at-home wives,
When people ask what you do for a living, unashamedly tell them that you are a housewife.
The best part will be the shock that overtakes them. It’ll be so good, I promise.
We HAVE to talk about gender roles in the Church.
We cannot continue to let our sisters run with the progressive feminism of today.
Learning how to be a godly woman is a part of spiritual growth and maturity.
“If only my husband was perfect, then I’d submit to him”
Really? Christ is perfect, yet you still sin.
Submission is done out of obedience to Christ, not as a reward to our husbands.
My husband often asks for my perspective before he makes a big decision. My submission is tested when he makes a decision I disagree with.
But I've learned to let go and trust my husband.
And ultimately, trust God.
This has brought so much peace in our marriage.
5 things I DON’T regret doing in my early 20’s:
1. Staying a virgin until marriage
2. Taking dating and relationships with men very seriously
3. Getting married at 20
4. Dropping out of college
5. Having babies right away instead of waiting
Mothers should teach their daughters how to dress modestly and feminine.
I feel bad for all the young, teenage girls that live in hoodies year-round and have awkward boyish haircuts.
People out here literally HEARTBROKEN for me because I submit to my husband 😂🤷🏽♀️
Saying I have Stockholm syndrome, am in a cult, have been kidnapped, not in a real marriage... When I was literally bragging on my husband for being such an amazing man, and have the best marriage!
When you submit to your husband, you will find that he will make mistakes.
You'll find that he'll decide to do things that you disagree with.
That's okay.
Submission means you're a TEAM.
He's the captain. Think long term.
You're a unit, together.
You are one!
I defer to my husband so often I don’t even think about it.
“Let me ask my husband.”
“Let me talk to my husband about it.”
People probably think I’m crazy lol 😂
Being a leader also means having more responsibility.
Submission means that God has given the husband the ultimate responsibility for his wife and his children.
Submit to your husband so he can do the job God has called him to.
These redpill men don’t know about true “tradcon” girls.
I’m talking the virgin girls, who grew up seeing their parents and grandparents madly in love and just want babies and to cook for their husband.
The ones who don’t marry for money and read their Bibles every day.
I don't hate dogs.
If you love your dog and consider them part of the family, that's normal.
I hate how society has elevated animals to human-level status, and even above and beyond it.
THAT'S WRONG, and there's a big difference.
I understand the reasoning.
There is "new research" about gender.
We also want to appease our friends and not be mean.
But the only question in your mind should be: "is this God-honoring? Does it fit in with scriptural truth?"
A husband brings to the table:
-Security
-Strength
-Protection
-Provision
-Leadership
A wife brings to the table:
-Homemaking
-Nurture
-Support
-Submission
-Beauty
Let the world think you’re strange for being a different kind of woman.
A woman who loves God.
A woman who believes in marriage.
A woman who thinks children are a blessing.
A woman who embraces her femininity .
A woman who believes home is where generations are shaped.
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When I got married, my husband and I made a vow in front of God and witnesses.
We didn’t do it “just because.”
We didn’t say, “let’s try this out!”
We didn’t marry just because of romance.
We married to start a family, to love each other through thick and thin, to give each
Y’all, people are really “disagreeing” with me about this 😂
Love your pets, but they are NOT your babies. Stop treating them as humans.
End of discussion.
I cannot emphasize enough how much you do NOT need to have wild years before settling down.
Trust me, just being a mere human will bring you enough trouble without going out of your way to make foolish decisions like getting drunk at parties and sleeping with lots of rando’s.
It’s NOT enough to marry a Christian man. You have to VET him before diving in.
Find out:
- How he reacts when angry and in hard times
- his family history, circumstances, relationship with his parents
- if he has a history of addiction and how recent he’s quit
Not having to think about the "big picture" things as much, and relaying that responsibility to my husband has worked wonders for us.
I no longer have to think about the overall direction of the home.
I get to think about making pastries for my family, potty training, etc.
My husband doesn't particularly enjoying thinking about where we should place the mirror in our living room.
He would much rather think about how we will grow our business by 100% next year.
My submission to him has made it so I can relax more & think more about our home life.
My married brothers in Christ aren’t “playing with fire” by being friends with me or spending time with me one-on-one. I’m not fire. I’m not dangerous. When will my sisters -Christian wives- begin to see me as a sister instead of a threat to their marriages?
Some “conservative” women are the most feminist out there. Try telling most of them that mothers should stay home and raise their children and all the progressive feminism comes out 😳.
Who’s interested in joining a community of traditional-minded Christian singles to learn from married folks and get to know each other (and perhaps find a mate?)
Biblical womanhood honors woman by allowing them to be who they were created to be, not trying to make them into men, not belittling and disregarding biology and natural desires.