I love when aggressive assholes title themselves 'master's. Look just because your up and down is above average and you can bully smaller folks, it does NOT mean you're a master. The uninformed my follow you, but you're an abuser in a cute hat.
@PupOdus
Aftercare is essential. Headspace can go many places; being there for safety and a soothing transition out is just as important as the scene. You can make or break a bond with/out aftercare.