Makhosi eMakhosini
We've been talking about who the ancestors are why it's important to build a relationship with them. And today, we'd like to speak about the practical steps to building a relationship with your ancestors.
If you have idlozi lakamama, you had your own dlozi as well. Now, there is just a queue waiting that also needs certain rites of passage to be performed for them because there are generations before us who were not so fortunate to openly practice as we do today.
Emakhosini 🙏🏾
Makhosi 🙌🏽
Kusile
As you start this week, ask for what you want; ask your creator & your ancestors.
In your asking intend within yourself to accept & receive what you’re asking for
You are worthy of your desires
Surrender the self who yearns in order to become the self who has
In 1957, the Apartheid government passed the Witchcraft Suppression Act. It effectively deemed all ancestral practice, to be witchcraft by law. This meant ukuphahla, ukuhlamba, all things related to our spiritual practice, were punishable by law.
As we step into the second half of the year; remember to show yourself gratitude for getting this far.
You're surving a global pandemic & you are still here.
Your body has carried you. You have held on mentally, emotionally & financially.
Please find a way to say thanks to you.
Today, we’re discussing the spirituality of sex and the importance of understanding boundaries, ground rules and energetic transactions with regard to sex.
Your ancestors meet you halfway when they see you trying with an open heart. But this does not mean that you should not observe certain practices when you know that you should. Always make your efforts to the best of your ability. 🙏🏾
It’s not that our parents don’t respect our ancestral practices, it is that they’re coming from a generation of being violently suppressed even in their spirituality.
Today, people constantly ask why there are so many of us in comparison to previous generations. In our parents’ day, there would have been millions of izinyanga, had they been permitted to practice.
The brutality of the Witchcraft Suppression Act, drove everything related to our practice into secrecy. This influenced the proliferation of African Zionist Churches, where one can practice certain elements of ancestral practices without having to become isangoma. See: Prophecy.
Finally, an ancestral calling means you have work to do. Do not treat it as an opportunity to claim fame you have not earned. Stop playing with your ancestors. Do the work. Healing is the primary goal. eMakhosini.
When our parents don’t know certain rites and practices, it’s not because they were indoctrinated or they’re ashamed of who they are. This was engineered. This was a part of Apartheid social engineering, to ensure that we are divorced from our culture.
Our country’s racist laws did not only affect issues such as land ownership and movement, they also affected the manner in which we’re able to practice our spirituality. This led largely to how many families lost practices such as coming of age, birthing, marriage ceremonies etc.
What we often forget about becoming the person who you were meant to be in this life, about manifesting your highest self into this timeline, is that it will require mourning the death of the person you imagined yourself to be.
Makhosi eMakhosini🙏🏽✨
Please join us in wishing Makhosi Nomabutho (
@HoneyTellAStory
) a happy and blessed birthday. Her multitudes of knowledge in the ancestral plane is what unites us on this platform. May she grow to share more,and continue being a beacon of light.
Makhosi👏🏽
So, if you have a calling and somebody says to you, “wena unedlozi ebekumele ukuthi lithwaswe ngumawakho or ngumalume”
Take a moment and remember that you wouldn’t be able to have a calling to possess this calling unless you had your own to begin with.
Learning to trust your ancestors begins with showing yourself compassion.
So today, remember that you’re a work in progress, you did the best you could with what you knew, remember what it took for you to learn what you know now & honor that effort with your compassion today.
Before we can thwasa amadlozi who were supposed to be initiated by our parents, we have to have the calling ourselves. Thereafter, an ancestor who wished to work through a family member and was unable to, might take the opportunity to be initiated through your process.
You are ailing. Your ancestors are ailing. You are holding back generations of people who await your healing for theirs. You are not called upon to wail on Twitter and make jokes about your calling. Uyabizwa. Sabela. Kukhanye.🙏🏿
You can have an ancestral calling and experience a spiritual awakening where you become aware of your ancestral calling, but you're not going to become a healer by having a spiritual awakening, not if you have an ancestral calling.
This will be our topic for today.
Makhosi👏🏽✨.
Then you introduce yourself as formally as you can. You want your ancestors to know exactly who you are: I am [this person], daughter of [these people], the last time you heard from me was when I [did this ceremony/went to see this person in relation to this].
Whatever you’re going through in this moment don’t allow it to erode your humanity.
We’re faced with a moment that history will remember.
But you are whom you most need to remember right now.
Find ways to hold yourself through this time, we will need you whole on the other side.
You call your ancestors in specifically: start by speaking to those whom you know who have passed, and ask them to be your envoy and invite all those who are the blood of your blood into the space.
Astrological highlights for the full moon on 26 May:
•The full moon is in Sagittarius
• It will be a total lunar eclipse, also known as a Blood Moon
•It is Gemini season
•We’re within the foreshadowing period of Mercury retrograde.
•Saturn and Pluto are in retrograde.
Makhosi eMakhosini
Today, we want to talk about why we experience shame about practicing our African ancestral practices in this day and age. Why is this still a thing? Why are we still struggling to be open and transparent about how we connect and engage with our spirituality?
The scientific name for iMpepho is “Helichrysum odoratissimum.”
The scientific name for white sage is Salvia Apiana. iMpepho is not sage.The main, maybe only, similarity between these plants is that two different groups of people use them to make contact with their ancestors.
It’s not a sin. And it’s not against our culture as Africans. We have a deeper understanding of life and we are aware that these things tend to have consequences if we are not acting in awareness of the broader implications of our decisions beyond the medical and physical.
🙏🏾
Siyakhuleka eMakhosini
This month’s full moon will occur on Sunday, August 22. The full moon will be in Aquarius, and it will happen in the 29th degree of the sun in Leo. The sun will be cycling into Virgo on the second and third day of the full moon.
If you are going to use iMpepho, we recommend that you please start by cleansing your space with iNtelezi. This is a mixture of herbs or a particular herb that would be used to clear the space. You can chela with it, or give it a good soak overnight and clean with it.
Don’t hold it in
Don’t keep it to yourself
Your feelings are valid
You’re allowed to feel what you feel
You’re not wrong for feeling that way
Journal these feelings
Pray on them
Pahla about them
Reflect on them
Don’t bury them, they’re trying to tell you something.
Ukukhala kuyasiza
Don’t hold in the pain when you’re at the end of your hope
Call out for help
Cry out
Say something to someone
Don’t sit in the quiet of the pain
Most times the perspective we have in the midst of our pain is obscured and what we need is to see it differently
When you burn iMpepho,never be standing on your feet! We kneel. The fire should also not be burning brightly as you speak. If there are flames when you light it, you pat it to put the fire out so that the smoke is released. Now, you begin to speak.
Makhosi eMakhosini. Over the last couple of weeks, we've been discussing who the ancestors are and how we go about contacting them. Today, we're talking about why ancestral callings run in bloodlines.
Remember when you’re triggered; it’s your conscious mind allowing a suppressed memory to resurface because your mind believes that you now have the tools to confront the truth about that memory and begin to heal from it.
Remember: You’re safe right now. You can confront this.
The moon will be full at 6:35am Central African time tomorrow, Sunday 19 December 2021.
It will be full to the eye from tonight and will stay full until the night of the 21st, the solstice.
First of all, iMpepho is muti. Before we use it in any space, especially a space that is a rented accommodation (which is a space where many energies have passed through), we need to be aware of that. iMpepho is a means to contact beings who are present beyond the veil.
Zincenge namhlanje
With whatever you have or don’t have, give yourself the gift of kindness.
Guard your thoughts, what arises to criticise you; remind it “namhlanje ngiyazincenga”.
Wake up and do what will bring you joy.
Pray that prayer
Cook that meal
Make today beautiful
Kusile edlozini
Today is the day of the full moon in Leo
Vukani, Phalazani, phahlani!
Journal on this moon’s intention;
What do I have to release in order to be the main character in my life?
This is what this 1st full moon asks us, in a year that asks for community.
When you’re done with your prayer/meditation/ your conversation with izithunywa nezidalwa namadlozi akini, you put out your candle by pinching it. You never blow out the candle.
Makhosi 🙏🏾
Once you have this, if you do not have umsamo at home, we would suggest you choose a corner in your house; a corner in your bedroom, or your study room, — a room that people do not frequent. A private and sacred space that will be for your prayer and to burn iMpepho.
We always remember that “love” is a doing word when we’re talking about being loved by other people.
But I hope that we remember that love is a doing word when we talk about loving ourselves too.
Zithande nangezenzo zakho ✨
Siyakhulek’ eMakhosini. 🙏🏾Yiso is’godlo s’ka Makhosi Nomabutho ke lesi. Here, we will demystify the ancestral, do our moon readings, and talk all things
#SangomaSociety
.
Fasting for the future.
A 3 day water fast ahead of the full moon in Virgo.
What we know is that the month of March represents a month in which we close out the astrological calendar.
The ancestors say that this is a time for the necessary retrospective on the trauma that’s blocking us from seeing our blessings even when they have already arrived.
Let’s look at the upcoming new moon in Gemini.
In our stillness is where we can hear the answers to our prayers.
We must learn to build a stillness within ourselves that can be found even in times of anarchy.
It is not an easy task to undertake, but it’s rewards give providence in this life and in the next.
Masithandazeni.
Makhosi eMakhosini
For the next few weeks, we'll be discussing self-care in relation to the ancestors. Our first thread is on speaking up for yourself.
You’re not who you were then
You didn’t know what you know now
That version of you did the best they could, and they’re the reason that you know what you know now
There’s no shame in growing, you did the best you could; so You could become.
Someone told us that they burnt iMpepho in their rental accommodation and were plagued with dreams so terrible they had to leave that place. In these circumstances, people begin to question whether there is something wrong with them or their ancestors.
Once you have cleansed your space, the next step is to burn iMpepho. We would suggest a metal or clay plate. If all else fails, you may use your porcelain saucer. We do not recommend wood or plastic.
This is a snippet of our art installation, Voices and Choices, curated by
@MmabathoMontsho
for
@myrighttochoice
— a work that prides itself in respecting the autonomy of them who choose to terminate.
These conversations sort of resemble the kind of conversation that we tend to have with our parents, that we have some level of formality when engaging with our parents, and it is the same when engaging with the ancestors.
Makhosi eMakhosini. Kukhanye.
Sex has been weaponised for too long; it has been shamed and put into a category of living that isn’t where it belongs.
Sex is an individual thing. Every kink, every preference, every solo show, every group show...
Makhosi Emakhosini🙏🏾
Makhosi emakhosini,
We are thinking of doing a thread on how best to phalaza. What works for us might not work for you,but this coaching session might be helpful to those who have experienced a difficulty in bringing themselves to do it.
Share your thoughts.
Makhosi👏🏽
The message of this, beyond the semantics, is that once you have terminated, the spirit of your child continues to accompany you. The spirit also accompanies the father. We’re made up of two bloodlines.
May God do a work in your life that transforms you
may it be that you recognize it when it comes
may it be that you surrender to your becoming, and thrive in it🙏🏾
You are more than the culmination of your past pain.
Your story is bigger than what you’ve had to overcome.
Your anger is valid, but it is not your superpower, it reminds you that you deserve better; because you do.
Bloom. Become the beauty that you hide inside your pain.
Words mean things. We say these words and zihlaba abadala. They are not angry. Your ancestors are not angry. They are in pain. They’ve given you their memories in the DNA that you carry today. You are who you are today because of the blood of your blood.
Being initiated into the rites of your ancestors does not absolve you of your human experience.
We lose gifted healers every day to the misunderstanding that to be healed of ingulo & to facilitate for the ancestors means the end of the human experience.
The problem with conversations around the spiritual implications related to the termination of pregnancy is that the language around that is not easily translatable. When we say “unomthunzi omnyama ohamba nawe uma ukhiphe isisu,” — it is difficult to translate that into English.
The termination of pregnancy is a medical procedure that has been performed for thousands of years. In Africa, we’ve had surgical and non-surgical practices around this work since time immemorial. This is not a new thing. It is not outside of the realm of our culture.
When we do this, we are trying to remove all the issues between yourself and spirit so that you can build a better understanding and relationship with your people.
Makhosi 🙏🏾
When I phahla’d about this full moon what I heard was “be gentle with yourself”.
A full moon in Cancer is guaranteed to be an emotional experience. This one is no different.
If you doubt that you can do it afraid
Dabula uvalo ngokuphalaza
Because one option you don’t have, is not to do it at all.
So find a way to find the courage that you owe your dreams, they are waiting for you.