“Why do our children need cursive?!” 😭
I get asked this question quite often. So I’m going to share the importance of cursive handwriting 🌸 especially in Early Childhood.
I will probably catch smoke for this but growing up in a strict household and friends who also had strict parents, I frown upon strict parenting so much. We became adults who are still “babies”. My friends and I struggled to transition into adulthood.
1. Cursive develops the Fine Motor Skills of a young child.
This means; a child would have to fully focus on his/her pencil grip when forming cursive letters.
This practice improves their ability to tie shoelaces, tie knots, squeeze a sponge etc.
This man walks in at 3 am and is angry at me for not being angry that he’s home late.
I have no reason to be angry at a consenting adult who knows the time yet chooses to cross the boundary❤️
My daughter’s creche gifted us with a pitch black mug.
I couldn’t understand why but I kept it anyway.
Come, Monday. I made myself some tea. Guess what.
A picture of my little baby revealed itself on the mug😍😍 so adorable man!😍
Last year on this day. I drunk texted someone.
A year later, we live in our own home with a 7 week old Button-nose who looks everything like me😂😍.
It’s our anniversary 💃🏽
2. Cursive Handwriting is SO IMPORTANT for children who may be dyslexic.
Cursive letters and print letters are not the same (few exceptions). However, cursive is easier for a dyslexic child to read from.
A more practical example:
The letter “b” and “d” can easily confuse a dyslexic child.
But the cursive formation of b and d may appear entirely different , thus, causing less room for confusion.
4. My favorite!! - CONCENTRATION!!!!
Cursive really improves the concentration of a child due to its fine detail!
Take a child who is writing in print and place them with one writing in cursive.
Watch who will pay the most attention to their writing.
3. Cursive is also quite good at helping children with their spatial orientation.
This means a child is likely to learn the difference between “left, right, up, down.” quicker using cursive.
Letters in cursive have a strict formation that needs you to start at a certain point
My 20 year old nephew just dumped his girlfriend and felt nothing😳
His reason “girls these days love money and I don’t have it.”
He called it a day and went to chill with the gents.😳
5. Increased writing speed.
Writing in print requires a lot “stop start. Pause etc.”
Cursive is joined letters which are ongoing. The more a child writes in cursive, the better their writing speed.
I got blocked for this message. I've never once complained about him and the things he does but the ONE time I tell him what I want, I'm immediately a problem.
8. For the artistic children? Cursive is sunshine and rainbows to them. 😂
It is mostly enjoyed by children who love art and decorating their letters etc.
Hence their letters to you are usually in cursive😂
I grew up in a household where my dad took my car for drives on the weekend to check for any funny noises/wheel balancing or anything concerning before I use it for campus.
Nothing...I mean NOTHING sends me through the roof like a man who says "call insurance".
I know teachers will crucify me for this one😅 BUT...
A Grade R and a Grade 1 class ARE SUPPOSED TO BE NOISY!!!
The little ones are at a stage where they need to build relationships, do group work , improve their communication, vocabulary AND develop their social skills.
Everybody congratulates you for leaving an abusive relationship but nobody teaches you how to deal with missing your abuser. Nobody is there for the follow-up.
My boyfriend saw me without my wig for the first time yesterday...
I did NOT receive a “good morning babe” text this morning😩😭
I’m breathing through the wound, guys😭
7. A very underrated reason but cursive improves neatness due to how particular it is and the amount of detail required.
So a child is usually very careful during cursive.
6. Hand-eye co-ordination.
Well, writing in print also develops this but I will add it.
You know that skill when a child has to aim during ball games? Yup. That skill is , too, developed during cursive writing
Having to look at the board and copying into the writing book.
I took a walk 2 days ago and bumped into a group of nannies at the park. The intention was just to rest but I felt a conversation wouldn’t be wrong.
And here’s what they had to tell me : 👇🏾👇🏾
I received a phone call I've been waiting for FOR SO LONG😩
My breakthrough has arrived 😩
It's over, guys. My season of hardship e fedile😭
God put me through it , I withstood it and the end has arrived!😭
I’m afraid teaching is not exactly a calling anymore but “an easy way to get a job.”
Some People are now highly pushing the PGCE narrative with the aim of job security and no passion?
💔
10. I don’t know if they still make them but I had this CD filled with cursive font that you just download onto your PC to practice with your little one.
It’s called ABC junior font....
If you’re able to get hold of it, it would be so beneficial, guys.🌸
I once worked with a lady who drove an i10 and wore clothes from PEP. One day we had the privilege of seeing her matrimonial home in an Estate in PTA🙌
She listened when our lecturers said "Teachers, you won't make enough money. Marry a man with money or in a family with money."
After being a submissive woman who has constantly put her family first, tried to turn a house into a home. I’m adamant that Friday morning I’m packing my bags and will return Sunday evening. 🌸
Let my household figure it out without me. It’s my chance now.
I need people to be delivered from the shackles of believing Curro is the alpha of all private schools. We have Crawford, Reddam House and the rest bo lala. It's not that sinister.
I just saw a tweet where a South African celeb literally skipped everyone’s tweets and said “thank you” to another celeb.
Basically everyone else who also said “congratulations” at the same time was a non-factor.
I’m a black SAn woman.
I shared my pregnancy from 7 weeks when it was regarded delicate up until I gave birth.
Nothing happened, delivery was safe, no complications.
Stop scaring black women into not celebrating milestones in their lives.
As a woman, nothing will ever prepare you for the pain of being in love with someone who views you as a wife and mother but NOT a sexual being. They completely disregard that at a point, you were a sexual being before becoming a mother or wife .
Ladies if you can, avoid marrying the following men or take time before marrying them :
•The breadwinner in his family.
•The only son amongst sisters.
•The last born son.
The men are not the problem at all. Le tla hola le di bone bo ghel.
To the new teachers who may not know as yet...
When a child comes to school with a large amount of money or tons of gifts that can't be accounted for, please pay attention to the child or contact their parent. Let me quickly tell you why...👇
Now that the journey has officially ended and we’re home safely. I feel so proud when I say this...I had an all black team helping me deliver in theatre. Half being women😍
This hospital? You CANNOT go wrong❤️🙏🏽 Thank You, Lord for the safe delivery❤️🙏🏽
Yes, I have two children from different fathers neh?
But I count my blessings twice that my son is equally spoiled like my daughter and nobody uses the “he has his own father.” line around here.
When my daughter gets something from her dad? Her brother gets it too from him.
I applied for a position similar to hers at a different school and got it.
We now sit in the same meetings, have the same submissions and now report to the same Departments.
What’s really making me uneasy is that some people are only hoping “it’s not Nellie.”
The point is someone’s daughter has sadly lost her life and her NOT being Nellie (unconfirmed) should not make the death any less shocking or traumatic💔
I didn't leave my ex overnight.
I didn't wake up and one day leave.
I had mentally left him a year ago.
When I was giving birth, I was already just out of love and tired.
I only started moving my feet now.
Yes, women can physically be present but mentally absent.
I cancelled this “millionaire marriage life” and started back at the bottom by renting a 5 room flat.
Status? None.
Peace? All kinds of it in the world😍❤️
(This was taken by him. He who would have probably drowned me in the pool)
My former bestfriend, who constantly made excuses when I invited her to go anywhere, literally goes everywhere with the friend she was aesthetically replacing me with.
I mean EVERYWHERE. Even out of the province. Yet I was dropped last minute for NYE and staycations
Guys?
It’s such a blessing for me to walk into a restaurant with my son and let him choose what he wants from the menu.
I can’t explain it.
To others it means nothing but to me? Yoh! This is the life I’ve wanted to afford my kids. (Ndithetha ngam’)
People think we HATE unisex bathrooms.
No, we are CONCERNED about unisex bathrooms ON SCHOOL PREMISES where you have innocent 6 year old girls & developing teenage boys.
We’re concerned about how teachers will manage this. We have many concerns including but NOT LIMITED to rape
5 years ago, my dad missed my graduation because he wanted to help by watching my new born baby.
This year, he's attending the Pre School graduation of the very same new born baby he watched for me🥺
And his everyday prayer is for God to keep him until my son is an adult🥺
Yesterday at the dealership, this guy was telling me a story about how he sold his GTi to invest in crop farming instead of investing in Lobola for Nomasonto as he promised her.
If you’re Nomasonto from North Riding, just phitizela ghel. Kuningi mntase.
Naaah I’m not on Dineo’s side until I hear the gent’s side.
Some women preach mental health until it’s time to be kind to a man’s mental health too.
Say what you want about me or to me, I said what I said.
We have strong support structures in our families🎉
My daughter has an involved father.
Infact I was girlfriending last night while he had her.
You guys want moms to be so tied down while deadbeat dads do what they want without society questioning them😂
My daughter is currently locked up at Odyssey Apartments in Sandton.
The security laughed at me. SAPS are waiting for a van to come enter the premises.
I've sent the location to loved ones.
Please help me, guys. She is a baby.
My daughter is not where I left her as a mother who was in agreement with a father.
Suddenly , People are keeping my daughter's whereabouts a secret.
I've been sent 3 different locations and 2 of those 3 locations she is not there...
I'm looking for my child, guys.🙏
9. Black males were found to be really the most understanding in their households. Apparently black men have more respect for nannies and more compassion, understanding...etc.
Mommies.... I just want to give you hope.
My son barely said a word at age 1.
At age 2, he was speaking gibberish and could only say Mama.
At age 3, he officially gave up the nappy but his speech was not the greatest.....
I also dated a guy who wasn’t there for me & never made time for me. I didn’t cheat on him, I straight up left him.
Women need to stop justifying cheating. If you’re not happy or he’s not there for you then leave instead of cheat.
@sugeezy
I’m not exactly bothered by what men do in their free time. I just want to know what’s wrong with women who have 2 seater couches and DSTV Nton-nton.
Guys...
I think I've met my man.
As I was walking out of the Dainfern Square, he was walking in. We turned to look at each other and he immediately cut his call so he could take my number.
The eye contact? The way we turned to look at each other? That's definitely MINE.😩
How it started and how it went.
@KabzaMolz
I may not be a woman of many words at times but I appreciate how you made our holiday in Cape Town wholesome. I miss you so much, my friend and I would like to fly you this side for a sistercation in Gauteng.❤️
Bathong.
If your man lives in Midrand, drives a white Ford Ranger with personalized GP plates but is originally from Limpopo...
He's busy lying to me saying he wants to leave you for me. He's also bad mouthing you.
You don't deserve this AT ALL!!! Please check the man you're…
Long story short. I saved a number that showed up on my True Caller. WhatsApp stories were being posted. She was in my car on the passenger side with her feet on the dashboard while listening to Soul music from my USB. True Caller saved my life. He denied but I had receipts.
Parent Twitter...I want to share this with you.
As a mom who believes in multiple streams of investments for children, I want to plug you.
I recently opened a 4th investment for the Cubs. It's with Clientele and it's called Wealth Plan. Please try it out.
One thing I respect about the father of my first child.
He is very decisive. We do not question where we stand in his life. There is no confusion around him.
He is not a messy or complicated man.
He is a deadbeat, I won't deny that but he is very decisive. His NO means NO.
I…
My 10 month old daughter does swimming lessons once a week and Baby-nastics (gymnastics for babies).
My son is starting Karate and I'm looking to see if I can get him into piano classes.
Honestly, this is the life I dreamed of.
Motherhood and children with eventful lives❤️
I had an emotional breakdown this morning in a little corner outside my classroom today. I just couldn't take it anymore. Since Monday, I have been having one on one conversations with children who are sent to me for "misbehaving". Guys? Children are going through A LOT.
Last night I wore a short slit black dress with stilletos.
He turned on his headlights to get a proper view of me while in his car 🔥😩
The chemistry I have with this man is INSANE!!!!! IT IS INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND IT'S HOT!!!😩🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Have you ever felt like a man is delaying your progress as a woman?
Like his decisions as the head of the house are just slowing you down as an ambitious woman?
Please educate me if i am wrong. Sne looks like she may have mild Down Syndrome. If that is the case then it may be causing cognitive impairment (impulsive decision making and poor judgement) I stand corrected but that looks like an adult with mild down syndrome
#Uthandonesthembu
Have you ever banned anyone from coming to your house? And I'm talking about a full grown adult.
I drew the line last week and banned someone from visiting because of how they constantly overstep boundaries and because they don't know when to go home.
Teachers, when you are changing schools; DO NOT allow your principal to bully you into filling in a resignation form.
They know the system‼️. If you are changing schools; particularly interprovincially; you don’t fill in a resignation.
It will wipe you OFF THE DATBASE‼️‼️😩
I'm not in the private sector but I really enjoy my "9-5"🙏❤️
My work day ends at 14:00.
I get quarterly holidays
My pay is not impacted by leave.
I get bonuses, my medical,housing is subsidized.
And my notch increases now and then🎉
I'm not rich but I'm comfortable ❤️
Yoh! This set up gets messy so quickly. One of the boys breaks up with their girl and brings a new one. The personality clashes kick in between the ladies and it just gets messy.
My parents make retirement look so desirable maahn.
I don't know how to explain it. They literally have 0 worries that I'm aware of.
My dad wakes up and does the grandad run with my son.
My mom has a retired nurses club that she's part of.
Some mornings it's just breakfast at…
Someone on Twitter said "we live in an era where your child is only loved by their father for as long as you're in the picture."
And you know what? Although I'm not there yet, I'm seeing the beginning signs....
Maybe I'm wrong but I'm seeing the signs...
My daughter is not where I left her as a mother who was in agreement with a father.
Suddenly , People are keeping my daughter's whereabouts a secret.
I've been sent 3 different locations and 2 of those 3 locations she is not there...
I'm looking for my child, guys.🙏
I really don't care what the men of my generation say but I really appreciate men that are hands-on. It's how I was raised and I won't be apologetic for it.
Some of you guys are spoilt spoilt spoilt. Yoh!
I was the youngest teacher at my previous school. My HOD made life hell for me, never gave me support & when it was Christmas she would buy gifts for everyone and skip me. She made me feel like NOTHING.
Shortly after my 25th birthday, I received a promotional post. 👇🏾
Please quote this tweet with your biggest failure story, and add how it motivated you 💛
I’d love if people respond to this because we are so used to reading many success stories that we forget that people fail too.
I hope this motivates you this week ✨
I may be the “last born”😅but I’m a qualified teacher (B.Ed F. Phase), pursuing my 2nd qualification in Inclusive Education & shortlisted 3 times for HOD.
I’m charismatic and adore the little ones💖
This profession is my calling. I’m here to serve🙏🏽
#CelebritiesAreNotTeachers
In 2014, I walked into a Grade 3 class. Very inexperienced at the time and monitored by mentor teachers. Juggling studies and work.
That group is now the matric class of 2023.
My first group of babies are in matric this year. 😭🎉🙌