Rich Melheim
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Wondering, wandering, plundering, pondering, listening, learning, sighing, yearing and having a blast
Stillwater, MN
Joined June 2010
The most interesting person in the room isn't the one with the best story. It's the one who draws out everyone else's. Day 139 / 365 โ
of the way through the journey. Play this at your next event and reply here, I want to know how it went.
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What actually happens: People stop performing. They start revealing. The room becomes genuinely fascinating, not because anyone tried to be interesting, but because someone created the space to be real.
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The scoring: Guessers get 1 point for being right. The person doing the fooling gets 2 points for every person they fool. Simple. No equipment. No prep. Works at any gathering.
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How to play I Never Knew: Everyone writes one surprising thing about themselves nobody knows. Into a hat. Three slips get pulled. Each person has 30 seconds to convince the room all three are about them. #365withDrRich #DailyBrainwalk #INeverKnew #Connection #Leadership
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I was at breakfast with 12 people. I said: "Let's play a game called I Never Knew." "Someone here commanded a nuclear submarine." "Someone wanted to be a professional tap dancer." "Someone I taught trumpet to as a kid." Nobody guessed right. Here's the game ๐งต (1/5)
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"I hope you enjoyed writing that as much as I enjoyed reading it. I'll be in your city this spring โ can I buy you a coffee?" One of three will say yes. Interesting people don't try to be interesting. They do interesting things. Which of the three are you starting today?
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For #3: this is the one nobody talks about. Buy their book. Read it with a pen in hand. Write all over it. Mail it to them with a Post-it: "I'd love to talk." One week later, send a note:
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Three exercises. Pick one from each. 1๏ธโฃ Three things you've always wanted to do but never did 2๏ธโฃ Three places you've always wanted to go but never have 3๏ธโฃ Three authors you've always wanted to meet
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Yoda gave the best personal development advice ever: "Do or do not. There is no try." Stop trying to be interesting. Here's what to do instead ๐งต Day 138 / 365 #365withDrRich #DailyBrainwalk #PersonalGrowth #Leadership (1/5)
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Not because it's trendy, because it genuinely calls to you. Six weeks from now you won't just have more to talk about. You'll be someone more worth talking to. Interesting people aren't performing. They're living. Day 137 / 365 Which of the four are you starting with?
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Emotional ๐จ One way to genuinely explore your emotional life. A watercolour class. Therapy. Expressive writing. Emotional depth isn't weakness. It's what makes people compelling. Spiritual ๐ง A practice you've always been curious about. Meditation. Mindfulness. Deep prayer.
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Mental ๐ง Something you've always wanted to study but never gave yourself permission. Viking longships. The Cambrian explosion. The War of 1812. Six weeks โ and you'll know if you want to keep going.
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Interesting people don't perform interest. They've built a life they genuinely find fascinating. 4 dimensions. 6 weeks each. Pick one from each. Physical ๐ Train for a marathon. Learn a new dance step. Try chair yoga. One thing. Six weeks. Commit.
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Want to be the most interesting person in the room? My honest advice: Get a life. Literally. ๐งต #365withDrRich #DailyBrainwalk #PersonalGrowth #Leadership (1/7)
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These questions work because they tell people: I think you have a great mind. And when someone feels that around you, they walk away thinking YOU were the most fascinating person in the room. Day 136 / 365 Which one are you using first?
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3) The Creative Association: "You're in a gene-editing lab. Create an animal that lives in space AND underwater. What does it look like? What does it eat?" Fires: visual cortex + associative cortices + executive function.
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2) The Emotional Reflection: "What was the happiest moment of your childhood, and why did that just come to mind?" Fires: visual cortex + memory + language centers. Instant emotional connection.
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1) The Scenario Question: "You wake up on Mars. Next rocket's a year away. What do you need to survive?" Fires: prefrontal cortex + visual-spatial areas + memory centers.
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Questions that recruit multiple brain regions simultaneously: โ Attention centers โ Memory centers โ Language centers โ Higher-order thinking โ Emotional brain All firing at once. Here are 3 that do exactly that.
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