Stop liking this! I didn't mean for it to leave my usual circle lol!

@PoleDoctress I keep saying that whoever my person is, is probably in a long term relationship and will break up soon bc at this point all the men outside rn are not it.

@magizzles_ Like the 2 guys I've been going out with fit this description, and they are both hotties with careers and are super sweet to me. Like, oh, I see why you've been off the market

@PoleDoctress But they have a whole new set of issues

@cardiwithpearls I don't really think ending a relationship that's not working gives any issues if the guy is mature

@PoleDoctress Oooh I hope this happens near me to as currently they’re still all happily married and having kids and the ones not are creeps 😭😭😭

@c3convertase I'm dating like 35-37 year olds with no children

@PoleDoctress This is what I’m hoping for.

@PoleDoctress So yes. Good gf is dating someone who’s divorced (got married young, it’s the south), best relationship she’s ever been in

@PoleDoctress So far, the healthiest relationship I’ve had is with a man who hasn’t dated in 15 years. He’s been separated for 2 years, and intentionally did not date during that time. It’s such a different experience compared to what I’m used to!

@PoleDoctress You’ve cracked the code! Good guys come on the market all the time. They just get snapped up quickly. It’s about persistence and luck and timing.

@PoleDoctress but why? gotta get the details.

@PoleDoctress We’re they truly good guys or ones that settled? A lot I’ve talked to have attachment issues that explain why they got divorced.

@PoleDoctress I’m praying for a widowed accountant or engineer so hard. Will also take amicably divorced. With or without kids.

@PoleDoctress Yup!!!! They aren’t hung up on their past cause the passion has been over for years, they are comfortable doing the marriage stuff but they crave the excitement of everything being new, so we do it all. Fantasies come true 🥹🔥

@PoleDoctress I pray this is true haha

@PoleDoctress There’s a reason they are available again after long term relationships 😉

@PoleDoctress Waiting for the first round of divorces