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These podcasts are a reflection of Ruth & David’s on-going conversations which are both intimate and professional and touch on complex topics like how systems f
Joined September 2020
It’s an interesting dichotomy: The similarities between bullying and domestic abuse yet we only really focus on ending one whilst the other is seen as an inevitable part of life. Make it make sense.
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I am delighted to be a Keynote speaker at the 2023 Safe & Together Model™ European Conference. I'll be discussing coercive control. There are also many wonderful workshops & keynotes at the conference on responding effectively to domestic abuse. https://t.co/krdH2icqMJ
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A link to our very first @PWASpodcast episode! We recorded it on trip to Arizona 3 years ago. Since then we've recorded episodes all over the world, interviewed amazing guests and had great conversations with each other. To our listeners, keep the comments & feedback coming!
Episode 1: Coercive Control and Consent, Ruth Stearns Mandel and David Mandel, have a far ranging and personal conversation about the relationship between coercive control and consent. #PivotToThePerpetrator #dvinformed #coercivecontrol
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'The best Interest of the Abuser' by @GrantWyeth
https://t.co/dEC3itOKQw : "Although proponents of parental alienation use gender-neutral language - and claim that women can be “alienated” too -the success of the concept as a legal tactic is gender-specific" @custodypeace
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When you don’t have money, anyone can make false allegations in court and criminalize you while you are unable to defend yourself. The court system is NOT a place of equity. It is proof of the failure of capitalism. It has been >180 days since I have seen or heard from my kids.
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If you experienced coercive control, would you mind sharing what it was that your abuser dis that made you feel coerced?
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The @PWASpodcast podcast is now officially 100K downloads! Thank you for making us one of the most popular podcasts about #domesticviolence To celebrate please tell us about 1) your favorite episode & 2) how the podcast has impacted you, or your practice or 3) how you use it
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Newest episode of @PWASpodcast
https://t.co/PLM0Rzxrr5 (beware of slightly wonky sound quality on this one...sorry we were trying something different in terms of tech) On this show we talk about specific technique to interrupt victim-blaming @SafeandTogether #DomesticViolence
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About This Episode Conversations about domestic violence often start from a victim-blaming perspective: “Why doesn’t she leave?” or “Why does she keep choosing him over children?” or “I can’t trust...
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@davidgmandel @PWASpodcast I remember you modelling it at the ASSIST conference in Glasgow in 2015 and how we all saw in that moment how powerful it could be and how much we needed it. Thank you David @am_safeandtog @fionamcmullen1
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https://t.co/LB9JQwLuZf check out our latest @PWASpodcast episode. One of my most memorable demonstrations of this technique was on my 1st trip to Australia in 2013 . On the first part of the trip I did two workshops in Mackay & Brisbane 1/
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About This Episode Conversations about domestic violence often start from a victim-blaming perspective: “Why doesn’t she leave?” or “Why does she keep choosing him over children?” or “I can’t trust...
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I love this! Many people, who make statements about how #domesticviolence perpetrators can't be found or won't change,have neither tried to find nor engage them & in the end this isn't about individual practitioners but about systems' failure to train and support their workers
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This was tough episode to record & might be a tough one to listen to. Check our newest @PWASpodcast episdoe https://t.co/bpDHnSv0se
#ChildMaltreatment #DomesticViolence
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About This Episode With upsetting frequency, the news will report a story of a child murdered by their mother’s partner. Sometimes this murder happens in the context of separation. Other times it is...
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Check out the latest episode of Partnered with A Survivor featuring Ruth Reymundo Mandel & David Mandel discussing the hardest parts of the world of domestic abuse. Please take good self care after & during your listening.
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About This Episode With upsetting frequency, the news will report a story of a child murdered by their mother’s partner. Sometimes this murder happens in the context of separation. Other times it is...
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Listen to our episode featuring Dr. Emma Katz! https://t.co/FGcl6GlXK3
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About This Episode In this episode, David and Ruth chat with author and academic Dr. Emma Katz about her new book Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives . Dr. Katz shares the story behind...
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800 downloads in 13 days! Listen in to find out more about the work of @DrEmmaKatz
https://t.co/lB8sTRBL0b
@PWASpodcast #CoerciveControl
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About This Episode In this episode, David and Ruth chat with author and academic Dr. Emma Katz about her new book Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives . Dr. Katz shares the story behind...
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This new @PWASpodcast episode with @DrEmmaKatz has gotten over 500 downloads in five days! The average podcast gets 141 downloads in 30 days. Check what is grabbing everyone's attention https://t.co/lB8sTRBL0b
#CoerciveControl #Children @SafeandTogether @survivorstrong3
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About This Episode In this episode, David and Ruth chat with author and academic Dr. Emma Katz about her new book Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives . Dr. Katz shares the story behind...
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Child survivors in households where someone is engaging in #CoerciveControl experience similar effects to adult survivors. Listen to an in-depth conversation about children, mothers & coercive control.
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About This Episode In this episode, David and Ruth chat with author and academic Dr. Emma Katz about her new book Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives . Dr. Katz shares the story behind...
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The language of partnering was specific and intentional, and it was originally directed to child welfare and child sharing systems. https://t.co/549tdWCCqe
#partnerwithasurvivor #podcast #domesticviolence #coercivecontrol #adultsurvivor #childsurvivor
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Presenting a workshop at a child welfare conference on perpetrator manipulation of systems. Trying to help professionals identify and combat being manipulated when perpetrators target them. @SafeandTogether #PivotToThePerpetrator
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