Digital artist, animator, designer, author, and part-time elephant *INFJ* 🐘💕
Asks too many questions, can be a little intense
Comms and design
@PdxInstitute
Boys who are "puberty blocked" aren't going to go through a female puberty
Their body will attempt to continue to grow as best it can, despite being deprived of this natural and necessary developmental process
They will be stunted physically, emotionally, and cognitively
Their…
TRAs: "If you don't affirm and transition kids IMMEDIATELY, they'll die"
Also TRAs: "Lol, detransitioners take responsibility. No one forced you into those surgeries"
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When I was 14 and hypersexualizing myself on MySpace, a single mom in her 20s reached out to tell me how harmful it was
She sent me a long lecture, and it was actually really sweet that she a compassionate adult in a sea of apathetic and abusive adults who wanted to help me 💕
TRAs: "Detransitioners were never really trans"
"So, why don't we stop people from transitioning right away and make sure it's absolutely what the person wants, so there's no regret"
TRAs: "No, that's conversion therapy"
"Then how do we make sure who's 'actually' trans?"…
On Russell Brand
If you think someone who had a sex addiction and partied his head off would've been able to ensure every encounter and sex act was completely consensual and consistently made responsible choices, you're being very naive
Even people without that history can't…
Something no one talks about when these sporting bodies pull up the bogus T levels test as a way into women's sports:
* It doesn't change their bone density
* It doesn't change their lung capacity
* It doesn't change their heart and lung size advantage
* It doesn't change their…
Let's say, someone identified as you 🧵💕
They come to your house, convince all your friends to be cool with it, pretending to have your medical conditions, etc, all while doing things you would never do and saying that's just what being you means to them -
@lucy_thevegan
You don't need to be a doctor to recognize that a practice is harmful
Art is subjective. Like or dislike whatever you like. You're entitled to that opinion
I didn't pursue medicine because of a spinal injury that made it impossible to pursue at the time
Have an average day 💕
.........☁️The Self Cloud ☁️.........
A simple way to teach kids about identity fundamentals. No complicated labels. Just facts, presented in a friendly, approachable way 💕
The Right: "We need strong men"
Also the Right: "Find a woman who will do all your cooking, cleaning, and childcare for you without question"
The Left: "Men are evil oppressors"
Also the Left: "Men can be the most marginalized and impressive women if they identify as one and…
The lie we're sold that everyone is supposed to be happy at every point in our lives has really screwed up entire generations
Strife is normal
Being unhappy is normal
Not feeling special is normal
Not fitting in is normal
"Joy", "celebration", "pride" and "euphoria" at every…
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You can identify how you please, but when you insist that everyone else redefines the rules, their language, their protections, etc for you, with no concern for their feelings, it's no longer about you.
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I'm wondering how all these schools are thinking that the girls who are beaten and raped by trans identified students are going to be sympathetic towards the "trans rights" policies that allowed it to happen
Or their parents, or their friends, or the people who read the stories…
This is dangerous medical misinformation
I was harmed because of lies like this, and so are countless other women
Women's healthcare is a travesty because our natural biological processes have been pathologized and seen as a mere inconvenience
Unless you’re trying to conceive there’s no medical reason to have a period. We have an array of pharmaceutical and surgical options for minimizing or eliminating periods, which are at best inconvenient and at worst disabling. Seriously fuck menstruation
I KNEW IT
I warned friends of mine about this guy because he was dating another dude who took sexualized photos of himself wearing children's clothes
Actual children's sized clothes, btw, not the ones that just look like children's clothes
And all I got was, "Oh he's one of…
It's just Olympic weightlifting
It's just college basketball
It's just NCAA swimming
It's just MMA
It's just cycling
It's just rowing
It's just winning
It's just placing
It's just bullshit and it needs to stop
Guess which ones not the female in women’s college rowing in USA. If it’s not sorted out females won’t get places on teams! Or the scholarships that go with it😡
No, Mr. Hayton, "society organized by gametes," does not outcast people with DSDs. It protects them and their health coverage by accurately defining their sex
Also, chromosomes ARE NOT gametes. They are correlated, but not the same
And lastly, STOP USING PEOPLE WITH SERIOUS…
@voxdotcom
WOW. Manipulative, much? I have had gender dysphoria since early childhood and didn't transition and I'm very happy.
STOP putting pressure on kids to transition with the threat of suicide.
You encourage self harm and make their mental health worse with this.
So irresponsible
She was born just in time for
@zaelefty
's first Father's Day 💕
He's been a great dad already!
Things have been so hectic, I almost forgot it was Sunday! 🤣💕
@HazelAppleyard_
Bro is upset that the other dudes are mashing the lesbian forums into sausage fears and wants real lesbians to bother all for himself lmao
@prideukorg
Telling people that they'll commit suicide if they can't coerce speech and get others to play along with their gender identity is suicide encouragement
@OliLondonTV
I rescued my dog from Iran. She was a scrawny puppy when I got her. They had to lie on her paperwork to get her overseas because the only shelter in the country was overflowing, and they couldn't keep her at home.
She's now nearly 100 lbs and incredibly spoiled 💕
I would adopt…
You were not "interrogated" before the conference about your washroom use. I asked you because I wasn't comfortable staying in a house with a man who did that, and you acted like it didn't bother you
You even told me you appreciated me being frank. So, were you lying then or…
You know, I wasn't going to say anything because I don't like putting people on blast publicly
But being this way to someone I love - to the father of my daughter who is never anything but respectful and measured, really doesn't sit right with me
There are 1000 nasty things I…
@SwipeWright
To everyone in that group - I was a gender dysphoric kid. It is hard enough growing up with that condition without people pushing or pulling you in a direction and honestly, all the medical stuff is really scary. Dressing it up nicely will only set your kids up for depression -
@DebbieHayton
We knew you were going to bring them up like every other creep who drags in these conditions
CAIS women go through female puberty with the exception of the menses. They do not respond to testosterone. They are male only in so far as having the underdeveloped reproductive…
- that might make them question why or how they're *you* and that's bigoted and phobic.
At first, you didn't mind, but when it became threatening and oppressive, when it changed your language and didn't let you express yourself and views honestly, it became a problem 💕
Misfits and affirmation storytime 📖
In high school, I was in anime club (pardon my weebery)
Almost every kid there was having an identity crisis and were misfits
Most of them worked through it, but among them was a girl (April) who believed she was a type of werewolf, and a…
- Anyone can be *you* and attribute all kinds of things to what it means to be you.
The way these new yous dress is how you dress.
Criminals are now referred to as *you*, in fact, crime rates are changing because of you. *Your* criminal record is exploding!
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- At first, you try to ignore them. You don't want to stop anyone from expressing themselves.
It's not impacting you, right?
Well, now, people are starting to think you're at fault for their behavior, people don't see you as a full person anymore. *You* are just a concept -
@jalapeno_mac
- switched schools because I'd been bullied so much for the rape (from another, popular classmate), she grew very severe, reached out to me and said, "You could've been running around naked and he would still have no right to touch you. No one has a right to do that to you." -
For the "why now?" crowd - I don't really care why now.
It can take time to come forward after sexual abuse, it can take someone asking you about it, sometimes, it can be horrifying to think about coming out against someone when you think no one will believe you.
Maybe it's…
- The way you behave is no longer like *you*.
In fact, if you tell anyone that's not like you at all, they'll explain it's not for you to decide. You're a bigot for even implying there are general behaviors that are unlike *you*.
You must also include all the new *yous* -
@BillboardChris
If the pattern of male trans children follows the pattern, we know which kind of actor these creepy adults are hoping to make him into 💔
The same people who call for "decolonization" are the same people who
• want open borders
• call to impose their "progressive and inclusive" views to be force fed through every institution
• revel in cancel culture
• strip women of their rights and spaces to include males…
@camhfoundation
I'm a gender dysphoric/sex dysmorphic woman who did *not* do "affirmative care" and am happy and stable. It is offensive, reductive, and dismissive that we're treated like this is the only way to treat our condition.
- everywhere and in everything you do. Excluding the new *yous* is not allowed, even if they make you feel unsafe. That's your bigotry and phobia talking.
Why do all these people want to be *you* anyway? Well, you can't really ask or have any therapy advocated for, because -
Every time I haven't listened to my instincts, I've been bitten in the rear
Every. Single. Time.
I'm glad I listened when it came to this creep
If my alarm bells go off, I'm running with it from this moment on
@ImWatson91
I had terrible parents. You can still be someone's Ms. Honey and adopt
The world is crazy right now. Kids need a good home, with parents who are vigilant and can protect them. So many are lost to the system 🫂💕
So...it's the last day of
#Pride
month🏳️🌈 and I have been really conflicted about this, but I wanted to put this out there.
I'm proud that I didn't transition 💕
It took years of therapy to be comfortable in my body - to associate with it at all, but I did it 🧵
If men and women can dress how they like and do what they want, what's the point of "gender identities" - especially neo pronouns, other than just what some people like being called? -
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You mean kids with gender dysphoria?
Because I was one, didn't transition, and I'm happy, healthy, and secure.
Stop encouraging kids to destroy and hate their healthy bodies before they even had the chance to live and grow in them, you unleavened journey cake 😘💕
"You mean everyone with a vagina is a woman. That's reductionist"
No. An entire female physiology is related and attached. It's a sex specific organ that develops as a package deal with everything else. Thinking of it as just a singular, unrelated body part is reductionist 😘💕
"Male and female are social constructs and there's no way to define what they are...
...but trans women have female brains and trans men have male brains"
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@Pythos1
As long as he's not bothering anyone, why would it matter? He's not infringing on anyone's rights or getting a kick out of being somewhere he shouldn't be
@mr_lovermxn
@NeilMonton
@detransaqua
The reproductive system contributes to the endocrine system, the brain, bone health, muscle density, the cardiovascular system, etc
Your sex and reproductive system are foundational to health
If you're really "allergic to misinformation", you'll delete this reply of yours
With this whole Elliot Page thing going on, I just want to say, not everyone has to transition. It's your choice, so please try not to let others influence you. I'll probably live with my GD until I die and that's okay. It doesn't define me. I can even forget it sometimes now. -
@NeuroSGS
Because it means we aren't some special, misunderstood breed of human that is different from everyone else in a way that warrants pandering and celebration 😋💕
Pro tip for parents:
If your kid is playing or dressing unconventionally, treat it like it's normal (so long as they aren't hurting anyone or themselves). It doesn't need to be encouraged or discouraged. Just let it be. 💕
@SwipeWright
- and anxiety later. You are robbing them of self acceptance, of their health, literally years of their lives because of these medical procedures. You should want your kids to be healthy and live without this stuff. You should want their distress to be alleviated med-free. -
@drquinngyn
@Philosophi_Cat
Credentialism is garbage
The guy who pioneered the lobotomy got a Nobel Prize. Should we keep saying those are super beneficial and harmless, too? 🙃💕
@DistortedLinds
And they tell you, it's not about grooming. I remember when drag was explicitly against being around kids. Wtf. Who is throwing money at these girls?? Check their hard drives.
@jalapeno_mac
- Thinking of that kindness is the only thing that still makes me cry about that part of my life. It was invaluable to have someone affirm that it wasn't my fault. She let me cry in her office as long as I needed.
@pinkmalicious
There way I dealt with my dad threatening to release photos and video he took while he was abusing me was to just come out and tell people. It's scary, but the only people who will be cruel aren't worth worrying about. For the most part, people will be kind and empathetic 💕
@MalesOfReddit
Someone really could make a prank account and just say the worst, most stereotypically bad things about being trans in these subs and they'd be like, "lol yeah, same" 💀
Has no one realized that if we go along with TWAW and TMAM, that crime statistics would be affected in a way that we wouldn't be able to definitively sort out which crimes were caused by transphobic violence and which ones weren't?
@VictoriaPeckham
@thetimes
People disagreeing with you isn't compelled speech. It's free speech. Stop shaming people from on high because they don't have the same opinion. Good grief. It's the same tactics as TRAs
We don't put someone on medication to make sure they stay left handed.
Being left handed is genetic. Gender dysphoria is a mental health condition and being trans is a choice.
As someone with gender dysphoria that didn't transition, this is extremely offensive.
@keffaltwt
@TullipR
That's literally the Keffals brand - misinformation and ratios because the terminally online have such a pathetic value system
Acting like that isn't on brand is spreading more misinfor- oh... 🙃💕