Rhi
@OutFoxgloved
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Appreciator of the little things in life. On Mastadon as https://t.co/KNRVBaeeJT #Wales #Autistic
Wales, United Kingdom
Joined January 2016
I apologised to my husband for not finishing the task I had planned for today. He said, “Yes, but how many side quests did you get done along the way?” I feel seen - my whole life is main quests being disrupted by side quests. #Neurodivergent
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Bumped my head yesterday and husband is worrying about concussion He asked me what I’d spoken about with my mum, I couldn’t give much detail. He asked me what length we’d cut planks to, “229cm” You can’t test if my #autistic brain is working through my social memory 😁
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Love a doughnut, love well-being, love neurodivergence well-being, and love a positive workplace. What is not to love? #neurodivergence
It's been a long time since I published a blog post, but I hope you enjoy Wellbeing Doughnuts: Neurodivergent Wellbeing in the Workplace ID: photo of ring doughnuts topped with pastel green icing and multicoloured sprinkles https://t.co/0OCB8aWV3a
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Excited to share my interview for #NeurodiversityCelebrationWeek! I am embracing this ongoing journey of self-discovery and growth 💙 My aim is to be open and genuine with everyone around me. Thanks @weare_neurobox for the opportunity! #Authenticity
https://t.co/REc2ZKA0FD
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As part of our Neurodiversity Celebration Week we’re shining a spotlight on the diverse voices within our community. Hear from different voices as they share their proudest moments, exchange tips and...
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Balance is important in life, especially when the world feels overwhelming. In this blog @OutFoxgloved talks about building a balanced life, how she adapts to the challenges of the everyday and how she has learnt her limits. Can you relate? https://t.co/NFKdaoWC8w
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I wrote a thing after a thing and used up all my words to do it Autistic Social Hangovers are invisible. I don’t want people to see the mask and not understand the cost of putting it on I also don’t want them to stop inviting me to things! #Autistic
https://t.co/EFXllI1Ap2
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Since the pandemic I haven’t often felt disabled by the world in the same ways as I did before. I have routine and patterns and I work from home the vast majority of the time. But there will always…
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Excited that I’m doing my Neurodiversity/Dr Who show “Bigger on the Inside” again-with a post-show discussion about the 60th anniversary Dr Who shows (which we’ll hopefully have watched!) & the future of neurodiversity! Weds 29th November in Newcastle. Link below:
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The Day my Autism Saved my Daughter's Life https://t.co/JF5JM55dbc via @outfoxgloved A beautifully written, poetic and honest story that I felt a connection to.
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I wrote this back in October. Then I decided not to post it. Why? Because I feared judgement. When it happened I blamed myself. I should have been watching every second. I should have been …
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Two entirely normal food obsessions I had as a sensory-seeking teen: I would microwave tinned anchovies for ten seconds and devour them; & at school you could buy vinegar sachets for 2p & I’d drink them at break time Utter bliss from both. Am I alone in this? #AskingAutistics
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Does anyone have a link to a resource list on dyslexia in adults, or just good websites they find helpful? So many resources seem to be aimed at schools and parents #dyslexia
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“I need to be me again before I forget how. Meltdowns aren’t me. Meltdowns are the consequence of not being me enough. They’re the extreme-stress response when I’ve been ignoring the signs that things need to change.” #Autistic
I don’t want to normalise meltdowns, because they’re a stress response, they should never be normal #actuallyautistic
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I don’t want to normalise meltdowns, because they’re a stress response, they should never be normal #actuallyautistic
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I have to sit with this. This feeling that I’ll never accept and that will always frustrate and ruin what would otherwise be just fine. I am overwhelmed. I have been overwhelmed for a while, but I’…
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I just want to thank @FernBrady for putting that bit in her book about meltdowns. I happened to read it at just the right time It’s not an easy topic. I’m a grown-up with a sensible job and comfy shoes, but there is a side that is less sanitised and neat https://t.co/iROPwbJjDB
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I have to sit with this. This feeling that I’ll never accept and that will always frustrate and ruin what would otherwise be just fine. I am overwhelmed. I have been overwhelmed for a while, but I’…
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Bloody hell, I can't even begin to emphasise how important of a point this is.
I don’t want to normalise meltdowns, because they’re a stress response, they should never be normal #actuallyautistic
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I don’t want to normalise meltdowns, because they’re a stress response, they should never be normal #actuallyautistic
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I have to sit with this. This feeling that I’ll never accept and that will always frustrate and ruin what would otherwise be just fine. I am overwhelmed. I have been overwhelmed for a while, but I’…
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When you have a really rough day, and then you get home and remember you’ve got builders in so can’t collapse, and then your builder sees you’re feeling rubbish and shows you the picture of a rainbow they took from your window… that specific emotion needs a name.
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Calling UK based autistic adults! Have you filled in my questionnaire yet?! https://t.co/7cjcQZXbDm I'm studying the benefits of time, space and activities used to recover, decompress, regulate and recharge without being disturbed by other people. Please RT! #ActuallyAutistic
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