Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul ๐ดโโ ๏ธ
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Natural Law Senior Fellow @NatLawInstitute I will show you how to build happy, high trust, intergenerational families. https://t.co/xOj3DgPfi1
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YOU ARE NOT CRAZY OR BROKEN. You are simply blocked, stuck in a pattern of feeling, thinking, and behaving that's not going to get you what you want. Every new stage of life requires us to learn new skills, habits, and systems. But many of us have been blocked somewhere in our
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Men: Do not waste your youth. The younger you start compounding across all domains, physical, cognitive, social, economic, the higher your ultimate developmental ceiling. The pop-culture fantasy that men can waste decades and magically become high-value at 40 is a dysgenic lie
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Your fraternity, mรคnnerbund, or menโs group will not last without a shared mission that every man contributes to and works toward. That mission cannot be โhanging out.โ It must be serious, productive, and mutually beneficial.
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My friends, some of the smartest, wisest, most well read, more moral, and best men in the world and I have not only formed online groups but held multiple in person events, now formed a startup and soon we will move into close proximity to each other. It can start online, but
The reason it feels nearly impossible to quit Twitter is because of the almost complete and total absence of intellectual life in the offline world. There is nowhere for a Thinking Man to "land" anymore. Even the cities are largely voids of anything resembling satisfying
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โSo if chore play does not fix your marriage, does that mean men should not do chores?โ No. That is not what it means. If you use doing chores to try to fix a marriage with broken dynamics, it will fail and the marriage will get worse. If, as a man, you do chores because your
Chore Play Kills Polarity and Marriages Too many men are told that the way to fix their marriage is by doing more domestic chores. This fails because it does not demonstrate an understanding of the underlying natural law psychology that governs how men and women behave in
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โI feel like I never get a break. The cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, the kids needing something every minute, it never ends. I am always on duty, and no one sees how constant it is.โ โI am tired of carrying everything for the family. Working long hours, paying every bill,
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Did you know that you can just choose to be happy.
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When men and women are in conflict, I often see a reflex to assume the other side is being dishonest. Sometimes that is true. Very often, however, the person believes he or she is being honest but does not know what he or she wants, does not know how to get it, and does not
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Fathers and mothers: guard yourselves against PONOS, empty toil, work without meaning or value. It drains the hours and strength that should build your family, your life, your mission. Every moment wasted on PONOS is stolen from your childโs future.
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A wife asking her husband to do more chores in a collapsing marriage is like passengers on a sinking ship asking the captain to turn on the bilge pumps. Of course they want the pumps on. It helps in the moment. But the pumps arenโt the real solution. The ship is sinking because
Chore Play Kills Polarity and Marriages Too many men are told that the way to fix their marriage is by doing more domestic chores. This fails because it does not demonstrate an understanding of the underlying natural law psychology that governs how men and women behave in
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"Men are selfish" "I'm just focusing on myself" Zero self awareness.
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If youโre suffering from a zombie marriage with no spark, a high-pressure marriage full of unresolved tension, or you simply want better sex, deeper intimacy, and more meaningful conversations with your spouse, this article will show you how to get there.
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Chore Play Kills Polarity and Marriages Too many men are told that the way to fix their marriage is by doing more domestic chores. This fails because it does not demonstrate an understanding of the underlying natural law psychology that governs how men and women behave in
A marriage counselor once told my wife the problem was โcommunication.โ $200 an hour. 12 sessions. She learned to โuse I statements.โ I learned to โvalidate her feelings.โ We were still miserable. You know what fixed my marriage? I stopped talking. Started doing. Woke up
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My three little boys should be sleeping but instead they are making animal noises, saying "booby" loudly and giggling like mad.
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If you want to fix your marriage by all means improve your communication. But always remember that actions > words. Be known as a doer. Not a talker.
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What are you competent at? What do you wish you were competent at?
The only true, durable, and lasting capital a man has is competence. You can lose all your money, you can lose your friends, you can lose your reputation, you can lose your family, but as long as you're alive, you can be competent at something, and competence is always
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If your friends and family think your marriage (or prospective marriage) will fail, it probably will.
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The only true, durable, and lasting capital a man has is competence. You can lose all your money, you can lose your friends, you can lose your reputation, you can lose your family, but as long as you're alive, you can be competent at something, and competence is always
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