Just left a family dinner thing with my girls because my Aussie uncle was being disgustingly racist.
I told him that what he was saying was absolutely unacceptable and I wouldn’t tolerate it.
Got my kids and left and said we are much better than this as a family.
Hey New Zealand tweeters who are thinking of having a whinge and grizzle tomorrow about the teacher strike...can you please just not.
Instead think about these incredible people who look after and teach our kids. Offer support instead of slagging them off.
Love a Mum of two.
Today I was asked to consider my “personal brand” and how I “would like to be perceived” by people.
I said “I stopped caring about what people thought about me years ago and I’m not going to start caring again now.”
Awkward silence set in instantly which was brilliant.
This random little bird joined us today for an hour today.
The bird I think must have been a techno DJ in a previous life as they loved the hammer and just wanted to sit on it.
Enjoy the joy...
My kid is having a hard time at school being ignored and issues with ‘friend groups’ voting girls in and out of the groups.
Fuck this sucks. She cries so hard. It reminds me of me at 13 and she’s 11.
So
@nzpost
have lost my personal locator beacon. And because a new one would be over $250 they won’t set up an insurance claim.
The irony isn’t lost on me. I need to log in and set it off right? It will scream for days until found or the battery goes flat but...it won’t be lost
OMGEEE The Ashley Bloomfield clip. What the actual fuck!!
Anyone know when he arrives at MOH in the mornings cause gosh I’d love to make a big line of people there all giving him hugs and support tomorrow morning.
Bloody Mum called.
A family members wedding just got called off and all the family are already booked for the cruise.
So she asks. Nikki take one for the team would you and get married in April to someone please.
Your aunties and I need I wear these dresses somewhere. 🖕🖕
To all the emergency services teams and crews helping in this White Island disaster...thank you.
I know you won’t be able to see this or any other messages for days yet but thank you so much for being there and for being so brave amongst this terrible situation.
Kia kaha.
Dear NZ teachers, if anyone gives you shit today ignore them.
You have my support.
I’ve tried to plan fun learning activities at home all day for my kids and it was a challenge. They are unlikely to be excited by my plan for the day. You do that every day for so many kids. ❤️
So now I’ve done a marathon. Whoop whoop. An outstanding event even in the craziest conditions today.
I absolutely bloody loved it. My body was excellent and I didn’t even cry and the end....probably because it was raining so hard anyway!
The greatest T-shirt I have ever ordered just arrived!
I was unwrapping it just when my daughter was interviewing me about my fashion style for a school project.
I’m no longer going to feature in her profiling.
Can’t stop watching the live stream at Parliament at the moment. Yikes. Makes me scared and a bit worried which is unusual for me.
Shout out to the
@nzpolice
I can hear some of the things that are being said to you and can see you remaining calm.
Woke up to a bunch of toxic messages from a toxic family friend who has finally realised I cut him from Facebook.
I did it like five years ago.
It’s hilarious that he’s so stupid to only realise now.
Today I’m enjoying three months of single life.
Since I was 18 I’ve bounced between relationships, with usually like a two weeks in between.
I set myself a goal to be single for at least a year. Feels so good that the only commitment I have now, is to myself and the girls.
This will probably destroy something awesome - but I’m going to tweet it anyway and apologise later.
I’m part of a Facebook group of women. It’s a private group. If we go to meet someone. We message with the address and the persons details. We include as much information as
Today has been total shit. It’s the first time ever I’ve found myself soul searching for my normal resilience and found it just wasn’t there. Just felt empty.
I’ve been reflecting on this and maybe the Covid and lockdown has drained more than I had considered.
Is it just me?
I do hope these two Covid women are getting the emotional and mental support they need.
I’m super angry about the whole thing but I can’t begin to imagine how terrible they feel.
Threw on my extra padded bike pants and rode my bike to work today for the first time in 14 years living in Wellington.
Didn’t fall off flying down the gorge which was a solid bonus.
Now to try and get the feeling back in my butt and prepare to bike home.
Ugh I had just got in the bath.
Beam goes off.
Sensor camera goes off. Hmm that’s interesting.
Door knock. I scramble to get out of the bath.
Kids scream “Mum there is a hot young man at the door....mum are you dating again?”
.....Election time door knocking....
Oh dear I can hear someone is talking about abortion and saying that they think it’s a bad thing because we need more people in New Zealand.
Twitter cover me I’m about to lose my shit at this person.
Having a chat with the girls about them not wanting to call their “step mother” that. So we have been coming up with other names.
Miss Six goes how about Mother Fucker!
Mic dropped.
So anyway I’m thinking if getting a big mandala tattoo to cover my scars on my back.
I went to a local henna artist to test out an idea.
This is what she has just finished doing.
What do you think?
My friend is struggling a lot with mental illness at the moment.
Last week I went and sat with her for a few hours. I went again today. She made it the week as she didn’t think she would.
I’m glad there’s a lot of advice available on how to support friends and yourself.
At netball... the defence positions say...
“Nikki we made up a new cheerleading chant.”
Me: “Oh great what is it?”
“We are the Ds! We want D!”
Me “oh god no! You need to say defence not D”
Omgeeee
@FlyAirNZ
tears. A friend messaged you apparently to tell you about the shit week I have had. The crew made me a lovely card and left it on my seat to remind me its not all crap. Loving the hugs. Gosh how lovely. Happy tears.
@AndrewKayNZ
you are a lovely rascal thanks.
And Day One of Funemployment starts.
Shout out to everyone else also applying for every job available and getting no where. It’s the situation. It’s not you. Try not to lose hope or confidence. 🧡
If you can help with that first action point...
Years ago I got this for $5 from Farmers down from like $60 or something. It’s been my goal to fit in it and wear it to bed.
Just tried it on and now I’m wondering why I didn’t opt for something a lot sexier to try and tone to get into. 🤣 Still challenge completed.
Doctor found a few concerning lumps in my boobs. Just had them checked and they are fine. Such a stressful time. I’m aware I’m lucky and some women aren’t so lucky.
Just dropped about 100 rocks up the circle walkway on Hauora Reserve in Woodridge if you are in Wellington and looking for a Sunday afternoon walk activity with your kids.
In the Japanese culture there is a tradition called Kintsugi where they put beautiful broken things back together with gold.
Earlier this week the magical Myrthe from Bodyfxnz painted my body in this theme.
This is a non full nude of the end result.
When the kids go to their Dads they leave me secret notes like this all over the house for me to find when they aren’t here.
In a few years it will be “Mum stay away.” For now I love finding them
Anyone who is hearing the New Zealand news now and it’s triggering your anxiety and everything else...
I’m thinking of you. Your feelings are valid. Remind yourself of the strategies that worked a few months ago. Sending Hugs.
Oh no Monty has found the sign.
He’s not happy.
A. It says he is old
B. It says don’t feed him.
C. They couldn’t even duct tape the sign straight.
Poor Monty.
Miss nine is going sex ed at school.
“Mum today we watched a video about sex and touching and it had two options. A happy ending and a sad ending. Mum do you like happy endings.”
.....
Yikes....I finally just got my crazy cat lady starter kit.
I can only have the four of them until Saturday but still.
This is part of my 2020 challenge to volunteer more.
Sorry in advance for kitten photos. Please don’t let me adopt any.
This tweet is being written purely to avoid eye contact with someone who I don’t want to make eye contact with.
At least if I look like I’m typing it will give me a few minutes to continue to ignore them.
Thanks as always Twitter 😃
Dad just called.
“Nikki your bloody mother isn’t taking it easy. She’s only a month out of radiation therapy and it’s like she’s on p or something. I’m going to hide all the vehicle keys off her so she can’t leave the farm.”
Sitting in the car bawling after watching my kid absolutely smash her cross country. She led all the way like a super star and told me off for cheering too loud.
Proud mum moments
Mum and Dad are 45 minutes drive from a supermarket.
Dad is out of smokes and has gone fencing all pissed off.
Mum was supposed to go to town to get Dad smokes. She didn’t.
Instead she found this kitten on the side of the road and picked it up and it’s now waiting for Dad.
Yesterday I told myself that if I could swim the 400 metres from Oriental Bay to Freyburg Beach and survive that I would sign up for the Kapiti Women’s Triathlon.
Once again I should have just rewarded my craziness with a beer.
PSA if you aren’t working tomorrow turn your alarm off now New Zealand and enjoy the sleep in.
Essential workers...you are magical and thank you from me for all you are doing during this time and over Easter x
When your elderly Aunty and Uncle turn up to pick up their car after a week away. And their car is flat and you invite them in for a cup of tea while you try and jump start their car…
And they go to make themselves a cup of tea like you suggested.
Comments were made!
Found this photo of me in the photo dump.
This was the day of my wedding party. That’s me in Calvin Klein. Should have been in trackpants, a T-shirt and running shoes and run away.
This guy is on the corner of Bowen and Lambton Quay looking for work.
If you are a recruitment agent or have a job going and you are on your way to work you know what to do.
He turned around just as I took the photo.
I can’t stop thinking about this woman who I saw flick a cigarette butt on to the footpath today while standing next to a rubbish bin.
I should have stopped and said something to her. Better still I should have had a paint ball gun and shot her with it.
Guess who is fostering puppies for a few weeks.
Little six week old friends for Zoe and the girls.
Check out Ellie’s Canine Rescue and Rehome on Facebook if you want to help the great work they do.
Just dropped the kids off to their dads so I can continue to work from home.
Was pretty tough saying “I don’t know when I’ll see you but love you forever.”
Miss 7 goes “oh mum just see us on FaceTime.”
Two emails from my girls schools in ten minutes.
Covid confirmed cases and protest updates.
Pretty shit for the kids and schools to have to be dealing with both things at once.
Years ago I went to Claire Deeks Dom’s Kitchen seminar. I remember leaving with my mum friends thinking she was dangerous. At the time I had no real idea.
Shout out to
@Te_Taipo
and
@byroncclark
for their part in ensuring we are aware of these people who feature in this document
Made it up Makara today. Blimming outstanding views.
I’ve finally finished the Peak Bragging series around Wellington. 37 odd peaks in 14 months.
Now to start a new challenge on mountain bike tracks.
So life managed to get a bit dramatic this afternoon and got a free trip to hospital.
Blah blah boring shit happened and now I’m hitting 1.30am pain meds and having some fucked up dreams.... you are probably in them. This is your warning 🤣😂
Last day at work today...I’ve asked for nothing to recognize the day as I find it awkward
- but my boss insists that my mahi needs to be recognized.
He’s created an event called “A loud and very extroverted party for no reason.”
Bring on 4pm.