Some family members can't contribute to weddings, funerals or any other family gatherings with money but can do so with their hands. Do not undermine the uncle who doesn't give you money but makes sure that the cow is slaughtered completely. The aunts who makes sure all dishes…
Sometimes you gotta go broke, Lose the person you thought you loved, watch your friends turn fake, just to get where you going. Trust the process. Elevation requires separation.