Nongcebo V. McKenzie
@NVMcKenzie
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IshTana | Nomagama | UDali kazwelonke
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Joined September 2010
One of the most abusive things the sociopath or malignant #Narcissist will do is to play the victim role while making the actual victim look like the perpetrator of the abuse. Itās a double attack. This is a form of āCrazy makingā performed by the sickest and most toxic people.
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I finally realized that if a man loves you, he looks for ways to give. When he doesnāt, he looks for ways to justify not giving.
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Bringing stress to pregnant people or someone who is freshly postpartum should be illegal.
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A narcissist will set you back financially, spiritually, mentally and physically
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A man who truly values you wonāt test how much you can tolerate. Heāll protect what he doesnāt want to lose.
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Of couse your wife canāt cook like your mom. YOU SHOULD! Youāre her son. You ate her food your whole life.
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Narcissist abuse changes you. It damages your self-esteem, your mental health, your ability to trust. The effects last YEARS. People donāt understand that. They think once you leave, youāre fine. Youāre NOT. The healing is LONG.
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The abusive parent in your childhood to needy emotional parent in your adulthood pipeline is wild.
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i heard someone say "healthy relationships are not conflict free, they are repair rich" and i felt that in my nucleus
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Children donāt ābounce backā from trauma. They bury it. And buried trauma doesnāt vanish it leaks out later as anxiety, rage, shame, addiction, and self-destruction. So no, kids arenāt resilient. Theyāre hurting.
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sometimes even an apology canāt fix what happened because the real issue is not the mistake, itās the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you canāt apologize for character.
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Khona iSalary yok'vusa ikhaya bese kuba khona isalary yok'lala udlile. Asinga jaji amandla wabantu. ā¤ļø
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People don't really understand that if a person is loyal to you, it's because of their character and morals, not because you are special
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A narcissist will bend over backwards for strangers, coworkers, and anybody watching, but canāt show up emotionally for his own family to save his life. Heāll play superhero in public and be completely absent at home, like the love only exist when thereās an audience
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A narcissist's idea of a "perfect relationship" goes like this: They do whatever they want. You say nothing. They expect unlimited freedom for themselves... and unlimited tolerance from you.
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Narcissists donāt want to save their relationships. They want to save their reputations. To them, the relationship is often secondary. What matters most is how they are perceived. Image is everything. The appearance of being loving, successful, that is what they fight to protect.
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