Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.
I'll remove myself before I allow anger to consume me ever again. I like to love. I like to laugh. I like to be happy. So if I gotta distance myself to keep things that way, I will.
We talk soooo much about cutting people off but nobody talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision, knowing it's not what you wanted but it's what was necessary for your wellbeing.