Jada 🖤
@EvonneJada
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Some of y'all think you make good partners because you won't cheat but you fail to realize you're inconsiderate, unappreciative, manipulative, insecure, lack empathy, have poor communication skills, and harbor emotional trauma from past relationships.
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Idc how much you & a person rekindle things, you gone always think back to how they moved on you, knowing you would’ve never did it to them. The whole vibe be thrown off. It’s hard to love a person the same twice. Especially if they ain’t appreciate it the 1st time.
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Discernment is real. You can hear stuff that’s not being said. You can feel things and don’t even have to be in close proximity. You can detect a lie from miles away. Sometimes it feels like a blessing and a curse because that third eye is awake.
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Be a man of his word.
What's the sexiest thing a man can do???.
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Your trauma is not an excuse to be manipulative, nonchalant, or narcissistic towards good people.
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It’s really disgusting out here. The friendships. The relationships. The people. The actions. The mindsets. The morals.
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I see why people just fall off the grid. You really realize everything we chasing either fake or really don’t matter.
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A lack of consideration is a turn off, I ain’t gon remind u to think of me 🫠.
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Stop telling these niggas over n over again how you feel, they hear you, they just dont give a fuck.
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A conversation about how you feel isn’t supposed to end up in an argument. .
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I think stressing over a man is pointless. The choices they make are completely out of your control & their behaviour has nothing to do with you. All you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn’t care for you properly out.
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You gotta beat on nonchalant men. You finna care about something today bitch.
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Men are naturally selfish and that’s why nothing holds them back, not love, not marriage, not kids, not family! Nothing! That’s selfishness is what I want us to learn my dear ladies, please be selfish and stay selfish.
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Yall be trying to force a man to realize you're a phenomenal woman instead of choosing the man that already realize it. Putting your life on pause while he does what he does. Stop chasing and start replacing. His actions speak volumes.
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I’m at a point in my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I don’t mind walking away when it don’t work…family, friends, lovers, anybody!!.
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I am actually disgusted with everything I tolerated in the past. I never want to be that person again. Self love is so important.
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Heavy on. I ain’t even mad at you. That’s just who you are. That’s your character. You’ll never change. Be that, but I won’t ever deal with it again.
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Everybody wants peace until they realize peace means changing your tone when speaking with someone who has irritated you, no longer making everything an argument, listening before responding, setting boundaries & understanding boundaries others have set.
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Id rather cut you off completely than have to limit they way i fuck with you. I never been a half ass lover or friend so thats just some shit I wont accept.
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One of my biggest problems is that I’m constantly torn between cutting people off & being patient with them. Sometimes it’s hard to tell who you have to go through a storm with in order to see the sunshine, and who’s loyal and toxic & not meant to be on your life.
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My coping mechanism for everything is either cracking jokes or complete isolation. There’s no in between.
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I'm not the “we used to talk” type. I never seen that ngga a day in my life on my granny.
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I cut friends off for not being as good of a friend to me as I was to them. I would never put u in a situation to make yall feel how I felt. I’m good to all my friends but I know when the energy is not returned. I’m a good friend not a stupid friend. Let that sink in.
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Future said “bitch don’t get too comfortable” and I should’ve listened.
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Love isn’t enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me. I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me. I need to know you won’t give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I can be the softest version of me.
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People don’t realize how much of a privilege it is to be apart of someone’s life and journey until you on the outside trying to get in again. Shitting on authentic people is never it.
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U really can be so genuine to someone and they’ll do you soooooo dirty.
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I’ll remove myself before I allow anger to consume me ever again. I like to love. I like to laugh. I like to be happy. So I gotta distance myself to keep things that way, I will.
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If a man really cares about you, you won’t have to ask him to call you. You won’t have to ask him to see you, take you out, or even text you. You won’t have to ask him for anything because he’ll do it without you having to ask.
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A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose loved you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go. This will NEVER be you again.
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My last relationship taught me one valuable thing, that I never want to feel like I’m begging for someone’s love ever.
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Lil Durk said “I pray my loyalty don’t make me a fool no more.” I felt that.
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You should NEVER be the BIGGER PERSON when you ain’t the reason it got uncomfortable.
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How someone makes me feel emotionally and mentally is genuinely more important than what they have provided for me materialistically and physically.
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Celibacy is worth it. It prevents energetic enmeshment and codependency. It clears/cleanses/ declutters your auric force field. It strengthens your sexual life force, releases soul ties, promotes mental/emotional clarity, and preserves the power of sensual, scared intimacy.
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People expect you to stay around while they put you last. That shit is dead.
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All niggas wanna do is make sure you not fuckin with nobody else while they fuckin with someone else.
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I’ve noticed I don’t have an issue communicating. My issue is people’s responses . It’s the lack of accountability and the one-sided perceptions that I cannot tolerate.
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I think it’s nice to have someone who’s aware of your sensitivity and learns to handle your feelings gently, with patience and care. It can be incredibly comforting to show your vulnerability to someone and have them learn how to respond to it with understanding and. .
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I really got PTSD from people. I keep my distance from everyone idc how much I love you. One thing life going to teach you is anyone can and will switch up on you. I’ve had enough of that I love too hard. I do just fine in my own little bubble. 🫧.
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Mfs be moving so foul but expect you to keep showing love, bitch fuck you.
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It’s like…yall are so heavy on everything but common sense, priorities and, morals. 😭.
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At some point you just got to tell ppl, I love you and I’ll love you forever, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to let you go. I’m not even asking you to change.
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You realize you’re a woman when you ignore messy little girls. U walk away humbly, gracefully, and respectfully. Because you know deep down they are miserable. And talk so much shit because, they feel like shit on the inside. Drama is an escape for some of you & it shows.
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My toxic trait: I hurt in silence and pray that someone loves me enough to notice I’m not being myself.
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Normalize telling niggas to leave you tf alone until they figure out wtf they want out of life. Don’t let nobody keep stringing you along then wanna keep using what they going through as an excuse to why y’all not going anywhere. When he could’ve simply left you alone before.
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Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person, I have my ways and I have my days but I’m solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
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I really dislike people who can’t take accountability, everything can’t always be somebody else fault.
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That toxic shit will have your skin ugly, body out of shape, attitude messed up, spirit not lifted, faith broken, vision blurry and you in your feelings. Ain’t shit like being at peace and happy.
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Yall judge by cars, clothes and jewelry. I judge by heart, soul and mind.
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If you feel in your gut somebody on some weird shit trust that.
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Once you learn what projecting is, you don’t take any of the lame shit people do or say to you personally. People are at war with themselves.
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Keep it a secret until it’s secure and that goes for EVERYTHING!.
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A man saying he loves me and cares for me, but dismisses my feelings when I’m upset or emotional and belittles how I feel is wild. You’re simply a fraud and a loser.
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Someone asked me why I stop talking to people with no explanation. Because people KNOW what they’ve done to me. I’m not about to address anything to a grown person. You moved how you moved and I moved out your way. Respectfully. ❤️.
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A man will cheat on you, lie to your face, lust over other women, gaslight and manipulate tf outta your love for him. THEN have the audacity to make you feel bad about your resultant trust issues, trauma, and mental instability.
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I hate when people act like they don’t know what they did. Stand on that energy, don’t play confused now.
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Training my mind to think better, respond better and, react better.
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If I choose to dismiss you from my life over something “simple” understand that it wasn’t the situation; that was just your last strike. Sometimes it’s not what you do, it’s how tired I am of you.
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Yall hurt and take advantage of the people that have genuine love for you then wonder why you have bad karma.
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A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go. That will NEVER be you again.
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I will literally light a nigga on fire, that’s why I stay to myself.
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You know a man love you by the ways he move about you & behind you. Them words cute but them actions speak.
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Listen I don’t care about nobody missing me. You knew I was a great person before you played in my face. 😂.
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Currently in a place of healing. So I cry when I need to, I pray, I speak over my life, I have my moments, I let time do what it does. Don’t ever be afraid to allow yourself to feel pain and hurt. It is apart of life and growth. Growing pains are real.
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It kills me when people who bring nothing to your life act so entitled. 😂😂.
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I’m fine with being left alone just stop pretending that you fwm.
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Inconsistency is toxic. I distance myself from ppl who are here today & gone tomorrow. Ppl who only want to talk to me & be around me when they feel like it arent welcome in my life. My time & energy are not at your disposal. If u cant be consistent, then u cant be in my life.
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This year has really tested my faith, my mental health, my finances, & my heart. Yet through it all I’m still standing. I thank God for helping me get through tough times & he didn’t allow them to go through me.
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I don't chase clarity from people who created confusion. If I had to overthink your intentions, I already got my answer.
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Feeling unwanted hurts the same as heartbreak and that’s why I don’t talk to anyone. My heart can’t handle the uncertainty that comes with people.
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I hate being yelled at or spoken to harshly. Even if you’re trying to correct me, I really would intake what you’re saying better if you come at me with a better tone.
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Future said “You got better when you met me and that ain’t coincidental.” I felt that.
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I think fighting is so ghetto, I mean I’m still going to beat yo ass but…ew.
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A mf not gone appreciate you until you don’t want nothing to do with they ass anymore.
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I can’t express how important it is to know who you are as a person because people will literally try to project their insecurities and preconceived notions onto you unprovoked.
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Sometimes I want to reciprocate people’s disrespect but, then I look at their lifestyle and how life treats them….that is enough punishment. They’re projecting because of their misery.
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Friendship isn’t built on history. It’s built on reciprocity. You don’t get to coast on the past if you keep falling short in the present.
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You really have to put yourself on a certain pedestal. Like yes, you're better than that, you're bigger than that, you can't associate yourself with that, you can't even entertain that.
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Life is currently teaching me to be silent and accept what it is. People will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth. Even if your character has already shown to be solid.
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I still believe in loving and being faithful to one person, and I refuse to let this generation take that from me.
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My BIGGEST FLEX IS PRIVACY! It’s the fact that nobody knows where I’m at, what I’m doing, or who I’m talking to etc. Unless I want it to be known. Therefore, anything said about me is just an assumption. Keep your privacy, it’s rare these days.
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One thing I am is loyal. Old school loyal. Through thick and thin shit. Unconditional love, ride or die shit. That down for you foreva shit. 🫶🏽.
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