I think stressing over a man is pointless. The choices they make are completely out of your control & their behaviour has nothing to do with you. All you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn’t care for you properly out.
I’ll remove myself before I allow anger to consume me ever again. I like to love. I like to laugh. I like to be happy. So I gotta distance myself to keep things that way, I will.
If a man really cares about you, you won’t have to ask him to call you. You won’t have to ask him to see you, take you out, or even text you. You won’t have to ask him for anything because he’ll do it without you having to ask.
Celibacy is worth it. It prevents energetic enmeshment and codependency. It clears/cleanses/ declutters your auric force field. It strengthens your sexual life force, releases soul ties, promotes mental/emotional clarity, and preserves the power of sensual, scared intimacy.
I’ve noticed I don’t have an issue communicating. My issue is people’s responses . It’s the lack of accountability and the one-sided perceptions that I cannot tolerate.
At some point you just got to tell ppl, I love you and I’ll love you forever, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to let you go. I’m not even asking you to change.
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person, I have my ways and I have my days but I’m solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
That toxic shit will have your skin ugly, body out of shape, attitude messed up, spirit not lifted, faith broken, vision blurry and you in your feelings. Ain’t shit like being at peace and happy.
This year has really tested my faith, my mental health, my finances, & my heart. Yet through it all I’m still standing. I thank God for helping me get through tough times & he didn’t allow them to go through me.
I hate being yelled at or spoken to harshly. Even if you’re trying to correct me, I really would intake what you’re saying better if you come at me with a better tone.
Sometimes I want to reciprocate people’s disrespect but, then I look at their lifestyle and how life treats them….that is enough punishment. They’re projecting because of their misery.
Took myself out the mix, getting my life together, learning to keep things private. Just trying to accept some situations for what they are. Staying in my lane not bothering anyone. In hopes of no one bothering me. Literally just protecting my peace. ❤️
When you have something good, you don’t play with it. You don’t take chances losing it. You don’t neglect it. When you have something good, you pour in to it. You appreciate it…because when you take care of something good, that good take care of you too.
I feel like the older you get, the more quiet you become. Life humbles you so deeply as you age. You realize how much nonsense you’ve wasted time on. You start to accept things for what they are. You stop forcing friendships & conversations with people & you just learn to grow.
Heavy on the “Thank you God” not just for materialistic things but for always making a way for me. Keeping my head above water and, for always counting me in when everyone counted me out. ❤️
I get over people quick. I’m a realist. I take things for what it is. With that being said I don’t have hope for nothing that’s not showing me real! Real is real, the end!
My biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what’s really going on in my life. Where I am, who I’m with, or my next move, unless I make it known. Therefore anything anyone says is an assumption. Privacy is my luxury. Privacy is my peace.