Dineo Ranaka said, " I would rather glorify my happiness than my pain. I will put my happiness on a billboard because it deserves my energy. Anything negative that has happened to me doesn’t deserve residency in me” and I felt that
I’m not interested in any complicated relationship.. be it friends or family. I’m not interested in constantly explaining what I meant. I’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms because you’re acting weird. I’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us compeer.
I don’t go above and beyond for anyone anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me. Respectfully
I just don't care how many people tell me happy birthday, I personally respond to each and every one of them! Bcs i think it’s so sweet that people take their time to tell me happy bday
People have normalized the sentiment that we don't owe anyone anything. We owe people common decency. We owe people respect if it has been given to us. We owe people apologies and explanations when we hurt them. We are not a one man Island, we are a society.
Y'all need to understand that people don't care. They really don’t. They’ll hurt you and really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you and how you feel. Whether it’s friendships, family or relationship.
My ability to say ‘No i do not want this for myself’ and then proceed to remove myself completely from things that do not make me feel good. Scare the sht out of me
This year I was tested more than ever. I lost so much to life, but also i won few, I fell, I shed tears, I raised glasses in happiest moments, had lessons, I loved but above all I didn't break. I'm still here. I am still standing.
I'm thinking suicide is the saddest thing ever. Do you know how dark your thoughts and feelings have to be to get to that point? My thoughts are with everyone dealing with silent battles
I refuse to overcommunicate. I refuse to care more. I refuse to let my anxiety convince me that i’m the problem. I refuse to be the bigger person that’s responsible for holding sht together. And that’s all I have to say about that sht. meet me where i’m at or fcc off
Lately life is teaching me to be silent and accept what is. People will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth even if your character has already been shown to be solid and you have to.
You get to a point where childhood trauma is no longer an excuse for making questionable decisions and for being a shitty person. Time to grow up & heal
I do not go above and beyond for people anymore. Ima meet people as far as they meet me.. I include them as much as they include me. If it's not my business I don't get involved
Yall develop your sexual discipline so you’re not a slave to your sexual urges. Your inability to control your lust is going to cause unnecessary dysfunction in your life.
End of the day, if someone cares about you, they care about how their actions impact you and make you feel. that’s all you need to know about people if you want them in your life. Stay woke.