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@DrStaceyPatton
Stacey Patton
5 years
Pro spankers be like: I sit down and talk to my child before I hit them. Then after I hit them, I hug them and tell them I love them. News Flash! This is called “trauma bonding.” Same behaviors displayed by domestic violence perps in adult relationships.
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Children are not born with adult cognition, the ability to reason, comprehend and synthesize. So why would you hit them as a pedagogical approach to learning? Can YOU effectively take in new information and learn when your are afraid or in pain? That’s not how the brain works.
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Was at the AAAM conference, a Black event, today in Nashville. A white male exhibitor, whose company makes exhibit mannequins, was giving out these thumbtacks as “swag.” Deeply triggering to me as someone who researches lynchings where fingers and genitals were cut and sold.
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Reading about an enslaved 14- year-old girl named Judah who in 1834 in PG County, MD, poisoned her master's two sons. They died. During that confession, she also disclosed that two years earlier, at age 12, she burned down her master's house and killed his infant daughter.
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Telling the child you traumatized that you “did the best you could” is dismissive, gaslighting, and does not heal the damage you caused.
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@mitchellvii Yes, I can confirm these rumors. It was I, the reincarnated ancestor of Harriet Tubman, with rifle in hand, who brought a fleet of Mississippi Negroes across the border on the Underground Railroad, which was made of engines, boxcars, tracks and good, liberty-loving white people!
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@RightWingWatch So what he’s saying is that white folks are still the oppressors with their hands on the whip. He is articulating a deep cellular-level intergenerational fear of Black retribution.
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5 years
People who hate Socialism usually can’t even tell you what it is.
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1 year
All this advance media hype about tonight’s release of the Tyre Nichols murder by police is reminding me of late 19th and early 20th newspaper announcements that invited the public to come watch a lynching.
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5 years
The only people who were hit as children and “turned out fine” are those who became adults that believe it’s never okay to hit a child.
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6 years
Black bride. Black pastor. Black choir. Black cellist. African chants. Folks clapping and sangin’ “This Little Light of Mine.” Even a horse named “Tyrone.” This is the blackest royal wedding evuh. Prince Harry g’on be like: “I’s married now!” Gave the Brits all the vibranium.
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3 years
Here they go blaming yet another Black body for dying. I don't care if George Floyd was on drugs or had a heart condition. You can take a healthy man and let another man kneel on his neck for 9 minutes and 29 seconds and he'll be strangled to death too.
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8 years
Facebook has allowed people to call me a "nigger" and a "cunt" and tell me to kill myself but bans ME for this....
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7 years
White privilege is watching an incompetent president commit repeat impeachable offenses that Republicans try to reduce to partisan outrage.
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8 years
If Tamir Rice should not have been playing with a toy gun, then networks need to stop airing "A Christmas Story."
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6 years
If Botham Jean had been a black male cop who mistakenly entered a white woman’s apartment, gave her so-called “verbal commands” in her own home and then shot her to death, he would be dangling from a tree or pole.
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It was so heartbreaking to listen to Darnella Frazier, the teenager who recorded the video of George Floyd being killed. She talked about staying up at night apologizing to him for not physically doing more to save his life. Just wow.
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Aurora police detained a 4 black children ages 17 down to 6 after mistaking their vehicle as stolen. They put them on the ground and pointed guns at them. That 6 year old baby cried for her mama just like George Floyd did. These killers make no distinction for age or size.
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@paul_d_vaughan The good thing is that the Board acted swiftly and addressed him!
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4 years
No one has done as much for the Black community as the Black community. And no one else ever will. Period.
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8 years
More white people are on Obamacare than blacks & Latinos combined. And yet whites voted for a 'savior' who will jeopardize their health.
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8 years
"Such a nasty woman," said the presidential candidate who bragged about grabbing women by the p*ssy.
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4 years
I'm tired of repeatedly watching grieving Black parents get on the news to tell protestors to be peaceful while their child is still fresh at the morgue with a toe tag. This is yet another awful burden to bear as Black Americans deal w/ serially acquitted state sanctioned murder.
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3 years
This demon said in her resignation letter: “I have LOVED EVERY MINUTE of being a police officer and serving this community to the best of my ability...." So that includes the moment you killed Daunte Wright." And you likely enjoyed watching Chauvin lynch Floyd with his knee.
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1 year
When I talk about the harms of hitting kids, people often say: “But you don’t have kids.” What they’re really saying is that I don’t understand what it feels like to want to beat a smaller person. So does that feeling kick in during or after pregnancy?
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5 years
I'm tired of movies, from "Monster's Ball" to "The Green Book," that normalize and celebrate the "friendly racist." Having sex with a black vagina or becoming friends with one black person does not reform racists and it does not produce systemic social change.
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6 years
White male privilege is being able to cry during a job interview, interrupt the folks asking questions, yell at them, ask snarky questions, refuse to give straight answers, talk about how much you like to drink beer, and have other white men on the committee empathize with you.
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3 years
Folks use the term "at-risk youth" & usually visualize Black & Brown ppl. But we never use "at-risk" to describe white kids who come from a genomic & cultural heritage of racism & terrorism that places them at risk for perpetuating all kinds of violence against other groups.
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8 years
When Trump takes away Obamacare and food stamps from poor whites, who are the majority of recipients, they'll only have themselves to blame.
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2 years
If Ahmaud Arbery's lynchers are acquitted this country will explode! Personally, I have zero emotional investment in justice when it comes to the destruction of Black lives in this country. Because I know that white supremacy will acquit itself of anything.
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3 years
Spanking is a special word for domestic violence against children.
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1 year
Dear @Walmart this is a disgrace! Your H Street location in DC in the heart of a Black neighborhood with limited food options has freezers that have been broken for weeks!!!
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In the 3 semesters I've been teaching at Morgan State, 4 of our students have been murdered on the streets of Baltimore. A distraught student asked me, "Who is next? Am I next?" Graduate school did not train me on how to answer this kind of non-academic, real-life question.
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3 years
Children are often taught to respect adults who don’t respect them.
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2 years
Don't argue w/racists. A friend reminded me that you can't present racists w/facts & change their mind because white supremacy isn't a proposition, premise, argument waiting for some better argument to come along & defeat it. Racism & whiteness are grounded in emotion & feelings.
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Hitting a child is always humiliating. I don’t care how adults justify this violence. You rob a child of their autonomy. They can’t defend themselves. On top top of that, they're required to repress anger while showing gratitude & respect in return. What an unholy emotional mix.
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My latest commentary. Forcing humility on Black women is an American practice. A lot of people hate LSU basketball star Angel Reese because they despise Black girls and women who don’t get crushed by the societal pressures of humility.
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7 years
Trump says that the racist, slaveholding, genocidal maniac Andrew Jackson could have prevented the Civil War. Oh, and he had "a big heart."
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6 years
Racism is NOT a "mental illness." Nor is it "ignorance." Stop relocating this evil into a disability. The architects of slavery, segregation, eugenics and such were the most deviantly brilliant minds. Racial hatred is an informed choice, not neurosis or a physiological deficit.
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@Mark_Kawada @marclamonthill A number of people did. He still kept them on display.
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4 years
Here’s another ‘gem’ I found in the archives. There’s a whole genre of deathbed confessions of white people admitting to lying on black men or killing them.
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"Why can't white people say the n-word?" Wrong question. The question should be: "Why do so many white people want to say the n-word?"
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3 years
Pundits are acting shocked that those rioters took selfies while acting violently. Why are you surprised? These are the descendants of folks who posed with lynched bodies.
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4 years
So Amy Klobuchar failed to prosecute George Floyd’s future killer and now she stands over his casket! This reminds me of the Jim Crow era when lynchers, and those complicit, showed up to the funerals of Black victims. What kind of people are these?
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Can I just tell y'all how much I love teaching at an HBCU? You ask your students to turn their cameras on while on ZOOM and you end up seeing more than a dozen beautiful Black women students wearing bonnets while using sharp analytical skills to decolonize everythang!
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Black Parents be like: "I beat you so cops won't kill you." 2013: 7 black kids killed by cops, 375 killed by parents 2014: 5 black kids killed by cops, 359 by parents 2015: 5 black kids killed by cops, 368 by parents 2016: 6 black kids killed by cops, 401 by parents
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3 years
Dear POC: you are not “minorities.” You are the global majority. You always have been.
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2 years
I was sent a copy of Carolyn Bryant Donham's secret memoir. In it she blames Emmett Till for his own death and calls herself a victim. It's a disgusting read. Here's the piece I wrote about it. You can also read the 100-page memoir yourself.
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I was taught that “code switching” was a necessary skill that I needed to master in order to be a successful Black person. But in truth, it is a performative, validation seeking, survival strategy and a maladaptive coping mechanism in a world run by spiritually dead oppressors.
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This image of Trayvon Martin, who was stalked and murdered by a racist, is being used to shame Black people into voting. This is such an insensitive tactic.
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3 years
What doesn’t kill you, often makes you weaker. Things that try to kill you are toxic and traumatic. Neither is good for your well-being and longevity.
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@IBreatheWonder @ALBDamn You are exactly right. I am demonizing people who use violence against children. Period!
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Leave the World Behind irked my soul. Rich Black man comforts a raging colonizing Karen while sleeping in the basement of his own home. He tries to save her family at the expense of his daughter and his own safety as the apocalypse goes down.
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News Flash: Just because you sleep with a black person doesn’t mean that’s proof you aren’t racist. Thomas Jefferson’s “mistress” was black and they had kids. He was a slaveholder and believer in the racial inferiority of black people. Swirling does not cure racism.
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@NelsonJeffR @ShadaeMccallum I’m sick of hearing Black people being praised for being “poised” while being terrorized by racists. And then when our loved ones are killed they put the additional burden on us to ask for calm and peace. Ugh.
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Why do people get so angry when you tell them that hitting children is bad?
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Trump held a rally in Montgomery 24 hours before the riverboat brawl. Previous reporting has shown that hate crimes surge in these places after his racist rallies.
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Instead of lecturing the descendants of slaves about how they need to vote because black folks fought, bled and died, why don't y'all spend more energy blasting white descendants upholding their ancestor's racist voter suppression tactics.
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Kamala Harris:"When a robber holds a gun to your head & says 'I hope you'll give me your wallet,' HOPE is not the operative word. Thank you!
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I just finished recording my keynote address for the Digital Library Federation’s annual forum. The title of my keynote is “Do Black Lives Matter in Galleries, Libraries, Archives and Museums?”
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@cc_colton_novel Yep. And the messages of pain and love merge in the prefrontal cortex of the brain and become a biological experience.
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3 years
Discipline means “to teach.” It should be applied to your child as “loving lessons,” not through pain, shame, humiliation and fear. Your goal should be to reconnect with your child and nurture them into intellectual health. The brain can’t learn when it is afraid or stressed.
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The people who tell you to "pick your battles" generally have no record of ever lifting a sword. And the people who tell you to "love your enemies" are, in fact, your enemies.
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Y'all know that @maddow and @Lawrence are gonna have fun with that leaked Fusion transcript tonight. I see why the Republicans have been trying to suppress this document.
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So white dudes in Colorado and elsewhere are making millions off selling marijuana, but a small amount found in a dead black body or in their home suggests that the victim is to blame for his own death?
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3 years
It took 5 months but I finally finished redesigning my foyer.
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It's ironic that white people who say, "I don't see color," also have the audacity to lecture Black people on what racism is. How are y'all able to see us?
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You can be a racist AND be married to a Black person and love your biracial or adopted Black child. Just like serial killers have friends and family members they don’t kill.
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I am always amazed by parents who genuinely believe that yelling, threatening, belittling, or hitting their child is necessary in order to TEACH them.
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2 years
It took me a while but I've finally have micro data folks have been asking me for on Black child abuse fatalities in America. You'll see data covering years 2015-2020. There are total fatalities for each year, a breakdown of victims by sex, and data on the perpetrators by sex.
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Bethune-Cookman graduates survived "No Child Left Behind" and other racial traps engineered by people like DeVos. Of course they booed her!
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After a year of work I finally put the finishing touches on my sunroom. Here’s a before and after shot.
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Steve King asked: What have nonwhite subgroups contributed to civilization. Meanwhile, Trump's wife steals words from FLOTUS!
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Hitting a child is about exercising power and control. It is NOT about teaching. You cannot effectively hear or learn when you are afraid because during toxic stress events you don't have full access to the thinking parts of your brain. The goal is to survive a threat!
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This is one way to respond to smug, entitled, condescending white men who come at you sideways.
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Dear Media, Please issue a correction: The 1961 Massacre of 200 unarmed Algerians in Paris was the worst terrorist rampage on French soil.
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Is giving homework to schoolchildren priming them to normalize doing uncompensated wage labor in adulthood?
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What Surviving R. Kelly powerfully demonstrates is that when it comes to abuse of vulnerable children, there are so many enablers, witnesses and bystanders who are complicit with predators.
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Something is seriously wrong with people who need jokes, satire or dehumanizing pornographic art of non-white people in order to get them to think about how bad racial injustice is for the people residing on the other side of the color line.
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Can we also grieve and have a national moment of silence for the two Black victims of racial terror who were killed this week?
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I’m working on my next journal article about the role of racialized Pedophilic porn in Jim Crow America. Here are a few from my collection. There’s masturbation, sex trafficking, oral sex, scat, sex with animals, and even boy’s bathing in a tub of semen — “Massa’s baff.”
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"Don't fight hate with hate." Asking the oppressed to fight racial oppression with love is a death wish.
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Dear White People: Do not do photoshoots with your adopted Black child picking cotton. It ain't cute!
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“Tell them about the dream, Martin.” It was MLK’s favorite Gospel singer Mahalia Jackson who turned around in her seat and said those words. He put away the speech he had already written and delivered the powerful extemporaneous “I Have A Dream” speech we know today.
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Hitting your child and then being warm and affectionate and telling them that you love them after is the PERFECT way to prime your child to believe that love hurts. It also helps them normalize violence and makes them susceptible to intimate partner abuse as an adult.
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Dear Black People: Demanding that your children answer "yes ma'am" and "no sir" while making themselves small and stilling their eyeballs might look like respect. But it is also a form of fawning, learned helplessness, and a deferential de-escalation survival tactic.
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It grates my soul to hear Black people my age & younger say, "We are not our ancestors." Yep, you're right. You are NOT our ancestors because y'all need a "trigger warning," "a safe space," and some "self care" just to watch a documentary about all that our ancestors endured.
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Never in the history of America has a white woman tried to thwart a lynching.
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Parents who hit their kids always say: “There’s a difference between spanking and abuse.” But a child’s brain doesn’t pause while being hit and think, “This is just a spanking so don’t produce cortisol. Deactivate the fight or flight response system to avoid brain damage.”
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I too predict that if Trump wins there’ll be writers and pundits who blame Black men. If Biden wins, Black women will be called the heroes. I don’t know how either scenario is possible when we’re only 13% of the population. If Trump wins again blame white people!
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Asking child abuse survivors to forgive their abusers inadvertently reinforces victim-blaming narratives that plague our society. Implying that forgiveness is the ultimate pathway to healing diverts attention from the abuser's actions and the pursuit of accountability & justice.
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My biological mother’s mama was a model for JET Magazine in the 1950s.
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The US is about to be run by bunch of geriatric white men who are angry bc because ppl of color got a few crumbs over the past 40 years.
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You should feel blessed that the descendants of centuries of racial oppression thus far have only wanted justice & liberation & not revenge.
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