
Dr. Bryan Pearlman #MaslowBeforeBloom
@DrP_Principal
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Author Of Maslow Before Bloom (https://t.co/AbBPM0nC0l) & 9 Other Books. Ed Psych Adjunct & Former School Admin/Teacher.
St Louis, MO
Joined January 2018
When I was a building principal, we had a group of boys who were consistently getting office referrals during lunch for aggressive and disruptive behaviors. In the past, these behaviors had led to increasingly severe consequences that did not reduce the negative behaviors (and
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Connection is the foundation of correction. A student’s behavior is not a reflection of who they are—it’s a message about what they need. When we slow down, listen, and lead with compassion, we give them the safety to heal, learn, and grow.
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I have been writing non-stop for the past 10 years. 9 books have been published so far. I have 3 more that will be released by the end of 2026. Which one of the following books are you most interested in reading?
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One involved, caring, and patient person can change the entire trajectory of a struggling student’s life. When a child feels seen, believed in, and supported — not just when they succeed, but especially when they stumble — something shifts. Hope returns. Walls come down. Growth
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“There are no bad kids—only kids who have been hurt, misunderstood, or unheard. Every behavior tells a story of what happened to them, not what’s wrong with them. When we label a child as ‘bad,’ we stop looking for the reason behind the behavior—and we lose the chance to help
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✨ MASLOW before BLOOM… then GARDNER, JUNG & GOLEMAN ✨ Before we teach minds, we must reach hearts. 💙 When we start with Maslow (basic needs & safety), move into Bloom (thinking & learning), celebrate Gardner (multiple intelligences & strengths), explore Jung (self-awareness
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Focus on self-care, self-love, and self-compassion first—because you can’t pour from an empty heart, heal from a place of exhaustion, or give what you don’t give yourself. When you nurture your own well-being, you become stronger, kinder, and more present for everyone around you.
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That moment when a struggling student finally gets it—it’s pure magic. You see their eyes light up, their shoulders relax, and that small smile that says, ‘I did it.’ It’s not just about learning the lesson—it’s about believing in themselves again. Every bit of patience,
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I’m glad I’m knot mad. But very sad!! No Yor enemies
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The first and easiest way to make a connection with a student who is struggling is simple—see them. Truly see them. Greet them by name. Notice their effort, not just their behavior. A moment of genuine acknowledgment can open the door to trust long before any lesson ever will.
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A healing school community is one where every student and every staff member feels seen, safe, valued, and supported. It’s where broken hearts are met with compassion, struggles are met with understanding, and growth is nurtured through kindness. When we prioritize connection
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Sometimes all it takes to change the entire story of a child’s life is one person—one steady, kind, compassionate adult who sees them, believes in them, and never gives up. One person can be the difference between feeling invisible and knowing they matter.
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✨ Do you remember the first time you helped a student uncover their spark? (Via leader @DrP_Principal)
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Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s survival. For those in education who pour their hearts into others every day, rest isn’t a reward—it’s a requirement. You can’t light the way for your students if your own flame has burned out. Prioritize yourself with the same compassion you give so
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To every teacher, counselor, coach, aide, therapist, principal, lunch worker, bus driver, mentor, and family member—thank you. You are the quiet heroes behind every student’s smile, success, and spark of hope. Because of your kindness, patience, encouragement, and belief,
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If students can learn to talk it out instead of lash out, to listen instead of judge, to be civil and respectful even when they disagree, and to appreciate—rather than exploit—their differences… then what’s stopping the rest of us? Maybe the real lesson isn’t just for the
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In our schools, the true measure of success isn’t just grades or test scores—it’s kindness in the hallway, compassion on the playground, effort when things get hard, and integrity when no one is watching. These are the lessons that shape character, build community, and change
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You’ve been kinder to strangers than you have to yourself. It’s time to change that. Self-compassion is not weakness—it’s the foundation of strength. Self-kindness is not indulgent—it’s essential. And self-love isn’t selfish—it’s the starting point of every healthy relationship
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10 ways to increase compassion, empathy, kindness, and hope in your school and classroom: 1. Model It Daily Children watch more than they listen. Be the living example of kindness, patience, empathy, and compassion—even during tough moments. A calm and compassionate adult helps
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10 ways to make your school/classroom more aligned to “Maslow Before Bloom Then Gardner, Jung & Goleman”: 1. Create a Safe and Predictable Environment (Maslow) Why it matters: Students can’t thrive academically if they don’t feel physically and emotionally safe. How to
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