Scott M. Stanley
@DecideOrSlide
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Social scientist (psychology) studying commitment, marriage, cohabitation. Univ of Denver. https://t.co/IHViJrabZv https://t.co/dLPWny4PTU
Denver
Joined April 2012
Interested in asymmetrical commitment? I've piled a bunch of links to our work in this blog piece: https://t.co/dqaIJz7yvc For blog articles on our work on this, here you go. https://t.co/Hg19rN5LdQ
https://t.co/qBPLwFPG6C
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In some relationships, one partner is substantially more committed than the other. We call these Asymmetrically Committed Relationships (ACRs). Relationship scholars have long been fascinated by the...
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The second blog post is by @DecideOrSlide about creating couple identity: https://t.co/JRtnJL7yGk
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There is a fundamental human drive to seek and be in a relationship that has this quality of “us.” To join with another. Beyond this central fact, there are healthier and less healthy views of what...
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I should add, I love the title she chose for this: "Just stop it!" Sometime, the most important thing is stopping what you are doing that's not working or that is damaging your marriage.
New, from Dr. Kara Shade. A podcast focused on themes to help young families. I am privileged to be her first guest. In this episode, we talk about three keys for success from the book Fighting for Your Marriage.
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#HDFS284 Students: The second blog post that is required reading for today is a recent blog post by @DecideOrSlide exploring current research regarding cohabitation and the potential link to divorce: https://t.co/xKsPiAzLNf.
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You might think the question about the link between premarital cohabitation and divorce would have been settled long ago, but researchers have puzzled about it for decades and the puzzling lives on....
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Michael Rosenfeld is a fine scholar, & this is a nifty animation. HT @RobertFrodeman NB @OMGchronicles @BradWilcoxIFS @DecideOrSlide
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New, from Dr. Kara Shade. A podcast focused on themes to help young families. I am privileged to be her first guest. In this episode, we talk about three keys for success from the book Fighting for Your Marriage.
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Podcast Episode · Mess and Meaning · 10/09/2024 · 1h 16m
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I want to recommend this book by Sarah Halpern-Meekin on Social Capital and couples in poverty, wherein she focuses on two types of poverty: economic and social. https://t.co/6MXzvp5Blw
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Exciting news! I have a brand new article published today with @AmberVennum, @allenbmallory, @cambrows, @wisconsinfever #dating #commitment “We’re Just Talking”: Constructing a Recent Trend in Emerging Adult Romantic Relationship Development:- Get Access
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Emerging adults’ relationship development is an increasingly multi-faceted process characterized by ambiguity. Just talking has emerged as a phrase to characterize early relationship formation in p...
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Regret having children? Or not having any? It's mostly one directional. Among 45+ year old Americans: 7% of those with children would have 0 if they could go back. 56% of those without children would have some if they could go back. https://t.co/IQ8RbJo3bQ
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#HDFS284 Students: In preparation for class today make sure that you have read the Before "I Do" research report by Dr. Galena Rhoades and @DecideOrSlide and to finish Chapter 4 in your textbook. Also...
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Friday Five: Webinar: Sept 10 at 4:00 PM - 5:00 PM EDT Lopsided Love: Asymmetrical Commitment in Romantic Relationships with @DecideOrSlide via @dibbleInst
https://t.co/CocYE2ErGB
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How can couples or friends with political differences keep from ruining their relationship over their differences? My book co-authors and I (Fighting for Your Marriage 4th edition) have a piece out in @YourTango on this! https://t.co/viddT8CqEQ
yourtango.com
How to avoid letting political differences wreck your relationship.
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"women have higher expectations of support and intimacy in their close relationships than men do. Women integrate our friends into our lives as deeply as siblings, whereas men treat their friends more like cousins."
psychologytoday.com
More intimate than men's, but also more fragile.
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I’m was on @mandyconnell 's radio show this week talking about not letting politics ruin your relationship. Here's link to the podcast. [She's a great interviewer!] Listen on iHeart ♫ @iHeartRadio
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If you have interest in the 4th edition of our book, Fighting for Your Marriage (release date is 9-11-24), there is a 25% off for pre-order sales at Barnes and Nobles today. Use redemption code: PREORDER25 https://t.co/XJmdk9wue8
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A major revision of the classic divorce prevention book, with up-to-date research and inclusive content Fighting for Your Marriage is based on the widely acclaimed PREP approach (Prevention and...
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How American couples meet, 1930 to 2024. Love is sparked in the real world with increasing rarity; the majority of relationships are now formed online. https://t.co/u27AwO5igK
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Our book, Fighting For Your Marriage, will be out in a 4th edition September 11, 2024. For more information, see our author site at: https://t.co/FbXAvOQhQF
fightingforyourmarriage.com
FIGHTING FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
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Study adding to those showing promise for online relationship education, with coaching by cooperative extension personnel, study shows solid outcomes (that are as good or better for those at lower incomes as higher). https://t.co/lZmrwLtxkz Uses ePREP (I am affiliated)
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Objective This proof-of-concept study presents findings from the Illinois Strong Couples project, a statewide initiative to disseminate an efficacious couple relationship education (CRE) program...
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Of note, on Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy. @KayHymowitz raises important points and thorny questions, esp about trickle down effects. Like others, I get asked about this phenomenon a lot. The buzz is real. https://t.co/PrV0OqDdgJ
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I suppose, given Americans’ fondness for postmodern taboo-breaking, it was inevitable that polyamory would go mainstream. Recently, it’s been the subject of lifestyle articles in the New York...
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