Esperanza
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|Spiritual First Responder| Student Counselor|Tweets about Jesus and Dating the Christian way||
South East, Nigeria
Joined November 2025
Always tell your partner the truth... For every one lie you tell, you'll need at least 77 other lies to cover up the first. In most cases you're caught and that diminishes trust, leaves a deep wound of betrayal. And ultimately puts the relationship on the edge.
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He Was the ‘Perfect Christian Guy, Not Until We Talked About Money. ..…its crazy 🤣 By the time you finish reading this.. ...you are going to learn how to spot a "spiritual" scammer before they ruin your life... ....and you’ll know exactly how to choose a partner who
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Some of y'all have a list for a partner that even Jesus wouldn't qualify for. We’re out here looking for perfection when we should be looking for character and growth. Are you even the person your "list" is looking for???
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Stop calling a toxic partner a "test from God." No, that’s just a red flag you’re choosing to ignore. God doesn't use people to break your peace just to teach you a lesson. Use your discernment.
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Can we be real? Praying about it" for a year without asking her out isn't being spiritual. It's being indecisive. If you’re not ready to lead, don't keep her in "talking stage" purgatory. Clear intentions or clear out.
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God won’t give you a "Boaz" while you’re still entertaining "Balaam." Sometimes the reason the right person hasn't shown up is because your hands are still full of the wrong people. Clean house first.
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The biggest enemy of a happy marriage is "the version of them" you see on social media. Stop comparing your behind-the-scenes to someone else’s highlight reel. Be grateful for the real person sitting next to you.
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Marriage isn't a hospital for broken men or a reform school for lost women. Don't go into a covenant hoping to "fix" someone. Love them for who they are today, or let them go so they can grow on their own.
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My money is our money, her money is also our money. Anything outside this is Devilish, Satanic and from the pit of hell....
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I’m about to show you how a single mouse click can destroy a human life. Walk with me... By the time you finish reading this.... You are going to understand the exact mechanics of how pornography hijacks a developing brain... ...and more importantly, you’ll learn the "Red
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We love to quote "wives submit,.... But we skip the part where the husband has to love her like Christ loved the Church, by dying for her. If you aren't ready to die to your ego, don't ask her to follow your lead....
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Stop dating "projects"... Hoping you can pray them into being "prodigies." You are a partner, not a Holy Spirit junior. Marry someone who loves God as much as you do, not someone you have to drag to church.
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I spent 3 years convinced God told me "Yes" to someone who was actually a "No." I did everything "right." We prayed together, served together, and even talked about the future.... I ignored the tension and the red flags because I was so busy trying to force a "Godly"
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Late night calls rarely come with goodnews. Please pick them up.
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What Nigerians can do to help eachother on x Any tweet you see a Nigeria post in the timeline, kindly retweet.. I know retweet doesn't make someone get paid but it will push the tweet.... Let's kindly retweet this.... I do retweet for people that doesn't even follow me..
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If your only boundary is "no sex before marriage," your bar is too low. What about.... Your peace? Your respect? Your prayer life? If those are being compromised, the physical stuff isn't the only thing you're losing.
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Heard some of you are calling a toxic partner a test from God..... As how?????
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