So after some more thought, I'm going to be winding this account down considerably, and probably removing most of my content on here in the next day or two.

I've been pretty quiet for a while now, with a lot of things on my mind keeping me from engaging with this side of life. I know these are hard times for many people, though, and I'm going to try and be more active and available, both here and on 🟦☁️.

Just a reminder that I am over there on the 🟦☁️ if you're making the migration. I might even get around to posting more often, too.

Good morning @BabyfurCon Campers! Just a reminder that I'll be doing Story Time tonight at 6:00pm in the school, and I'm looking forward to seeing your smiling faces there.

Tip for Littles: You may have a different vibe in headspace alone versus with others, and that's fine! Find the energy that you're comfortable with in any given environment. If you'd rather go full baby with just a caretaker, but be a "big kid" with friends, that's totally valid.

Oh and one last note. Understanding individual preferences can tip the scale your way. Personally? I really prefer people be fully shaved if I'm going to change them. Other Caretakers will have their interests that may help you find a good match. Thanks for listening! (/🧵)

Hey, you just got a diaper change! You should thank the person afterwards. A hug is often appreciated as well! Positive reinforcement works both ways, so give feedback and appreciation and hopefully you'll be able to get help the next time you need help on the changing table.

Sometimes the person you're asking for a diaper change will say no. They might be busy. They might not know you well enough. They might be in a closed relationship. They might just be tired. Whatever the reason, don't be offended, take no for an answer, and respect their wishes.

Everyone has different limits, including caretakers, so be clear what they're going to be dealing with when you ask. If you've been sexually active in a diaper, that might be too much for some. Many more, including myself, have anything messy/soiling as a hard stop. Respect that.

Okay, yeah, these are diaper changes we're talking about, but still, hygiene! Take a shower, wear deodorant, just take care of yourself. If you've just been out playing and need bath time before a change, that's something to talk about too!

So for #1 there, remember that you're asking someone for a favor. Even if they're into diapers, it's still a very personal request, and the less will you know them the more important it is to make a good first impression and to ask in a way that shows appropriate respect.

I've been asked many times how to request a diaper change, so here are a few good rules to follow. 1. Be Polite. 2. Be hygienic. 3. Be open about why you need a change. 4. Be prepared for someone to say no. 5. Say thanks afterwards! And above all else, adults only! 1/🧵

Some adults think that they can't try diapers because they prefer to top, but that shouldn't stop anyone. Harnesses and collars are about being on a leash, tops still wear them. Corsets? High heels? Dommes wear them. It's not what you wear, it's attitude and actions that matter.

Hey folks, looking for a little inspiration here, so I'm going to ask the whole class. What's your favorite bedtime story? Either to tell others or to have someone read to you?

One mistake I see often in this community is assuming every relationship is open, especially with caretakers. There are plenty of folks in monogamous relationships, and just because you see someone acting as a Big, doesn't mean that they have any obligation to babysit you.

There's a sliding scale for how Little and DLs talk about their diapers. Uber-Shy: Can't even say the word. Loud and Proud: Yeah, I'm wearing a diaper, what of it? The corrupter: I've got one here for you, too. The Lifer: Can't talk about anything else. Which are you?

Hey folks, just bumping this because I've had several people reach out to me again talking about getting these messages. If someone DMs you saying that they're a mommy, be suspicious. If they ask for money, it's 100% a scam. Report them please.

So I'm going to be at @BabyfurCon at the end of this month, doing a bedtime story hour and running recess, who all am I gonna see at the con?

I know this seems obvious, and I've said it before, but it's still a problem. I've seen a lot of people get pushed away from the community because others threw around the terms "stinky" or "cuck" with people who don't want them. Even "baby" isn't a good word for some folks.

Just because someone likes to be teased, doesn't mean that they want to be teased by just anyone. People have different comfort levels about that kind of personal attention, so please respect limits about what to tease and who can do that teasing.