Jay Halstead
@DTPDHalstead
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Sergeant of US Army: ranger & sniper. Police Detective. You’re my home @rebeccarjbarnes
Chicago & New York
Joined September 2025
You don't know what we do or what we sacrifice or the price we pay for this for the job. And you'll never know. • army sergeant & sniper. • police detective.
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I know work takes up far too much of my time, and I miss more than I’d like when it comes to the people closest to me. But I’ve always been certain that even when I’m not around, there’s someone looking out for the person who matters to me most.
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My fiancée is an absolute Queen.
I was at the gala undercover — picked up a lot, made a few new connections. I’m not a fan of events like that, there’s zero sincerity in them, it's more work than a party. Still, the outfit was worth it's moment on the carpet. And the company made it better than I expected.
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And a few more memories from yesterday's Kobik party.🎂🪄🎁 It was one of the best parties of my life, sweetheart. And all because you are the reason! You infect us all with your love for the world and positivity. I love you to the moon and back.🩷🩷🩷 And @NoellieIrinaBR
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Happy b-day, kiddo. Hope this year brings you big dreams, laughter, and moments that make you feel brave, strong, and endlessly loved. Never doubt that you are — especially by the people who call you family. Have the best birthday. And don’t grow up too fast — the world can wait.
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Being with you has taught me patience, honesty, and what it means to choose someone every single day, not out of habit, but out of certainty. So yes — we’re engaged. Grateful for what we’ve already built. Excited for what’s ahead. And proud to call you my fiancée.
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Into steady before being shared with the world. Becca, you're not just the woman I love. You are my partner in every sense of the word — thoughtful, resilient, deeply kind, and stronger than you ever gives yourself credit for.
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This happened some time ago, and now it feels right to say it out loud. I asked Rebecca to marry me — and she said yes. We didn’t rush to announce it. Some things deserve to be lived in quietly first, protected from noise and opinions, allowed to settle into something real.
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Happy New Year! It was the best decision to go to warmer places for a few days. Thank you for this, baby.
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I’m really grateful for you. For the way you show up, the way you listen, the quiet moments that mean more than big words. Having you in my life makes things steadier, warmer, real. I hope this Christmas gives you comfort, and a reminder that you’re loved — by me, very much so.
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Merry Christmas love of my life!❤ I love you endlessly, and my love grows stronger every day, every minute. You changed my life with your appearance, and without you, I would no longer be myself. Thank you for being there for me. You're everything that I need.
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Happy, safe and Merry Christmas eve from me, my wife and the team.
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Perfect Christmas Eve in the best city in the world.
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At least something good happened today... Don't you ever leave me alone for so long again.
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