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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
1 month
A N T I C I P A T E!!! Tough Conversations is coming soon. ⬇️⬇️ Tough Conversations: Parents, their Adolescents and the LGBTQIA+ Talk. Anticipate!!
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I became a registered nurse in 2009. I started working in 2010, paid 25 - 30k as salary. That was 14 years ago. I was in my early 20s then. I worked tirelessly in Nigeria. Gave Nigeria the best of my youth. My 20s. 14 years later, they still pay nurses 30k. Make it make sense!
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My husband to my kids: "Children do you want beef or chicken?" Son: Is there fish? Daughter: Is there sausage? Me: Remembers twitter and the individual that tweeted: "Allow children to.." I have been laughing for 5 mins straight. Everyone is tired of me. I can't stop laughing
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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I passed! I am officially a PhD. candidate! Today, being our Nurses' Day celebration in the Department; it finally dawned on me that I actually did a huge thing last week. By this time last week, I passed my defence (breathes😂) Had to stop and revel in the joy and how far
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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I finally got to meet the Chifes. @gechife and @ChifeDr Doc was an added + because I had no idea I was going to meet him. Past few days have been crazy for me, but I told myself: I will make out time to see @gechife & it was worth it. Pleasant couple. And the conversations😁
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Last week we celebrated our anniversary. It was a beautiful celebration with my spouse, my kids, & me. More than a decade ago, we vowed to be together. Here we are😊 We are simply imperfect people striving to bring out the best in each other. PS: I make a beautiful bride😊😊
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@Wizarab10 "Never forget who you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armour and it can never be used to hurt you.”
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Tyrion Lannister once said; "Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you.”
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If you're ugly, you're ugly. Embrace it and live happily ever after. Don't stress yourself
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Twitter Engagements Nigerian Twitter engagement is the same way Nigerians treat each other outside social media. Maybe yes, maybe not. But if Nigerians loved themselves as much as other countries stood by themselves - Nigeria would not be the way it is. My analysis of
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
What happens to the Widowers in our communities? There is always one contribution, donation or NGO for the widows. I have never seen nor heard anything done for the widowers. Men lose their wives as much as women lose their husbands. Yet, never have I heard a.. 1/
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Who else feels the pain I feel when their car enters a bad pothole? I feel the pain so badly, like I wince/shiver in pain. I also feel like I just fell into a ditch and sore all over. Is it just me or... Like I am too emotional for a car😫😫 @Gidi_Traffic
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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One of my major highlights of 2023 was passing the NCLEX amidst my PhD. 2023 was tough. But if I could study for & pass the NCLEX with years out of clinical nursing & being in academia; 2024 is doable!! To 2024 - More blessings. I did 2023. 2024, I can. To the New Year 🥂
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Meet Gesare Chife @gechife one of our Guest Speakers. She penned me a beautiful foreword. I can't thank her enough for doing that - I was disappointed one too many by people I know, whom I asked to write me one. She will be speaking on: Peer Pressure. An important topic.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Nursing Profession in Nigeria = A profession that eats its young. Miserly pay Archaic reforms Unfairness... Should I continue?
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@tysalihu 😂😂I am surprised that wasn't his first line of insult. It is usually the very first
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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LMAO BNSc Nursing Registered Nurse Registered Midwife MSc Nursing PMP course (didn't go through with the certification) Numerous certifications in healthcare and research PhD. in view Mother to a 1. Teen 2. Pre-teen 3. Toddler. Respect and adore my Oga, my Emperor.🫡
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Dear Male patients/clients. When Nurses ask you to stretch your arm for a Blood Pressure check, it's just an innocent blood pressure check for your own health. The outstretched arm is not to inappropriately touch the Nurse's body, and then feign ignorance. Let's be guided.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 years
1/ Iju Ese: A Long Lasting Igbo Tradition Iju Ese - is an Igbo Tradition usually done when a man and woman are to be joined as husband and wife. A delegate from each side of the family is sent to ask various questions about the family that their child is about to be a part of.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@akinalabi She will be fine. She just needs to work on herself. We all are growing. We all work on ourselves. She just needs to take this "disgrace" and turn it into grace/graces.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
5 months
The Email! When I received this email about 10 hours after my exam, I couldn't believe it. 1st, this was my first attempt. 2nd, I've not been active in clinicals (na analysis dey my head 🤣😂). Still feels surreal. Thank you all for your kindest wishes and Happy New Year
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
5 months
One of my major highlights of 2023 was passing the NCLEX amidst my PhD. 2023 was tough. But if I could study for & pass the NCLEX with years out of clinical nursing & being in academia; 2024 is doable!! To 2024 - More blessings. I did 2023. 2024, I can. To the New Year 🥂
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@DONJAZZY Good morning Don Jazzy. I am creating awareness for adolescent boys on dangers of social vices. If you could help me retweet... The tweet is on my page. Our aim is to ensure that boys channel the power of their masculinity into positivity. This would make my day🙏🏽
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
2 years
Can the sewage guy japa? Can the market woman whom you buy tomatoes from, japa? Can the cleaners who clean the street japa? And so on... Japa if you have the means and if you want to. Do not, I repeat, do not list it as a viable solution to the deteriorated Nigerian state!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
The viral video of the young boy feeding his little sister - a toddler. I have reservations about it. While it is a special moment worthy of praise, I think that isn't the child's job. I read a lot of comments both on Twitter and Instagram and expected at least one parent
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
2 years
Regarding the nursing profession in Nigeria and the insults we get, I refuse to sit on the fence and watch. My conscience will not allow it. Why? I was part of the Nigerian Nursing system from 2010 - 2017. I have been a nurse during an endemic (Ebola). I have heard insults
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Men pick up the role of "fatherhood" too early. What do I mean by this? In their early 20s, a lot of men are already being pressured to pay bills - by young women. It doesn't matter if they are "stipends" given to them by their parents (for those who do not have a source of
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@tysalihu 🤣 The last time I quarrelled with a conductor was when I was 8 months pregnant with my first child. Bro looked at me & said: You no sabi ashawo work. Dem don give you belle on top. Vexed, I almost used the umbrella I was holding to hit him😏 still disappeared with my change
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Taking care of your children is your responsibility. It is not "unpaid labour." You decided you want children. It is your job to care for them. If you are not comfortable being a stay at home partner/spouse, this an important discussion with your spouse.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
1 year
This. He made a lot of sense here. Cos, there was a period I was so miffed with people who were simply procreating every year with no plans for the future of these kids. It is the poverty line for me and "muta nwoke eji eme gini?"
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“What’s that one video of speed Darlington 😂”
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
5 years
So, something ago, I suggested the concept of creating awareness for adolescent boys, as a lot of focus has been on women. My question has always been: Who teaches the young boys?
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
2 years
Thank you to FB that reminded me of these photos. This was in 2018😊 I've come a long way. From clinical to lecturing. Tasted both sides. Now, I think I want International Health Organisations😅 However, I will be back to clinicals. I have missed it.😅
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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So, I read a tweet on what a toddler should be able to do about two weeks ago. I choose to respond today. Dear Parents A toddler is defined as kids between the ages of 1 - 3. No, your toddler cannot TIE THEIR SHOELACES!! Why? Your toddler has not yet developed the fine motor
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
This morning, I decided to try this "consent seeking" with my youngest child. Me: Mama wants to give you a warm nice cosy bath. May I? Son: Silent & probably wondering what was wrong with his mum. I asked twice o. That's how I said loudly - will you come & bath osiso! Action!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 years
Hello Student Nurses/Nurse Colleagues on Twitter. Compliments 😊 Some few nuggets.. A lot of nurses are waiting for the Covid-19 wave to quell; and off they move to Europe, Canada, the US. Somewhere they would get better jobs, better pay, better treatment, etc. 1/15
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
2 years
Celebrating Nurses Day😊 A few months ago, I was offered PhD in Nursing with research - partly funded. Learning the ropes, keenly. Be inspired to seek opportunities to go back to school if you can. Nurses - researchers, students & clinicians Happy #InternationalNursesDay
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Naomi Raine is performing at #TheExperience My goodness. This lady's song held me up for months. Took care of my doubts. Made me believe. Assured me that My God Would Not Fail. Naomi, you sing to inspire. To give hope. To believe. To trust. To have faith! Thank you!!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@WizEdison10 People do not understand that marriage takes a lot of hard work, compromises, and sacrifices. There is no sweetener anywhere. What M&B passed through as parents are what each of us who are parents is going through. Having the ideology that it's all roses just shows "you" are
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 years
Today is International Day of the Boy Child. I haven't seen any awareness created. No campaigns. Nothing. And it scares me. Don't we have boy children again? It scares me so much because I have a boy child. The society has alot going on for the girl child.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
6 years
Hoping someone will help get him not just some good stand, but links to food fairs and all. Best thing I have seen on twitter this morning. We truly rise by lifting others.👌🏽
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
2 years
Please, I don't want to read any japa tweets or get a visa to leave Nigeria. So, people who can't leave, what happens to them? You that has left, is your entire kindred in that country? Please, please hold your peace this week. Save it as a draft!! T for THANKS!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@kenechukwu___ @Wizarab10 Awwwwn. You left the pun in the tweet to correct me? My husband, my kids. Don't worry. Changed the pronoun to an article. Oya bring DNA kit.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
1 year
@instablog9ja Why doesn't he look as excited as she is? Her joy is radiant. His? Hmmm
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Showing off with our award. When a young mind writes and wins a whopping GHC 1000. I have no choice but to be proud and pose. I am the Mum😂😂😂
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Maybe in your house. In mine, he is my King. I am his Queen. Oh, by the way - he built the house from the scratch!
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the future is feminist
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You're not a king in your house, you're a father and/or a husband and your 3 bedroom flat is not a fucking kingdom.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Females from age 21 and above should try to get a PAP smear test done every 3years, irrespective of their sexual life. It helps in the early detection of cervical cancer. So, if you've never had a PAP smear done and you are 21 and above, try to get one. Every 3 years.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
The debate between my Children and then their Dad. Breakfast Convo. Son: Winning is everything. Daughter: Winning is not everything. S: Winning is everything because when you win when you get to that top, there is this joy and happiness you feel for being the first. You feel
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Crushing on myself on significant milestones accomplished this year. Graduated and passed with Excellent/Distinction in Research work; Master of Science in Nursing (MSN). Completed contact hours of learning session for project management, and.... #WomanCrush
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
We have a child rights problem in Nigeria. Yes! But are "we" ready to unlearn and relearn? Cos you will see "people " justifying why this or that was done.
@DavidHundeyin
David Hundeyin
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And we saw this play out with the Chrisland saga where the school spent years disgracefully arguing that statutory rape was not in fact, statutory rape. We have a child rights problem in Nigeria, which is a subset of our larger human rights problem.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@JE_dna Yes. When you relocate, you have to consciously work on your volume. Or else, people will always tell you rather embarrassingly to keep your volume down. I sometimes suspect that the sound of generators makes us (Nigerians) a bit deaf daily.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Do your DNA test in peace and stop saying Nurses switched your baby. Leave Nurses out of your infidelity mess. They switched your baby? But your DNA is there and your husband's own isn't? No Nurse switched your baby. Abi Nurses will be the cause of your infidelity too? 😏😏
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
@Wizarab10 That loneliness that comes with moving to a new country. This discussion is really necessary. I am currently experiencing it. And if I did not have my hands busy with my kids...! That statement is not an attack. It is a reality!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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The Ministry of Health: The brain drain in the healthcare profession is getting too much. Which healthcare profession can we easily 'mess up'? They turned to nurses. The easiest. And our representatives accepted it with no objections. Well, @NMC_Nigeria our answer is NO!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 months
Registered Nurses, if you do any home healthcare services for any individual and you charge less than 100k naria, I want to tell you - you hate yourself. Social media influencing is some people's craft and they charge. You pay for that licence. Charge them! Get a biz card!!
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My rate card and business phone number as at December 2023 - wetin i charge her 10k for? - And which number send her the message?
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Chimamanda's piece is so touching. After reading it, I feel I need to publicly thank @gechife again. Thank you Ma'am for your support when I needed it - for my book. Thank you so much for being there. Thank you for all the kind words Know that you are appreciated!
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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How are people not understanding that we are against 1. Sexual predators 2. Sex for professionalism - grades, jobs, etc. 3. Sexual abuse 4. Disrespect of marital vows 5. Etc We can be against all these & still be against throwing friends under the bus. They are separate issues.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
@darknbold1 That Covid-19 lockdown was not a small something o. It bonded families....and well...broke some. It was not a small something abeg. So many parents got to know their children. Children too, got to know their parents.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
@AfamDeluxo People are noticing! Awesome.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 months
It's because of nursing in Nigeria that no matter how my husband says: Let's go back, I tell him NO. See, I have been travelling around the world with him, refusing to have two homes. But I told him, "Don't think I can't just do what my nursing colleagues are doing oo."
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Interesting. This was one of the things I admired about my spouse. At 26/27 years he already had a bungalow he called home, though sparsely furnished. It didn't matter. We had home. His mum was his greatest support person when he wanted to purchase the property.
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Osaretin Victor Asemota
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My parents broke up when I was 10 after 11 years of marriage and 4 kids. It had to happen because their living conditions didn't make sense and it led to a lot of conflicts between my mum and her inlaws (my grandfather, his wife and others.) My father didn't move away from home.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Then you probably haven't seen men bond over the slaughtering of cows, and hanging them over the firewood to dry out. You also haven't seen men pound fufu. During my Dad's burial, the Umunna took the head of the cow and cooked it themselves. No, women were not allowed to do
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Bella Hadidn’t
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It’s only men who see cooking at family gatherings to mean bonding. Not bonding over a bottle of wine or just having fun but inhaling smoke and sneezing. E ti sinwin dears
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Let me tell them what fathers do remember 1. School fees 2. House rent 3. Hospital bills 4. Ensuring the cars are fixed and running 5. Providing housekeeping money 6. Pays for vacation 7. Pays for the birthday cake & celebration of the birth dates he forgot
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iNk
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If e easy, make dem do am. When you work hard for an entire month and only a fraction of that money is spent on yourself. You spend nights thinking, planning and projecting ways to ensure your family is not in want. Remembering birthdays is good and important but . . .
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Children need to be children. I think most times, parents overburdened their oldest children with the care and grooming of the younger siblings. We forget that older children have a childhood that needs to be lived and enjoyed as well. The excuse in that clip was that
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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I want to dance so badly. But my muscles are tired. I am celebrating my small wins. Projects set out in January to accomplish - all in the pipeline. PhD coursework - DOOOONEEE! Yay! I can't wait to finish my proposal. It's back-breaking, but I am relentless. To me🍸🍸🍸
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Yet, people are quick to scream patriarchy. I think the term patriarchy is used when it's not in "our" favour. 6/
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
The day I mentioned in a group chat that my next of kin was my husband - in any form I filled; people paused. Like there was a huge/large pause. 😂😂 I honestly thought I had something wrong. Well, he remains my next of kin till my first child is an adult - that's if I will
@Wizarab10
Sir Dickson
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"The title deed has to be in both our names" says a wife whose next of kin is her father or brother. 🤡🤡🤡
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@Wizarab10 This topic. I would prefer to listen and read😂 Do you know that during antenatal, we ask women their past obstetric history. This includes previous abortions. Some get very uncomfortable if their spouse is there & may not reply. And that information is very useful to us.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
My friends have started advertising my book with the Mock-up. My husband himself is my biggest advertiser. Pre-order link coming soon. You would want to gift your son, daughter, neice, nephew, cousin or even teens around your neighborhood/community this book. Stay Tuned.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
One thing I learnt from my Doctor recently. She said: If you are taking a medication prescribed by a doctor, and you feel you are are reacting to a particular medication (s), take it back to the pharmacists in that hospital. Tell them how you feel.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
3 years
Do women feign ignorance or naivete when they are flirty with men? Do you know that non-verbal communication is a form of communication? It makes up about 60 - 65 per cent of communication. If you agree to travel with a man to another country, what exactly are you expecting?
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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My daughter just asked me for our anniversary date. Her gift to us is - My spouse and I sleep in. They would serve us meals in bed. Me: 🤩🤣🤣😂 Such thoughtfulness. We can achieve this in a couple of years once she is a teenager. Ijay - 1 People who sleep till 11 am - 0
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 years
There is a tweet on the "Health and Care Visa" for Healthcare professionals; and someone boldly asked: "Can auxiliary nurses apply/are they eligible?" 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ You want to carry quackery into the UK too? If I may, where you received your "auxiliary nurse certification"...
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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@HNNAfrica I thought you schooled in the US, and all? Or am I wrong? Now, my questions to you are: is flagyl an over the counter drug or is it a prescription drug? Secondly, your dosage, I don't understand. Is it daily, B.d, t.d.s or q.i.d? You are the professional. Enlighten me.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Have you ever asked your kids if they are The Bully? Tell your kids not to bully others. Tell them to practice kindness. It should be a daily mantra. For me, I always ask the class teachers about my kids' behaviour in school. I am not only concerned about them being stars
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Sometime in 2012, one of our patients in the maternity section had a baby via emergency CS. Baby had to stay in the NICU for some weeks. Mum was discharged, but stayed in the hospital because of her baby. Her husband frequently visited morning and evening to see...
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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#EgedegeChallenge I couldn't resist, even though I am tired🤣 @Ada_Ojilibeka come and rate me.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
5 years
Who else feels that rush of adrenaline, that highness when driving at a crazy speed;and sometimes feels like a turn on. Yet, some fear underneath all those feelings while driving at that crazy speed? How many ladies are on this table? I know say gents plenty😂 @Gidi_Traffic
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Please if you are protesting and there is a tear gas spray used... You may likely experience Excessive tearing Sneezing and coughing Burning sensation on the skin and in the throat...etc.. What to do? Leave the area and go to a well ventilated area RT for awareness #EndSARS
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
4 years
Today, I celebrate Me, My Womanhood. I celebrate the woman I was as well as the woman I have Become. The Year has been tough, with all its ups and downs. We do not look like what we've been through. To 2020, I say: "Veni Vidi Vici" Thankful 😊🥳 Happy Birthday to You Queen
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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Slippery bathroom floor accidents can be fatal. One of the ways to prevent this is to ensure that your bathroom floor is not wet and slippery.
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Lift people up. You see a good gig you know would suit someone? Recommend them. Mention people's names: "Alex does this well" "Sonia is a great events organiser" Make that relationship people have with you count! A candle loses absolutely nothing by lighting another candle.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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A man talks about how he is sexually harassed. It is met with sarcasm, jeers, laughter. And you all think it's funny? You also read takes like: "You shouldn't have worn..." "Maybe she was on heat..." So, we can make excuses for a particular gender and look over...
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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The women I look up to in academia. My PhD. supervisors have been "breaking & moulding me" for almost 2 years. They want me to graduate within 3 years or less. Can I? I've spent the past 2 months pursuing another goal - successfully. Now, I am 100% back to Phding. We move!
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Women and their Domestic Helps and Abuse. Women, who have domestic help, must their lives always be a living hell because of you? Is there ever a happy moment? Read this thread 🧵 In Ghana, I had 4 children. 3 biological and 1 - not my child. When I was moving to Ghana, I
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@DrJoeAbah The one they have shared amongst themselves and already eaten?
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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One thing about the National University of Singapore - aesthetics. Singapore thrives on aesthetics @NUSingapore
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We took a break from postgraduate life and Phding and went out for a much-needed dinner. A beautiful thing to note: 1. We are all Nurses 2. Most of us are Phding and a few are doing their Masters. 3. Some of us are Mums 4. Diversity - Asians & an African😊 Women in Science😊
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CPR is not for medics alone. Everyone should have a knowledge of CPR. It is important.
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My Nursing Journey. Memories, Nostalgia. Throwback to my time with the Military 😊 Still on the journey 😁 Happy Nurses' week everyone #NursesWeek #IDM2020
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The Blood Sisters movie is a story about bad parenting/a bad mum and how it affects society. Surprisingly, I did not read any tweet indicating that. Both sides of the families proposing to marry had their share of bad parenting but the vast part of it fell on Kola's mum.
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💯 My husband is my No.1 support. My steady loyalist. My otinkpu. When I have that doubt that I am not good enough, or I can't... He does this thing were he drops short notes where I can find them. Notes like: "You Can" "You are good enough...."
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With all the brilliant answers on today’s #NaijaKnowledgeX , let me add that a loving relationship with a supportive person is also an important ingredient of success. Think am o.
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I decided on my journey as an expat's wife; to always find a community of women activities to join. A couple of years back - I joined an all-women dance & workout group. Then, we moved. Well in KL, it's with women who love hiking. The cardio workout of following trails!!
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Omugwo Omugwo is a great time for new mums. They get to be nursed, cared for and regain their strength from the rigorous process of childbirth. The newborns are also cared for and nursed. Older women or grandmas usually come in for omugwos. I would like us to take note of...
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My husband to THE kids****
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No. I disagree. There was this beautiful family I took care of in 2014 in the hospital. Read on. Their aged father was admitted to the clinic. He was having one of those illnesses that come up because of age. Handsome Papa, and I am sure he would have been a spec in his
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At old age, fathers are lonelier cos adult kids tend to focus more on their moms. It's not that their fathers aren't deserving, they are just naturally drawn to their moms. The fathers also once focused on their moms. It's an unending vicious cycle.
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@ozzyetomi 🤣 Was listing out places I would be today. My son with a worried look asked: But will you be home when I get back from school? Dads never seem to get this kinda question.
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Ijay| RN| Destiny Is All
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I'm incredibly observant. Like my attention to detail is just... Sometimes though, it's a pain in the ass; because you have to learn to ignore things even if you did see them. That is the hardest part.
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Some people are incredibly observant which is a blessing and a curse for them. They can pick up on the smallest changes in body language, tone, behaviour etc. There’s limited blissful ignorance for them. If something is off, they WILL notice it.
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Moving to a new country - whether the UK, US, Canada, etc, is not the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal is to WIN! Stay focused and win. Remove all distractions and all irrelevance. You move, you are still standing with one leg, and already accumulating problems for yourself?
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to note that - this shouldn't be. But everyone focused on praising him for caring for his sibling. This may imply that a lot of us are okay with either having a young child as domestic help or shifting parenting to the oldest sibling in the house. This is not right.
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babysit. At least from the age of 12/13. A teenager can do chores - sweeping, cleaning, doing the dishes. Still doesn't mean they should take over all home roles. They also need time to be teenagers. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
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"support group for the men." It may be due to "popular belief" that alot of women find it difficult to care for the kids when they lose their husbands. But don't we think it's the same for the men? Or they are always supposed to Man Up! Be a Man and face life? 2/
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Dear medics on my timeline, especially nurses, the term Competitive Advantage is not only for other professions or industries. It is important for us as well. Build a personal brand that will differentiate you, and also give you a chance to compete in different settings.
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