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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
6 years
Have you ever lost all respect for someone? Like you don’t hate them, but you don’t feel the need to associate yourself or say anything to them anymore...
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@ChelseaGomez42
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4 years
Being scared to ask for what you need is a trauma response
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@ChelseaGomez42
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4 years
“You’re sensitive” Is a form of manipulation
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@ChelseaGomez42
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Shutting down & not speaking is a trauma response
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
Here’s the reality. None of us are easy to be with. We all suffer from something. So when you meet someone who is willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you, don’t let lame shit like your pride and ego get to you. Real is rare.
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@ChelseaGomez42
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5 years
A lot of people think intimacy is just about sex But intimacy is about truth When you realize you can tell someone your truth When you can show yourself to them When you stand in front of them and their response is “you’re safe with me” That’s intimacy
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
I crave intimacy but I don’t crave temporary people touching my body or soul
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
6 years
If a man expects a woman to be an Angel in his life, he must create heaven for her. Angels don’t live in hell.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
Kissing with no passion sucks. Sex with no passion sucks. Conversation with no passion sucks. Career with no passion sucks. Life with no passion sucks.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Sitting in your car outside of your house is self care. I can’t explain it but if you know you know
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
Stop giving your goddess level sex to mere mortal men.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
You’re crazy to everyone who can’t manipulate you.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Toxic people will make you feel like you are holding resentment against them when you are simply sticking to your boundary
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Notice how happy you are when you literally just do you
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
I love people who can teach me something new and expand my mind
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Pay attention to what you feel after you hang out with someone
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Water what waters you
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
Stay away from people who always consider you expressing how you feel as you arguing or being extra. It’s called gaslighting. Toxic people do that so they don’t have to take accountability for their own behavior.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Remember this There is nothing wrong with u you have patterns to unlearn, New behaviors to embody, & wounds to heal But there is nothing wrong with core of u & who u are U are unlearning generations of harm & remembering love Something will always bring u back It takes time
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
It’s time to start making people realize its a privilege to be in your life
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
A person becomes 10 times more attractive by their kindness
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
A trauma response is being afraid to ask for what you need
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
A lasting relationship includes a lot of forgiveness
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
Being in a committed relationship is so damn fun if it’s done right. You literally hang out with your best friend all fucking day and never stop loving each other.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
I would rather adjust my life to your absence than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
One day the energy will be reciprocated without being requested & you won’t feel so drained
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Just because someone is carrying it well, doesn’t mean it isn’t heavy
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
I have no interest in making shallow, meaningless connections with people
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Stay away from people who say they don’t want to lose you, but still do stuff to lose you
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Creating a life you can’t wait to wake up to>>
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Stop wondering if you’re good enough for people & start wondering if they’re good enough for you
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
It takes a powerful person to remain kind in cruel situations
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
You relax on a plane, without knowing the pilot. You relax in a ship, even though you don’t know the captain. You relax on a bus, even though you don’t know the driver. Why don’t you relax in life knowing that the universe is in control?
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
I had to make you uncomfortable, otherwise you never would have moved. -The Universe
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
If you didn’t come from a healthy family, make sure a healthy family comes from you.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
I would rather adjust my life to your absence than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Trauma keeps you in a loop of your past. You’ll be 25 with an 8 year old mindset and process. That’s why you people please, or over extend yourself or stay places longer than you should have. Your inner child is screaming saying “finally someone loves me”
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
An unhealed person can find offense in pretty much anything someone else does. A healed person understands that the actions of others has absolutely nothing to do with them. Each day you get to decide which one you will be.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Cutting people off is a form of self love
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
You are not wrong for wanting more effort
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Dear Universe, I trust you
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
I am realizing more everyday now, how beautiful my soul truly is
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Dancing around in your room alone is therapeutic Can’t explain it but if you know, you know
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Not speaking up for yourself is a trauma response
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Pro tip Don’t date spiritual girls if you’re not ready to be called out when your energy doesn’t match your words.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
The universe is moving toxicity out of your way and replacing it with love that is coming your way
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
Easy to spot a yellow car when you’re looking for a yellow car. Easy to spot opportunity when you’re always thinking of opportunity. Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you’re always thinking of being mad. You become what you constantly think about. Watch yourself.
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Being alone can empower you
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Childhood trauma can lead to an adulthood spent in survival mode
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Cheating is so normalized that we act like being loyal is something special instead of just being a normal characteristic
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
5 years
When you choose a life partner you’re choosing a lot of things.. Your parenting partner. Someone who will deeply influence your children. Your travel companion. Your eating companion. Your therapist.. Someone whose day you’re willing to hear about 18,000 times. Intense.
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@ChelseaGomez42
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4 years
Nothing toxic comes from genuine love Remember that
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4 years
Don’t let the idea of change scare you into staying unhappy in a comfortable place
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Disconnecting from toxic people is key to happiness
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Agreeing to things just to keep the peace is a trauma response
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4 years
You are ”too sensitive” to everyone who can't manipulate you
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@ChelseaGomez42
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4 years
The universe is preparing you for your greatest love
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4 years
You can literally feel your energy being drained when you are around people you shouldn’t be around
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Self love is the highest frequency that attracts to you everything you want
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The black sheep in the family is usually the one who sees through everyone’s bull shit
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4 years
Understanding your partners trauma is a love language
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4 years
Agreeing to things so you don’t upset anyone is actually a trauma response
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The universe is making you uncomfortable so you can reach your highest potential
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The universe is not in a hurry. You are. It is why you are anxious, stressed & disappointed. Trust that what is meant to be yours, will be yours.
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You’re crazy to everyone who can’t control you
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Being with someone whose intentions are genuine>>
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You’ll regret making a calm person mad
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
4 years
Being attracted to someone’s potential isn’t the same as being attracted to someone for who they are
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@ChelseaGomez42
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4 years
Doing stuff with anxiety will take a strength most people will never know
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@ChelseaGomez42
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Childhood trauma can look like an overachiever that is super ambitious & always needing to accomplish it all
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4 years
A person becomes 10 times more attractive by their positive energy
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Chelsea Gomez
4 years
You’re useless to everyone who can’t manipulate you
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You ever fear abandonment but also are willing to cut ties in a split second for your own inner peace?
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I’ll never regret the love I gave anyone Love always comes back full circle So even if it wasn’t reciprocated, it is coming back in some way or form
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4 years
Sometimes we outgrow people who aren’t growing
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Chelsea Gomez
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I’m not shy I’m a noticer I am a thinker. I’m an observer I’m not stuck up I’m not anti-social I treasure my solitude I’m not a fan of small talk I prefer a few close fiends I am reserved, until I’m not I appreciate true connection If we connect, you matter to me
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@ChelseaGomez42
Chelsea Gomez
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Anxiety is when you are looking too much into the future Depression is when you’re looking too much into the past
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Chelsea Gomez
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Self control is strength. Calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on insignificant actions based on someone else. Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life. Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
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An attempt to control everything is a result of a childhood trauma It helps you feel safe
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A lasting relationship includes a lot of communication
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Your trauma is valid Even if other people experienced “worse”
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Understanding your partners trauma is so important
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The distance you kept during my struggle... I’m gonna need you to double it during my success.
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Manifest someone who is emotionally, intellectually, and sexually compatible with you
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I like people who don’t need everyone to like them
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Letting go of toxic people is a major step in showing the universe you’re serious about being happier
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I’m in an uncomfortable stage in my life where my old self is gone but my new self isn’t fully born yet. I’m in midst of transformation.
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Letting go of toxic people is a major step in showing the universe you’re serious about being a magnet for miracles
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Chelsea Gomez
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A lasting relationship includes a lot of honesty
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Usually the universe will present you with two choices Evolve Or Repeat
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The universe is going to blow your mind with a love you never knew existed
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Don’t tell anyone what you’re doing until it’s done Outside energy can throw off goals
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Slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything.
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Chelsea Gomez
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My relationship will always be private, but I will never keep my partner a secret. There’s a big difference between privacy and secrecy.
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Have you noticed how peaceful your life has become once you stopped dealing with certain individuals ?
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Chelsea Gomez
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Once heard the best dating advice: If they like you, you’ll know. If they don’t, you’ll be confused.
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If a man doesn’t match his words, he is not a man. He’s just a boy who likes to talk.
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Being unable to speak during a confrontation is a trauma response
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Chelsea Gomez
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Going to the beach is self care Can’t explain it but if you know, you know
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Toxic is when they can’t let you go But can’t treat you right either
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