All the real shyt you did they’ll never mention.

One day , I just stopped being a baby momma . I stopped asking for consistency. I stopped asking for equal effort. I stopped giving updates. I stopped trying to coparent . My children are BLESSINGS , not burdens . I am a MOTHER , not a baby momma .

I Love It When Women Find The Type Of Love That People Claimed Was Impossible For Them.

I’m a MOTHER, I am not a baby mama. 1 day I looked at my child and said “I am enough”. That day, I turned a man’s burden into my privilege. To be loved above all others. To witness a child’s milestones. To be included in their celebrations. Those are privileges.

I learned to stop telling people my business when I started hearing it from people I don’t even speak to.

⚠️ Don’t sleep on the quiet ones in your churches and workplaces ‼️ There’s a powerhouse of anointing 💥 packed into those introverted souls. I pray that God sharpens our vision to see the potential in those we tend to overlook. 🗣️ Quiet folks? Oh, they SEE it all! 👀

You didn’t meet the expectations I placed on you, and rather than acknowledging my own responsibility for expecting you to be someone you never promised to be, I’d rather say ‘you hurt me.’ It’s easier than admitting I was wrong.

Y’all dnt know how much I pray! I have my fun, I talk my noise! But baby, I PRAY!

There is a woman out there willing to pack your lunch. Never Settle. She just ain’t me.

The real flex is how many lives you can positively impact.

You can love someone unconditionally & still choose to remove them from your life. Your love is unconditional Your presence should have conditions

You are allowed to enjoy your success fully, without carrying the weight of the guilt that comes from progressing in spite of your circumstances. Celebrate yourself all days, always.

You deserve success without feelings of guilt or apology. Not everyone will celebrate you as you rise beyond the people and places you grew up in and that’s okay.

90% of my L's came from making sure someone else was ok.

Speaking in tongues will not replace the apology you owe people in English.

In my “That is Not My Assignment” Era.

Level 1: Paycheck to paycheck Level 2: Learning to budget Level 3: Paying off bad debt Level 4: Saving some money Level 5: 6-months savings Level 6: Investing some money Level 7: Earning more money Level 8: Investing 50%+ of income Level 9: Financial freedom Money is just a game

I’ve learned the best way to kill something is to let it starve. No response, no action, no altercations, just don’t feed it. That’s where the true power lies.

Taking time to yourself is essential. Learning who you are, what you want, what you need, what you appreciate, or would like to change. Things to consider to see the happiest version of yourself. It allows you to set your standards and expectations clearly and mutually.

&& Before I start my morning, I just wanna say thank you God for all I have, all I’ve lost, and all that’s on its way🤞🏽. Without you I am nothing. Please continue making changes that I can’t always see, I trust you and your path for me. Amen🗣️🩵💯💯