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👉 Many people live scattered and tumultuous lives trying to live outside of their own boundaries, not accepting and expressing the truth of who they are. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #truth #God

👉 People with poor boundaries struggle with saying no to the control, pressure, demands, and sometimes the real needs of others. They passively comply but inwardly resent. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #no #control

👉 Early in life they were taught that their property did not really begin at their skin. Others could invade their property and do whatever they wanted. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #property #abuse

👉 God defines and takes responsibility for his personality by telling us what he thinks, feels, plans, allows, will not allow, likes, and dislikes. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #God #responsibility

👉 Sometimes we have bad on the inside and good on the outside. In these instances, we need to be able to open up our boundaries to let the good in and the bad out. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #good #bad

👉 Knowing what I am to own and take #responsibility for gives me #freedom. Taking responsibility for my life opens up many different options. However, if I do not “own” my life, my choices and options become very limited. ▶️ Learn More at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES

👉 Then, when they have committed themselves to someone else’s schedule, they realize that they don’t want to be in that particular situation anymore. But by then it’s too late. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #mature #yes

👉 A client once asked me (John), “Is there any way I can set boundaries with my wife—but not have her set limits with me?” Though I admired his candor, the answer, obviously, was no. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #respect #love

👉 We can’t really love until we have boundaries—otherwise we love out of compliance or guilt. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #character #love

👉 Many people experience intense critical self-judgment when they begin telling the truth about what is and isn’t their biblical responsibility. We encourage you to rejoice in the “guilt.” ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #guilty #conscience

👉 Otherwise, you could fail massively before you have solid enough boundaries. Begin practicing your no with people who will honor it and love you for it. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #intimacy #relationships

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👉 Patience is different. #Patience allows the process to happen while you are also providing the ingredients of growth. Make sure you are loving and truthful while you allow your spouse time to grow. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #marriage

👉 Humbly take #responsibility for what you have done, apologize, ask forgiveness, and change. Your ownership of your part of the problem helps your spouse not to feel judged or put down. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #marriage

👉 When you love someone, you are “for” him, and whatever you do or say must be from a loving perspective, not a vengeful or punishing one. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #marriage #love

👉 It takes a lot for us to mature. Understand how hard growth and change are for your spouse, especially when he is in denial or out of control. ▶️ Take the Boundaries Quiz at https://t.co/FXRAvBX7nc. #BOUNDARIES #marriage #grace

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👉 Yet God is interested in people loving others, and you can’t love others unless you have received love inside yourself. Whatever we don’t value, we don’t guard. #BOUNDARIES #property #protection

👉 Many people are told over and over again that nurturing their souls is selfish and wrong. After a while, they develop a deep conviction that this is true. And at that point, they place little value on taking care of the resources God has entrusted to them. #BOUNDARIES