SOME REASONS FOR PUNISHMENTS IN GRAVE
1: Riba
2: Zina
3: Gossip
4: Backbite
5: Neglect salah
6: die with Haram debt
7: die refusing to pay off debt
8: breaking fast with no excuse
9: Not reciting/acting upon Quran
10: lies that spread around the world
Sabr isn't easy, sabr is tears, sabr is feeling alone, sabr is swallowing insults, sabr is smiles covering tears, sabr is crying for the response of Allah. "Behold, I am near." (2:186)