#SEND
parent & advocate supporting families, working with schools/disability forums/health boards etc to help improve practices around disabilities.
#GTTO
🧵if you ever wonder what drives me to so passionately support children & young people this is it in a nutshell👇🏼✌️B is 2wks old here, I was super young, single parenting by choice, wholly unequipped for parenthood never mind life threatening complex medical needs & disabilities.
Today nothing else matters except this gorgeous girlie is 21! We were told on this day & for 3 mths after that she’d likely not survive🥹she’s proved them wrong with her strength, spirit & smiles every step of the way💜🫶she’s the reason I am who I am🥰
#HappyBirthday
#Friday13th
❤️🩹 can we all send a little get well soon wish to super brave Teddy who’s just had open heart surgery ❤️ what a little super star! 🤩😍🩵💙 so nice to see him looking so well after such a major surgery
@redpepper1011
I hope you’re managing to get some rest 🩷
Morning everyone teddy’s allowed to drink more now ( bits at a time ) he’s a lot more brighter sats a big 98 was sitting between 80-90 before op - he’s talking more now he can have a drink and enjoying watching bing - hoping drains can come out today as leaking less fluid think…
Ask the tricky questions, have the difficult conversations, request support, question choices, use your voice, make yourself heard, appeal decisions, & always remember if they feel “challenged” by you that’s a THEM problem NOT a YOU problem!
#SEND
#parents
#Carers
#empowered
SO massively proud of this one today 😍 failed by mainstream secondary & been home since February but this week she’s tried a new placement out & absolutely given it her all🤩❤️ the proof is in the pudding - change the environment not the child✌️
#inclusion
#EducationForAll
#SEND
Happy Birthday to me🥰🥳🎉🥰 best day with my kiddos, with some of my lovely friends & with my family via video calls😍🥰❤️super grateful for every single person that is in my life, by my side & on my side 🥰🙌🥰
For those that are against me? Kiss my ass!!!🙌🔥👌🏼
I’m good🥰
For THAT school👇🏼 those that stood by,those that belittled her, diminished her, gaslighted her, failed her, put her down, tried to break her spirit, failed to protect & safeguard her & the utter bast*rds that mocked/screamed in her face👇🏼🖕🏼THIS is the face of inclusion
#Autism
❤️
Oh my heart ❤️ if I didn’t already love
@LewisCapaldi
this would have tipped me over the edge😍one of the most genuinely caring performers out there! I see tweets like this a lot but others don’t reply yet Lewis took the time to make this kids night🥺😍 bloody legend! 👏🏼
#Autism
Sharing because I’m hearing more & more stories of this happening in schools & im just here to tell you to stop✋🏼or you will be called out on your bullshit by someone like me 😊let’s call this a healthy reminder😉you’re a teacher / senco / head … stay in your line 👌🏼
#edutwitter
He’s my Star Of The Week constantly but today he was SO made up to be awarded Class Star Of The Week for helping his (very lovely) teacher & always being helpful around the classroom 😍🥰💙 this is what a nurturing inclusive environment looks like😍💙👏🏼 super proud mumma moment😍
It’s hard work being 4 & facing the grind of reception eh son 🙈🤣
He told me in the car he was tired I said aww how come? & he replied because today he’d “done ALL of the learning & ALL of the playing ALL of the day” 🤣💙💙 love him! Snoring his little head off! 😴🤣
OMG so happy I could cry right now 🥰😍🥰 my little Bear got his school place confirmed for September in the loveliest of schools 🥳 I feel like I’ve been holding my breath all day long now! 😍❤️
#parenting
#schoolplaces
#kids
I really genuinely love this! ❤️ if only all our schools could adopt this type of team work half the problems children, young people, parents, families, teachers, schools would quite simply not exist ….
#SaturdayVibes
#SaturdayThoughts
Schools please don’t be the kind of place that gives a detention to an ADHD Autistic kid because they turn up with a green writing pen instead of a black one 🤦🏼♀️ it is NOT a good look in this day & age! 🙄🤦🏼♀️
#edutwitter
#SEND
#autism
#ADHD
#CostOfLivingCrisis
#schools
My little bear climbed into my bed this morning, snuggled in & whispered “mummy.. guess what??” I went “what’s that” he gave me the biggest cwtchy cuddle & said “I love you that’s what”😍🥰😍best birthday gift EVER!🥰🥰🥰Happy Sunday peeps hope your day is off to as lush a start!
Why is it in schools that the expectation to remember things is on neurodiverse students yet teachers aren’t expected to remember strategies in place via the EHCP for the student 🤔talk to me about that
#edutwitter
🤷🏻♀️ because I am seriously struggling to get my head round it 🫤
& then he was 5!💙😍my miracle 🌈boy I was told I would never be able to have & yet here he is big, bold & charming the pants off everyone he meets🥰💙he deserves the world & we will never give up trying to give him exactly that ❤️💙
Hope your Monday is as love filled as mine❤️
When your daughter messages you from school to say she’s unsafe from other girls in the toilets!! FFS! WHY aren’t kids safe in schools??
@Ofstednews
this school needs URGENT inspection!!!!
She is my reason,passion & heart, she is why I battle for
#SEND
she is my courage,role model & strength 🥰She is my why it matters 💜please make her day by wishing her a
#HappyBirthday
🎂she shouldn’t have survived to birth yet here she is taking on the world❤️ My girl, my hero💜
Is executive functioning understood enough in schools do we think? 🤔 the number of times I’m contacted by parents because schools have sanctioned because of a child’s lack of executive functioning skills is alarming tbh 🫤
#SEND
#autism
#ADHD
#inclusion
#Neurodiversity
#equity
I am a reasonably well adjusted adult for all intents & purposes…. But THIS scenario rips my inner she devil to the surface a smidge too easily 🤣🤣🤣 please tell me it’s not just me 😳👀😬 🫣🤣🤣🤣
Happy Wednesday 💖
Today I feel a little bit stronger & a little bit braver 🙌 so on this
#wonderfulwomenwednesday
I want to give a massive shout out to all the wonderful women in my life that have been there for me this last few months ❤️😘
My son Isaac; diagnosed autistic at 21 months. Told he would never talk properly, then he’d never cope in mainstream then never get GCSEs, certainly not anything higher. But he proved them wrong and here he is holding his 2:1 degree certificate in accountancy and finance👏🏼
Absolutely blown away to be nominated for this🥺honestly stumped for words & we all know that’s not like me😳🤣to whoever nominated me thank you so much it means a huge amount that out of all the fab unpaid carers out there doing such wonderful, amazing work you thought of me🥰❤️
Sunshine selfie 😎☀️🕶️ absolutely loving this warmer weather today! It just makes everything nicer doesn’t it 🥰😎🌞 hope you’ve all had a fabby Saturday & that you managed to grab some sunshine ☀️ 😎❤️
Like him or loathe him I don’t think anyone could really listen to what he is sharing here & not have compassion for his decisions to protect his family. It takes huge courage to stand up & be heard, even more so in his position.
#PrinceHarryandMeghan
#RoyalFamily
#mentalhealth
After school detentions .. in the winter darker months .. who’s responsible for kids when they leave school? Is it schools duty until they reach home? Hearing of some local YP being given whole class same day detentions for 1.5hr - that doesn’t sit well with me 😬
#edutwitter
Sometimes we just need a minute to breathe & yet often it feels like if we stop all those balls in the air will come crashing down. Take the minute, take the breath, life is too short not to prioritise our own well-being & mental health! None of us can fill from an empty cup! ❤️
My gorgeous girlie turned 12 yesterday😍🥳& today I am up at crankie o’clock to take her & 7 friends, her brother & sister to Chessington for a fun filled day out…please wish me luck & enough caffeine to survive the day🤣
#HappyBirthday
#Saturday
#FunDay
#Autism
#parent
#carer
When a teacher takes the time to reach out & praise your child it means a lot to any parent … but to a SEND parent that’s seen their child go through a really challenging & difficult time it means so much more 🙌❤️
#SEND
#positivity
#autism
#anxiety
#edutwitter
#teacherstudent
Just NO ✋🏼 🛑 want to know the quickest way to find your school in court? This👇🏼👇🏼🤦🏼♀️ the equality act is there for a reason - USE IT! A child’s EHCP is a legally binding document if it’s not being followed to the letter - report it formally to the LA & follow the process 👌🏼
This smile has been missing for a while recently but thanks to amazing friends & family I am slowly finding it again❤️no tags as they know how much I have appreciated them more than anything this last few weeks 🥰 I needed this last week more than I knew ❤️
#AndBreathe
What fresh hell is this?!? “Easier to stay home” 🤦🏼♀️ she does not have a clue about EBSA! & basically promoting ABA as a “fix” please do sit down & shut up when you clearly have not a clue what you’re talking about 😬 not an ounce of compassion 🤢
#SEND
#autism
#anxiety
Often we share the negatives in
#SEND
but this is my big fat shiny positive right here in one photo💖
@DeniseBoast
was Bex 1:1 TA for all of primary & been her PA at home since 💞THIS is what good, compassionate, caring teaching looks like
#edutwitter
treat them like your own 💞
Somebody please explain the rationale of a school putting a reasonable adjustment in place for a disabled child then removing it saying it was a temporary measure😬I mean do they seriously expect parents just to accept that level of discrimination? Struggling to understand this🤯
If you have met one autistic person …
Guess what???
👀
You Have Met ONE autistic person!!!
Please do everyone a favour & understand, absorb & incorporate that 🙌❤️🙌
#autism
#autismawareness
#actuallyautistic