Archegos
@ArchegosDan
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God | Mindset | Growth | Discipline | Wisdom
Lagos, Nigeria
Joined January 2022
Have you spoken to your self today? I am disciplined, focused, and unstoppable. I am not lazy, distracted, or mediocre I am consistent, determined, and committed to excellence. The works of my hands are blessed, my ideas are inspired, and my results speak for themselves.
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She’s right, but let’s talk about the root cause. The root cause is that the modern society has succeeded in convincing struggling men that if they aren’t financially successful or buoyant, they are automatically weak or simps and that they should feel lucky just to have a
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Well said 👏🏾👏🏾 See, you can’t build wealth from an empty tank. If you’re still struggling to meet basic needs, the pressure to ‘invest early or you will fail in life’ becomes a silent burden that steals joy and creates unnecessary anxiety. Yes, investing is important but your
I wish someone told me this earlier: Not everyone should be “investing” in their early 20s. A lot of young people are depressed because they’re not buying land or putting 5k into stocks every month, meanwhile they can barely afford basic things. Let me honest, that your 5k
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It’s ironic, the more connected the world becomes, the lonelier many people feel.
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Those who live to compete with others are prisoners of pride, true satisfaction comes from mastering yourself, not outshining someone else.
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Stories that should shake the world The image is called: The Boy Standing by the Crematory (sometimes “Standing Boy of Nagasaki”). It was taken in Nagasaki in October 1945, about a month after the atomic bombing on August 9. The photographer was Joe O’Donnell, working for
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Different layers of success mean we can’t assume someone is unhappy just because they don’t have what we have.
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Success can’t be defined from a single point of reference. It’s too layered, too personal, and too tied to our individual journeys.
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Hubby gave me his consent to post this gist.. Few days back, My husband had an event in his company, and as a Cofounder, he is to deliver an inaugural speech for the occasion. He wanted me to go over his speech, check for possible errors grammatically. I took his MacBook & went
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To the new accounts on X. You have to treat this platform like you would treat your human relationships. Invest only in those who invest in you.
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Connection even though imperfect is important, as a matter of fact, none of us are perfect, so I don’t believe in cutting people off, and I don’t believe in ghosting, I will rather have the hard conversation and redefine the relationship. Life is relational. In an age of
Estrangement culture is everywhere, especially around the holidays. But is cutting people off really a flex of empowerment? What happens when you’re the one who gets cut off? Check out my 2-part series on estrangement, from both sides of the wall. Part 2 in next post. 👇
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Slowdown is protection, and sometimes it’s even for more preparation. I remember the quote, “Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.” Effort without focus, proper direction and preparation can waste time and energy.
Funny how life slows you down right when you’re ready to sprint. Later you realise you would’ve run in the wrong direction
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There’s no single grand action that will take you to your goals. It’s your daily habits, the small, consistent things you do that decide whether you will reach it or not.
At my initial mentorship meeting, my mentor told me “You cannot eat an elephant all at once. You need to eat it piece by piece.” Whenever I write down goals, I always remember that my daily habits represent eating an elephant, piece by piece.
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Someone once said, the evening news is where they begin by greeting you Good-evening and then proceed to tell you why it’s not good. It’s an open secret that the news cycle isn’t built to inform you, it’s built to hold your attention, and fear is the strongest glue they’ve got.
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Don’t compare yourself to anyone online. Don’t get jealous of smoke screens and illusions, because that’s what most of them are illusions. The truth is, almost everyone is living two versions of their life.There’s the online version: polished, filtered, rehearsed for timeline.
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Most of the pressure you feel is not coming from people, it’s coming from the expectations you think they have of you. See, You have nothing to prove to anyone. Not your worth. Not your intelligence. Not your strength. Not your progress. Except you are pitching a business idea
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So next time you want to build rapport, don’t overthink it. Don’t try to impress. Just ask for a small favour. They might not only help you, they might start liking you more than you expect.
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Most people fear asking for help because they think it makes them look needy. But research says the opposite, people actually appreciate being asked because It makes them feel valued.
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Psychology calls this cognitive dissonance: “If I helped you, maybe I don’t dislike you after all.” The mind adjusts the feeling to match the action. Amazing right? How to use this today? • Ask for small favours • Make sure the person can easily help • Keep it polite and
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In Franklin biography, he tested this on a rival who disliked him. He simply asked to borrow a rare book.The man agreed, Franklin returned it a week later, along with a note of sincere thanks.
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