Abigail
@Abibi__
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God, I need a huge win in march. Surprise me to the core of my bones.
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Adulthood is doing all your goals at once. Career Education Hair Skin Fitness Faith Family Everything happens all at once. The lock-in has to be across board.
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Wanna know a hard pill to swallow? It's YOUR fault if you get hurt by holding on to someone who has shown you time and time again that they're not good for you.
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Don’t let anyone gaslight you. Be intentional about who you choose to do life and raise children with. Marriage is a lifelong journey. It’s too long to spend in resentment or regret.
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This is how you know the patriarchy requires performance. You’re hiding from your own children the realities of life? People lose their jobs, it’s nothing to be ashamed of, and mothers are also providers, it takes 2 to maintain a household, it’s not a shameful secret.🙂↔️
Heard of a woman whose husband lost his job for months, and she was the one fending for the family. Two months into being jobless, the children had no idea their father had lost his job. When it was time to pay school fees, she would give the money to her husband to give to the
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I love hearing “she’s quiet but stubborn” when I’m being described. Gives me butterflies
Highly recommend letting people know you’re capable of madness from time to time. Especially as a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let people know you can go from 0- Thanos real quick…
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I want my daughter to outdo me in every way. Be smarter. Go further. Heal faster. Win bigger. I’m not raising a mini-me, I’m raising an upgraded edition. A BETTER version 🥹🤍
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What I've noticed with my uncles who have multiple children with multiple women is that the children's treatment is determined by their feelings towards their mothers. The tricky part comes when neglected children become financially independent and are suddenly expected to play a
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Mistreating a woman just to push her away so you can be with someone else is straight up COWARD behavior.
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When your whole world is falling apart but you remember you’ve a God that’s never failed you
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Sharing this for whoever needs it: your breakthrough might be one bold ask away. I once sent a handwritten letter to Nigeria’s former Minister of Foreign Affairs, asking if he’d recommend me for a role at WIPO. I didn’t know him I just went with my gut. This was his reply✨
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That phase where they don’t live in your head anymore. Their name doesn’t hurt. You’re not crying, not checking, not wondering. You’re just free.
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