@twtsecretsmy u nak apa senarnya ni 😭

@twtsecretsmy Dalam hidup ni anon, sentiasa ada risiko. Nak family planning right after marriage, then you already know the cons of that, given your health. You have to choose and make sure you are aware of all the consequences from your choice. Tho, eggs freezing could be a solution to you.

@twtsecretsmy even females yg sihat takde pcos pun ditakutkan dengan 'susah nak melekat bila merancang nanti ni tauuu' now u boleh period 2 bulan sekali pun rezeki, same goes when you have a child when you're finally ready. ppl don't want to admit this but ada je yg regret ada baby awal²

@twtsecretsmy There's something called professional doctors. Seek for their advice anon, not social media

@twtsecretsmy Kalau mmg nak anak, dah masuk 30 takyah planning. Follow the flow. Umur makin lama makin meningkat, risiko makin tinggi. PCOS or not, rezeki Allah yg bg. Pregnant right after kahwin/10y lps kahwin still takkan ready kalau nk ckp pasal ready. So fikir2 kan

@twtsecretsmy you’re in late 20s, for me takyah la family planning bagai nak rak sangat. kalau dah tertulis rezeki anak selepas kahwin, tanda Allah tahu you dah ready la tu. makin tua makin banyak risiko, kakkk. pening la fikir ready tak ready ni. acane kalau dah ready tapi tak dapat? air mato

@twtsecretsmy As smone yg ade PCOS,and tunggu 4 thn utk conceive.Utk 1st child better jgn merncang but it's up to u.If nak conceive,u msti dah tau. Kne turunkan berat bdn, cut caffein, byk bersdekah, mase brsma jgn stress,byk bercuti ngan hubs yg penting sntiase brsangka baik dgn Allah. Sekian

@twtsecretsmy pcos Klau boleh jgn la planning. I kawin awal jgk msa 23. Lepas kawin terus dpt pcos. Now dh 29. So hard to conceive. 3 kali miscarriages. Treatment pon sana sini. Perempuan by 30 lg susah nak pregnant. Tsi, iui tak brjaya. Last choice tnggu turn ivf je ni.

@twtsecretsmy Klu mmg dah ready nk planning, amik family planning. After 2-3tahun dah ready tu,go with the flow je klu dpt anak lambat ke apa. Xpon, xpayah planning. Yg penting, buang luar pon boleh ada potensi melekat

@twtsecretsmy If takut dengan hormonal intervention utk family planning sebab takut effect current pcos, boleh try barrier method aka condom, atau buat test kesuburan kalau period regular. Tapi memang fertility berkurang dgn peningkatan umur, pcos or not. Boleh consult Dr

@twtsecretsmy Aku rasakan kau kawin dulu rasa hidup berdua, jangan buat family planning untuk long term tapi buat untuk short term mcm 6 month. Lepas 6 month kau akan rasa “kalau ada anak mesti lagi best”

@twtsecretsmy Simpan telur dan sperma.

@twtsecretsmy Bende mcm ni ko tanye doc ko je lah

@twtsecretsmy 1. Ask yourself do u want it now? 2. Check for other issues too, do HSG to check if your tubes are ok. If they’re blocked, chances to conceive naturally is low so u have to to IVF, that’d cost u around 16-30k 3. Are u planning to have the 2nd one bcs bear in mind it could be…

@twtsecretsmy Honestly, tak payah la plan. Just go with the flow. Andaikata ada masalah boleh tackle awal awal, muda2. Unur dah makin meningkat fertility pun makin kurang. Mmg plan nak ada family kan? Unless mmg kahwin nak childless thats up to you.

@twtsecretsmy We have been taunted with this mindset nanti if planning, anak x melekat. Padahal you know your body&health better. If you honestly believe that it’s better for your physical and mental health to plan, go ahead babes. Don’t listen to other ppl who is not gonna live your life&body

@twtsecretsmy Dia gini, kau nak anak, tpi taknak anak lps kawin nak tunggu dulu. But at the same time risau tak dpt anak kalau tunggu. Kalau aku, aku suruh tunang decidekan. Tpi kot tunang tak kisah, I would not do family planning. Sbb mmg nak anak. Dia diff if u taknak langsung anak.

@twtsecretsmy Family planning in nature way..keep track of your period, use other form of protection besides pills, dont intercourse with your husband if you're in most fertile days..if anything aboud taking conceptive pills because the side effects may leads to difficulty of pregnant