@stoddglenn The only pronouns I use when it comes to servers are "Excuse me, waiter"

@MilenaAmit What if he wants you to address him as waitress? 😆

@stoddglenn If they have a name tag on, I call them by their name.

@tomowenokc I try to do that, but when I was young, I was taught to be respectful and use sir or ma'am. It's a hard habit to break.

@stoddglenn Why would anyone use a pronoun when directly talking with someone?

@BeachReady65 There are servers upset when they get misgendered. Typically, I use sir or ma'am. Somehow, they find politeness to be a threat.

@stoddglenn I almost left the other day when my waiter insisted that the gingerbread man I ordered was a gingerPERSON

@Twisty58 😆 🤣 😂

@stoddglenn People like yourself are not human. A human has a soul, compassion and love. Even animals have compassion.

@carlosmorenojr I eat animals. 😆

@stoddglenn The only pronoun needed in this situation is “you”. I don’t have any need to talk about them when they are not present, so why would I need to know anything further?

@stoddglenn No

@stoddglenn I stand up and leave, while cussing out the server. I don't play games with people's delusions. I will be happy to tell them what I think of them right there for all to hear.

@stoddglenn I'd still tip them....but AFTER I ate my food, I might make a snarky comment.

@stoddglenn @Tinal0963 $0 Write on the check you can ask They/ Them for it!👍🏻🤣🤣🤣

@stoddglenn Yup, $1

@stoddglenn You think I would stay and eat there? Not a chance.

@stoddglenn No because I'm not eating there.

@stoddglenn I would leave my tip written on a little piece of paper.. "As a waiter it is your job to serve me, expecting me to serve you some fictious pronouns is a make believe game I did not want to play. My tip is "don't do stupid stuff.""

@stoddglenn Nope.