How do you guys feel when you find out you’re not really someone’s “type?” Like do you keep trying in hopes that they’ll like you for your soul and personality.. or move on so they can find their type?
As someone who doesn’t have a type really (maybe personality), but the rest do have a preference/type based on physical appearance… this has been interesting to learn to navigate
It’s just hurtful to think someone is attracted to you but you don’t fit their “ideal type” just feels like you’ll become a placeholder until they’re able to find that
@resaturnal
Gotta respect it and move on. I wish I had a type it would make if easier to reject the people im not interested in off the bat instead to being open to a persons potential/seeing where it goes and other bs
@resaturnal
unfortunately you better move on, not because your personalities couldn't be a match but because their priorities will end up hurting you in the long run
@resaturnal
uhhh honestly i’m not sure how i’d navigate that if that happened to me. usually i tell ppl off rip if i’m not your usual type, leave me alone bc i’m not gonna change to fit your ideals 😂 it doesn’t hurt to me bc i’m top tier in my brain, so if they want anything below me -
@resaturnal
I’ve loved people outside of my “type” and these people helped me realize that types don’t really matter. I still find my type most attractive when it comes to STRANGERS. But love transcends.
@resaturnal
Move on and let them find their type babe… or else you’ll constantly find yourself comparing yourself to others who are their type and you don’t need that. Trust me, you are someone’s type out there. Don’t lose hope! 🫶🏼✨🤍