@pot8um
Tbh i think im austitic for many reasons, but when i talk about it they always say that. My therapist told me im not austitic cause i can look at her in the eyes
@thintobee
I’m so sorry you’ve been invalidated by your therapist.
That’s an all-too-common misconception. I encourage her to study up on research from *this* century.
I hope you’re able to find a therapist that’s autistic-affirming, not denying.
@pot8um
People can’t see what goes on behind the scenes. The processing. So I wonder if being more open and vulnerable in that way would help? That is also risky I understand. It’s because the exp is not visible. So people need to be told.
@pot8um
It's a universal experience because neurotypicals can't grasp the fact that autistic people are people. They see us as tragic ciphers they can exploit, not people with feelings and opinions and autonomy.
@pot8um
Because just like ghosts dont always know theyre dead. People that say everyones a bit Autistic... Dont know, or accept, theyre Autistic. Hence the butthurt.
Im there wide eyed. "I see Autistic people".
Where tho B? "Everyfuckingwhere. They dont know theyre Autistic"....
@pot8um
I actually mentioned that I was autistic to one of my bosses and his daughter is autistic as well and he said he noticed a few similarities between us so he thought I might be but didn't want to outright assume.
@pot8um
The more I learn about others' experiences the more I realize how lucky I am. I fully learned I'm autistic at 50 and everyone has been really positive when I tell them. I only got one "everyone is a little bit autistic" and it was from someone that is so supportive otherwise.
@pot8um
I think education about what autism is would help. I didn't know I was autistic until I was 39 years old & happened to read about the traits. I grew up only knowing the clichés of autism (non-verbal, etc.).
@pot8um
Sadly so true and I believe because most have a stigma belief that “autism is bad and looks this way”. I had a person say “I’m impressed, I never would’ve guessed you were autistic.” Essentially complimenting my masking skills and hiding myself. I see the beauty in our hearts.
@pot8um
I suspect I might be autistic?
When I see a tweet like-
OP: If you (insert certain behavior) then...
Me: Hey, I do that!
OP:...you might be autistic
Me: Wait what
But when I was dx w/OCD my friends rolled their eyes. So I just keep autism question to myself