🦋 the selfcare lady
@oly_nb
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lover. creator. selfcare enthusiast. 𐙚⋆°。⋆♡
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Joined November 2020
I think it’s unfair how female rappers have to maintain a top tier aesthetic while the men can look like bullfrogs with tattoos & grills.
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was thinking about checking out that diddy doc but then remembered I don’t have to be reminded about how vile he is. let’s k!ll him and be done w it thankya
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Every time someone is being weird to you, I promise there’s something they’re being a coward about. If you look deeper, a lot of weirdness has roots to cowardice.
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I absolutely love when life confirms that a hard decision I made was actually the right one.
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it’s okay to give up on people. I really have come to terms with that this year.
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Go to your calendar and look at February 2026 and how perfect it is.
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this man is lucky i don’t post his name and photo after he was being transphobic on our 45 minute date. be safe baby you’re in law school let’s not ruin that reputation too fast 🙂
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Niggas hate when they have money and you still don’t like them 😂😭😭
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cancelling plans to stay home and stretch
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maybe its me but i think its too much energy to be an asshole. and if thats your baseline i simply dont want to be anywhere near you lmao
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makes me think of one time i said to someone that i need a new phone bc i saw how clear their camera was and they replied 'its not my camera its bc i know how to take a photo' like oh girl fuck you and ur camera?
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idk if its just me but it feels like people are so aggressive lately. you'll say something innocuous and the response will be so shady/rude and everyone acts like its normal to be an asshole all the time ???
Someone had DM me asking for a recipe & i gave it to him and said enjoy. and he was like “ill let you know if its good or not, i wouldn’t be saying enjoy so early” who the FUCK do y’all be feeling like?
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pay attention to the energetics of your relationships. if your self esteem skyrockets/you feel peace after cutting off someone, it means your energy was being harvested & drained by them. only surround yourself with people who bring you love, positivity, joy, safety.
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Worst thing you can suggest on here is that people have some agency over their lives. If you comment that people should make an effort towards the life they want, you’re going to get a billion responses about how it’s evil and entitled to say that.
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the way god is violently throwing me into my destiny via constant exponential growth, loss, grief and opportunity i feel like a child growing out of it’s clothes and shoes every week.
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found a black woman pcp in my new city and she just told me she’s leaving this practice
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