It’s worth noting that the type of dude who behaves this way, will always remain the longest in relationships that allow him go unchecked on poor, insensitive, or abusive behaviors.

I’m so tired of ignorant people blaming women for dating men like this in the first place. If you have even two brain cells to rub together you know that these kind of men present stable and loving facades to ensnare women into the relationships. They lie.

@nieshatrout You could easily swap men/women is this scenario. I don’t even believe they necessarily hate the opposite sex, but they do have issues about commitment and intimacy and usually choose to be with someone they know deep inside is emotionally unavailable

@ItsTerri Factually (do some research) you couldn't easily swap women in this scenario as most of this behavior is by men & does have a ton to do with misogyny & subconscious hatred of women regardless of other obvious factors I already stated like intimacy issues.

@nieshatrout Ummm, stop being crazy...might help

@nieshatrout @yashar Intamacy exposes everyone. Including crazy hot cat ladies.

@nieshatrout @yashar This is counter intuitive to everything I learned in the 90's and 2000's about being a player. I was taught that what youre doing now is called Playa Hatin'

@nieshatrout These men need Jordan Peterson.

@nieshatrout @yashar There are very few red flags that tell me more about a man than if he claims all of his exes were crazy.

@jaypoltwit no shit einstein

@nieshatrout And I’m just over here being judged by pets.

@nieshatrout They hate that they need women. They hate to be vulnerable so they label emotions as “crazy.”

@nieshatrout @yashar Also... My pet peeve is over-use of the word "crazy". It's dismissive. There's no sense of subtlety or hyperbole. Too many people describe something as 'crazy', trying to imply an excessive state, but they're trying for humor and not getting laughs.

@nieshatrout This. I needed to see this today

@nieshatrout I don’t know very many man who I would even suspect of ‘secretly hating women’. Not one off the top of my head, as a matter of fact. Judging from this thread, you have bad taste in men and haven’t reconciled the things you like in men with the behaviors that they represent

@nieshatrout Whereas we good ones stick around knowing that it’s too much trouble to have to adjust to new, different crazy every few years

@nieshatrout literally the guy my sister just dumped. she had conditions if they were to continue dating because she wanted to build a future together: drink less, smoke less, eat at home not out... basically act less like a college student. he refused, she ditched him, he called her psycho.

@nieshatrout Beyond true!