1. Continue searching for a place to be useful 2. Be contented of not being useful to anyone 3. Maybe being useful is not the only thing you can provide I guess my first love language is Act of Service.

The hardest thing in life is trying to find reasons to be useful to something or someone but everything just tells you you are not. Why do I even exist? 🫥

Tears stream down your face Lights will guide you home

It’s always the painful moments that teaches us the most.

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Future will unravels itself slowly, like how flowers bloom. How many of us able to just sit back and let the nature does it’s work?

Guys don’t take promises too seriously. :)

Maybe I am a psychopath who is afraid to accept that me who doesn’t give a fk to most things hence trying hard to act like I do.

I realised going against the current wasn’t all a bad thing. If you’re confident enough, going against the current might amplify your strength even more than you’d expected. I truly embrace anything that comes to me.

Emotion concepts are culturally constructed, it doesn’t comes naturally to human. If we scoping it down to the boundary between individuals instead of cultures, my way of expressing or experiencing the emotion concept of “happy” or “angry” is different than you.

I am definitely enjoying the month of giving before wrapping up year 2022 with people I adore much ❤️

Learning that I’m just disposable like nothing matters makes me feel better in a weird way. :D

Have you achieved deliberate practice? Or you are just working to exhaustion?

1. A clearly defined stretch goal. 2. Full concentration and effort. 3. Immediate and informative feedback. 4. Repetition with reflection and refinement.

It's not hours of brute-force exhaustion you're after, it's high-quality, thoughtful training goals pursued.

Without experimenting, you can't figure out which interests will stick, and which won't. Don't limit yourself with age, life is an experiment itself.

Grit comes from falling down each time and getting back up and continue again, no matter what.

Putting the bad mood aside SQL query #1 Recommend using subquery to limit the data you're working with in the place where it will be executed first

Someone always has to be the accommodating one. A better way to say dealing with the not so pretty stuffs.

"Just like a low resting heart rate is the byproduct of intense exercise, low anxiety is the byproduct of intense self-examination." — Naval Ravikant