Even the worst marriage still benefits men. And that's why I don't really listen when men talk about how pro-marriage they are. Anyway. I loved this chat with
@hilella
about my freedom and my right to happiness.
@lyzl
@hilella
A test I like for relationships: Ask the man what he likes about his wife/gf. If his answer is abt what she does for him, rather than abt traits abt the woman herself, then he doesn't care for her, just what services she provides for him.
See also the essay "I want a wife."